花镇情感是骗局吗，异地恋维持的合理方式是啥

 jianxinxuduo penyoudouduoduoshaoshaodejingliguoyiguolian，liangrenyouyugongzuozhonghuoxuexipeixundengwaibuyuanguergekailianggedifangshiyijianhentongchudeshier，nidelingyibanshibushichangchangmaiyuan，dajiadeqingganshibushiyulaiyudan?huazhenqingganshipianjumajiaruyouyuzheizhongertichufenshouneishiyijianshifenquehandeshier，neimayiguolianruhebaochi?xiabianjiuweidahuoergongxiangyixiayidilianweichidefangshi。

异地恋维持的合理方式一、充足的信任感

 xuduo yiguoliandepenyoudoushihuiyouyuyiguoliandanyouneiyangzhangciyiwangbujianmiandezhuangkuangxia，eryouyumeifazhangwolingyifangdezhuangkuang，jinerhuizaochengyixiecaiji，zheiyishijianxinrenganqingganjiuyuelaiyueshifenguanjianle，xuduo qinggandeliekai，doushiyouyubuxinrengangkaishide，bicizhijiandecaiji、buxinren，bianhuirangqingganmaixiangshenwang。zhangjuliwaidiganqingzhongxiaoyoudeyigeyichushi：nenggouhensuiyideyuzishendepenyoujuzaiyiqi。nixuyaozuode，bianshibaozheng rangta/tazhidao，huazhenqingganshipianjumayouguanzheiyidiannihenanxin，jishita/tahuiyuyixienimeilejiedeyixingpengyouyiqiwaichuwan。xiangxinziji，zhangqixingjianchibuxieneiyangzuoduidajiadeguanlianshishifenyouyide：jiarumeiyicita/tashuodaoyaogenyixingyiqiniyejiuhenyoutifangxin，neizhangciyiwang，lingyifangbianhuicaiyishifouyouyunihebiededeyixingpengyouyiqideqingkuangxiayouzuolebaoqianta/tadeshier。danjiarunianxinta/tadehua，huihuodedaliangdexinrengan，zheizhongxinrengankeyiqingchuyiqiezhongtedadecaijiyuduji。

异地恋维持的合理方式二、沟通交流处理

 zaiyiqideliangrenchangchanghuizhengchao，erzhengchaodeyuanguquanshitongchangquanshisuoshi，zaitongchengwangdelianggerenhenyoukenengwujiexunsuhuijiechu。eryiguoliandeqinglvchaojialeyaohaozhangshijiancaikeyihehao，youyudajiabukeyiyixiazijiukandaolingyifang，jiarubicizhijianmeiyouyouxiaodegoutong，neimatongchangshierhuiyuelaiyuegengweifanza，liangrendoushihuiyuelaiyuejiaolvqingxuhenwunai。

异地恋维持的合理方式三、控制情绪