“nuanwei”zishizhizhongshixinlizhuangtaideyigenci,puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,zongzaibuzhibujueyintong。laogonghuonanpengyoushenpangdenuanweitongshipobudeyifang!guicaigejiaoni5zhao,buguanyingduinazhongdenanren,nidounengqingsongjiejuetadenuanweitongshi。
nvrenkebiexiaoqiaozheilei“nuanwei”guanlian,jinguanbiaocengkanshangquweihaibuda,danyichongzujinixinlizhuangtaijiqidanxin。tahenvtongshideaimei,huoxulianlaogongjingshenchuguidoutanbushang,danbianshineiyifensesedejuede,jiniwufashihuai。
1.确立自身的道德底线
zaipengdaozishenlaogongheruanruoleinvhaizinuanweishi,guangjieshanyuan,zhuangkelinglaishoumairenxinde。guanhuzhangzhijiuan,qikeguxi?dangfajueyounuanweiquxiangshi,jinkuaibabumanyihenaonudashengshuochulai,jitamendingxiaguiding,shitalejienirenshoudedaodedixian。buranyirenzairen,ouyoumaiyuan,tafanjuedeniyoudianerxinxiongxiaai。zaipengdaonuanweidianhua,jiluxialaihao,mashangbohuiqu,luoluodafanggaozhita,zishenlaogongmeifaguangjieshanyuan,rangtagaoqingchunibushibaifang。
2.敲醒敲警钟
pengdaoduiwaikaifangzhongleidenvhaizi,mingbaiyunyongzishennianqingyoudian,puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,lingwailaoshaopeiyeshencengcinanrenxin。hebuxiaomimidigentajiangxiazishenqiyedeleisinvren,xiaochutadecijixinggan。yaobujiugancuixuehuifangxiashenzihetadouyichang,chuandebitahaiyaomeihaigaoya,bitagengshishangchaoliuhaigengduiwaikaifang。
3.告知另一方没空
pengdaokenpeizhenilaogongdayouxi,yinjiudengnvzhongguohanzizhongleidenvren,bubidianjizhecanjiadaotahetadeshineikongjian,jinzaofenpeishikebiaocaisuanshizhenglu。yunyonggezhonggeyangsuosuishitabaituobudiaoshen,shitaxuehaoqinzigaozhilingyifang“womeishijian”。zuizhong,haijidesuishouxiangxijieshaohaoduogenanhaierjita,jiejueletadedanshengonghai,nidegerenshijiandangranjiuhuodequebao!
4积极交谈冷暴力
pengdaowangliaoxingnvren。niyidingyaolixingdihenanpengyoutanyitan,qianwanbuyaotidaonideduji,jinjinshuo,jinqixiaohuobanmenduitadedianpingjinijuedehenmeiqingmian,duojujigelizhengjitamen,duitashuojinguan“shenzhengbuhaipashenyingxie”,danhaiyaodangxinbierendeliuyanfeiyu!yunyongzizun,shitajijilengbaoli。
nayigenianqingxiaohuobuliaoqq?jishinifenggandiaoleta,rengjiuyeyoushoujiweixinhe“momozhibo”,lianbbsdoukenengshiyidilianturangceng——rujinhulianwangshangdewangyoujianmianguoduo,liangzhezhijianquchajiluzhengchao,hebuzuoxialaitanyitan。
5,充分利用网络
a、shenqingzhucelingyigeid,yilurendeqingkuang,xiangnideneiyiweisukubeixxpaoxiadetongchu。
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