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dajiaduiyijianshiqingdedianpingchangkaolvdao“yuqingyulihebufuhe”，shijishangzheidaochulenanshihenvshiguanxindeshijiaoheshanyudeneirong，yibandangqinglvchaojiashi，nanxingquxiangyutaolun“yuli”denanti，ernvshichangjujiaodianyu“yuqing”denanti。liru：

nv：“qinaidede，jinrishishenmerizihaijideme?”

nan：(zuosiyouxiangzhuang)“bujidele。”

nv：“jintiandajialejiesanzhounian，nilianzheiyiyebuhaijidele?”

nan：“a?yidingshiyouyuwojinqigongzuozhongzhenshitaimangle，jingranlianzheiyishenghuodouwangjile。”

nv：“deleba，yiqiandejihuijieriyejiushiwogennitishinicaijizhude，shuo，shibushinibuaiwole?”

nan：“zheidounagennaa，woyuanbenjirizidegongzuonenglijiucha，niyebingbushibuqingchu。”

nv：“danshimeiyicinimamadeshengchennidouhaijideyiqingerchu，shifouzainixinliwoshigebieren?”

nan：“shengchenhejierinengyiyangma?shengchenyinianjinyouyici，danshinijiaowojilaodejieriqueshitaiduole。”

nv：“nishishuowoshiqingguoduo?”

nan：“bushia，wodeyisishixiangbiaoshuweishajibudezheizhongjieri。”

nv：“bierendoushuoyiqingbieliandediyibubianshiwangjiliangrenlingrennanwangdeshenghuo?shuo，shibushinineixinyoutarenle?”

nan：“bubianshimeijilaoyicijierima?zhiyuma?lebuqimingriwotongtongpeizheni。”

nv：“meijilaojierijiujixiwangyunazheiyiwanjiu?nijiangwodangsansuixiaopengyouhongma?”

nan：“neimeniyaoruhe?”

nv：“nijiushibuguanzhuwo!bunawomendeqinggandangyihuishi!”

……

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xianeryijian，nanxingyizhizaichangshiyilishuodonglingyifang，ernvxingzezaidataojinhu。

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ruguowomennenggouxiangdianyingshoufaneibanjiangzheiyijingcaipianduanzhongxinlaiguo——

nv：“qinaidede，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，jinrishishenmerizihaijideme?”

nan：(zuosiyouxiangzhuang)“bujidele。”

nv：“jintiandajialejiesanzhounian，nilianzheiyiyebuhaijidele?”

nan：“a?yidingshiyouyuwojinqigongzuozhongzhenshitaimangle，jingranlianzheiyishenghuodouwangjile。”

nv：“deleba，yiqiandejihuijieriyejiushiwogennitishinicaijizhude……”

nan：“woyuanbenjirizidegongzuonenglijiucha，niyebingbushibuqingchu。”

nv：“ng，danshizheirangwobukaixin。”

nan：“baoqian，yuanyiweiwomenzhongjianzaoyilaidaonenggouwuxujinjinjijiaozheizhongdehuanjiele，zhongjiuwomenzouzaiyiqizheimeduonianle，kanlaishiwodexiangfabudui，jieriduinieryanhenzhongyao，wozhihouhuiliuyi。”

nv：“ng，wogangcaideyikouqiyebutaihao，shijishangwoshixiangrangnilejiewohengaoduzhongshiwomendeqinggan。”

nan：“womingbailede，nishiwoxinzhongpengdaodezuihaoshidenvsheng，yinweiwohengaoduzhongshini。”

nv：“nitaihuaile，jiulejiezuichuntian。”

zenyang?menghuanbandejieguoba?gongzhuhewangziyouxingfukuailedi、dadanaonaodirichangshenghuolaidaoyiqi。