花镇情感咨询曝光，别为爱情而迷失自己

 zhenzhengdeaiqingbashuangrendao，zaixuduo qingkuangxianvhaixunzhaonanpengyouhou，huibazijiderichangshenghuozhongxindianchedifangdaolingyifangdeshenshang，zheibudanbulidajiadeganqingfazhanqushi，fandaohuirangzishenmituzaiganqingzhong，bazijinongdebiantilinshang。huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，ganqingbixuyunying，ninenggaibianzishen，keshibiemishifangxiang。

错误观念一：舍弃理想

 xuduo denvsheng，zaichuduixiangyihou，huichedidezijintouruganqingzhong，yizhiyusheqixuduo ，zaiqizhongbaohanzishendelixiang。keshizhenshizhenzhengainideren，shibushedejinisheqilixianghua，sheqiquanbutiaoxuande。

genghekuangganqinghelixiangnenggoujiangu，weishenmeyaosheqizishendelixiangni?

错误观念二：改变价值观念

yinweilianggerenzhiqiandejiatingqingkuang，jiaoyujinglidengdoubuyiyang，yinci lianggerendejiazhiguanbidingburongyiwanquanyizhi。

 dangjiazhiguannianchanshengfenqi，tiyidajialianggerenxianghukuanrong，xianghuzhijianrenrangyibu，bingfeiyouyujiazhiguannianyouchabie，jiuyouyideshunconglingyifang，laigaibianzishendebiaozhun。

niyaoguoma，jiarunilianzishendeyishidougaibian，nijiangburongyizaijiushini，haizennengquebaolingyifangyiranainini?

错误观念三：掩藏自身

 weilegenghaodishuncongzishendenanhaizi，xuduo nvshenghuiyouyidequyanzangzishen，danzheiganghaoshiyizhongcuowuguannian，youyushiqunixiyinzhutadediqu。

 shijishangnibingbuyidingweitagaibian，yaoshiduitachongzuhao，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，jibian nibushitaxiaidenvwangzhonglei，danjianxintayehuilibukaini。

错误观念四：牺牲自己的時间

 xishengzijideshijian，yizhipeizhelingyifang，tashifeichangdadecuowuguannian。ganqingbushinirichangshenghuodesuoyou，zairichangshenghuozhongniyeyougongzuozhong，yeyouheguimi、qinrenjiaowangdeshijian，bieyinweiaiersheqibiededeshijian。

 weishenmeyaojiniderenshengdaoluzaoshoutarendezhuzaizheni?jibian tashizheifenairen，niderenshengdaoluyezhiyouyounizijicaozong。

错误观念五：别为情感而危害决策

 ganqingbingbingbushinenggoulingjiayurenhedongxishangde，jibian nifeichangaifeichangaita，yebubiweizhulingyifangzhuan，nixuyaozhangwoxiaoriziheganqingdejunheng。

qianwanbierangqingganweihainidejuece，rangzishendexinligangkaishixiangyibianwaixie。

错误观念六：别忽略自身

yixienvhaizaichuduixiangshi，huixiandehenshenhenshen，tashibuliganqingkuailechengzhangde。