花镇情感咨询曝光，结婚到底该挑个什么男人？

 chupengguoneiyangyigeshili：neishigebiaozhunhenfeichanghaodenvren，zhangxiang，gongzuozhong，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，jiazhong……meiyangchuse，danbianshineimechusedenvren，huijie2cihun，lile2cihun，qijinhaimeizhaodaoxingfukuailedelingyiban。

 diyiciwanhunshi，tabenzhegaobiaozhunquzhao，babamamaqinpenghaoyougegedoushuo，“haobiaozhuncaiyouhaoquebao，gecengmianyingjianpeizhibuhaodenanrenhaowuyiwenguoburizi”。kanyixiashenpanghaoguimimenyouyujiadejinguixueryishiwuyoushenghuofuyuyouranzideguorizi，tajianxin，biaozhunbianshizhenzhi。yinci，tadiyirenlaogongbiaozhunshifenyouyi，qiyezongjingli，youfangyouche，zijiyanjiusheng，babamamagaoxueli。zhaolishuoyingdangzhenxingfuba，danshi，tashuoyidianyebuxingfukuaile。diyirenlaogongtaimang，mangliugongzuoyagengubudexifu，yizhengyeyizhengyejianbuzheshenying，guzhennanrenshitacaigaoqingchu：zishenshigebixurentengdexiaonvren……jiehunyinianhou，talilehun。

 dierciwanhunshi，zhoubianhaoguimimenjitachuxiangfa：“chujiayaojiatiexinren”。shuodemeicuoer，zheixiejiageilexinshiqihaonanrendelaoxueshengmen，youyulaogongdefenwaitiexinwenxun，richangshenghuodeziziyangrun。tayouxinle，yincitadedierrenlaogongjinguanshouyiburujiurenlaogongdewufenzhiyi，danweirenzhengzhihenwenrou。rizibuduanlebushang2nian，guinvbujiuchushi，fufumaodunjiuyulaiyuehua。taxianlaogongtaimeizhujian，laogongxiantataiguojiaozong。chaochaonaonaoleyinianduo，zaidulilehun。

 rujin，tadeliangrenqianrenlaogongdouyougouchenglejiazhong，meimanxingfu，zhiyoutahuanshigukulingding。qijintayenonggaobudong：weihexiangtongtiaojianxiatongyangxingzishengzhangxixingdenanren，qitanvrenjiukeyihuodexingfukuaile，erzishenruhejiuzhiyouyiliyishouweini?

tingwantadehua，woxunwenta：“nirenweimeimanhunyinshinaxiede?”

takaolvdaoledabantian，shuo：“meimanhunyinyinggaishiyigeqiangdadenanrenpeizaiwoshenbian，kangqiyigejia。”

 yinci a，yaoxiangyigenengpeizaizishenshenpangdenanren，neimejiubuyinggaiqujiadiyirenlaogong，yougongzuodenanrenyibantaimang，meikonggaoxierichangshenghuoqingdiao。

 eryaoxiangyigeqiangdadenanren，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，yebuyingdangqujiadierrenlaogong，taiwenxundenanrentongchanggexinghuabuqiang，quefaguoshanghaorizidebaqicelou。

zheimingjiaguo2cidenvren，shijishangnayicidoumeigaogaoqingchuzishenxiangjiageishei。

 tashinvrendechangjianwenti：woguonvrenbujiazishenkanzhongdenanren，zhijiadahuoerkanzhongdenanren。dahuoerdoushuonagenanrenhao，yincitayejiurenkenagenanrendehao。tarendehunyinshenghuokanshangquxingfukuaile，tazhixushengbanyingtaojiukeyi。

 gouwudahuoshuo“zhixuanhaode，meixuanguide”，dannvrenchujiatongchangshi“zhixuandingde，meixuanheshide”。nvrenwanhundoutaijiangbiaozhun，zongpachidakui，yebukentaileiji，meigerendouqidaiyitiaozuihaojindaozhitongdaodazhan，yinci，kaobei+niantie，dangranshifeichangjiandandefangfa!ziran，zheiyihou，shifouqueshiguodeshushi，jiubuhaoshuole。yiyangderichangshenghuo，buyiyanggexinghuaderenlaiguo，changchangchangchusuantiankulabuyiyangdeweidao。zheijiushihunyinshenghuodeguaiyizhichu，kaobeierchengde，tongchangshibuyiyangdeneirong!

 jinguan，yixienvrenguozheyifenguangxianliangliderichangshenghuo，danyingduibierendeyanxian，taquezhishuo：“xieshunanshou，jinyouwodejiaolejie。”