有被花镇骗过的吗？如何使你的男人从情感关系获得快乐

 shinidenanrenlingwaicongganqingshanghexingxingweishangdedao huanlebingbuyi。shinidenanrenganqingshangdedao huanle，niwubizixizhangwotadeyaoqiuerqielejieheshijiyutashineikongjian。yaojinidenanrenjifaxinghuanle，niwubishizheyixiexindewupinerqieyaoyouchuangxinjingshen。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？danzuizhongyaodehuanshizainitaohaonidenanrendelingwainizijijuedehuanle。jiaruniyaoxianglejieruheshinidenanrencongganqingguanlianhexingxingweishangdedao huanle，qingkanxiamiandefangshi。

1、掌握你男人的思绪。

 rutongnvrenyiyang，nanrenyeshiganqingxiaodongwu。jiaruniyaoninanrendedao ganqingshangdehuanle，nixuyaozhangwotadeniantouerqieyijutadetihuilaixingdong。zaininanrendeshenshanghuadeshijianyueduo，niyejiuyuenengzhangwotadesixuerqiefanyingyuekuaisu。yaozhangwoninanrensixu，youjizhongwupinbixujilao：

 •niyinggaizhidaotaheshizaisisuo，yaoxiangyigerendaihui，huoshiheshitabukaixinyaoxiangxiangniqingtuhuodekuanwei——jiarunigaohunlezheierzhongqingxu，yaobuhuilingtajuedeshixiyaobushitashengshuni。

 •jiarutayouyukailechehuoshidaguoyichangsaishierjuedeqifen，shitafangqingsongyidian。rujinbingbushixiangyongtahuoshixiantannipenyoudeshijian。

 •jiaruniyaoxiangyunidenanrenkaizhanyiciyongxindejiaotan，zhidaotaxinqingyukuaishizaitan。jiarudangtayalitaidashi，nichangshimingquetichuyigeyansurenzhendehuatitaolunerqieshitadaliangditaolun，nikendingbuhuihuodeniyaoxiangdejieguo。

2、激励他。

 shinidenanrenhuodeganqingshangdehuanle，nixuyaolejieruhejilinidenanrenerqieyanxingyizhi。ninengduitashuotashiduomedederangrenchayi、pojucaiqihuoshihenfengqulaijilita，erqiexiezhutawanchengzishendelixianghuahezongtimubiao。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？jiarunizuobudaobubisuiyijilita——zainixiezhutaqianxingshiwubihenzixi。

•jiarutayouyichangguanjiandezuqiubisaishi，jitamenzuoquqibingganhuoshiqianyitianyelidadianhuajitashitalejienideguanzhu。

 •jiarutajiexiaquyouyichangguanjiandekaoshi、fangtanhuoshiguanjianshiyi，kuajiangtaerqieshitajuededaozishenbutongxunchangjinershitadedao shehuizhengnengliang。

3、使他了解你是多么的的喜爱他——但无需偏激。

 shinanrendedao ganqingshangdehuanle，nixuyaoshitalejienishiduomededezaihuta——buguannizhenaitahuoshixiaitadesuoyou。ruguoniduinidenanrenshuoyishengzaijianshi，shitalejienihenaitahuoshitafeichanghao，erqiezainimeiyicichumenshizuishaozhaodaoyigeyuanyinlaikuanweita。ninengshitalejietahenbutongxunchangerwuxulingtajuedeshixihuoshipianji。

 •niwuxuyitianjitamenfa20tiaoduanxiaoxiduitashuoyouduoxingganmirenhuoshinijibukenaixiangjianta——neiyanghuilingtajuedeshouzuwucuo。

•baozheng nideweihaishihuxiangde。jiaruniyizhiduitashuotafeichanghaoermeiyouhuodedafu，biaomingyoushenmewenti。

4、不必太黏人。

 jiaruniyaonidenanrendedao ganqingshangdehuanle，nixuyaolejieheshiniyinggaichuxianerheshiyingdangtaobijitamenbixudeshineikongjian。niandetaimibukefen，xianggentayitian24xiaoshizaiyiqi，bujitayuxiongdimenquwandeshijian，dangtameiyoushenpangmei15miaojiuchayicigang。sheihuixiaineiban?meiyourenhui。

 •buguandajiadeguanlianshiduomededeyongxin，dajiadoubutaikenengmeiyigeyelizaiyiqi。yunidehaoguimiquwan，shitahetadexiaohuobanmenzaiyiqi。

 •jiarunineiyitianbuyuanchulai，ninengyoushihoulianluotayiliangci，bubimeiyigezhongtoudoujitamentongdianhua，tebieshizaijiushinilejietayudepenyouzaiyiqishi，neibantabianhuifahuo。

 •jiaruniyaoyibuzhanren，zewubiyaoxunzhaozishendexingquaihao，youlenizishenxiangyaozuodeshi，keyizuodandubuyongninanrendexiezhu。niyinggaixiangyouyuninanrenzaiyiqidesuiyue，erbuyinggaijiniderichangshenghuojinjinweiraozhetalaizhuan。

5、学好让步。

 shinidenanrendedao ganqingshangdehuanle，dangdajiajianyichanshengmaodunshi，niyinggaixuehaorangbu。niyinggaizhidaodajialiangrendoukeyihuodedajiayaoxiangde，huoshizhaodaonizuiheshidedefangshishidajiajuedehuanle。xuehaorangbudaibiaozhemeimeinizuochuyigejueceshinidouyingdangkaoliangzishenyuninanrendequanyi。

•dajiahaikeyilunzhehuodedajiayaoxiangde——nenggouyouniquyudingwanfandecanguan，taerdingyingpiao。

 •shizhongbubizuoyigezhijizijikaolvdaodenvhaier，youyuneiyangnanrenhuijuedexiangbichaoyijiaeryan，jitayaoxiangdehuigengjianyi。

•zaiyiduanhaodeguanlianzhong，shuangfangdouyingdangshanyurangbu。

•zaichanshengfenqishi，yaoxuehaodaiqinggandetantaodanyebubikujiao。

6、不必打架斗殴。

 meiyoubidajiadouou、zhengzhihuoshimanbujiangligenglingnanrenyanfandele。jiarujiniyouqiguanjiandeshierbixutantao，buyaozaiqunzhongchangsuohetazhengzhigengbubixiwangtatongyinideguiding。dangchanshengfenqishixuehaoweichiningjingdeyuqibingfeidadanaonao。

 •jiaruniqueshixiangzhengchao，xiangyixiangniweiheyaozhengchao，nidaodizaishengshenmeqi。zaiwanshandejihuizhaofangfataolunyixiazheiyihuatitaolun。

7、当他心情不好时，不必问起是不是生你的气。

 zheishiyigenvrenyifandebuzhengque。jiarunidenanrenxianzhudezainaopiqierqienibuquedingxingshiweishenme——huoshijibian nilejieyuangu——nilejienimeifashitabianhao，neimajiaruniwen，“niyizhizaishengwodeqima?wojiangshuocuolemeiyou?”jiarunidenanrenmeiliyoushengnideqiertazhengqiaoqingxuyoubutaihao，zheihuilingtajuedegengzaogao。

 •nixuyaolejieyoujizhongzhuangkuangjiushinikongzhibulede。jiarutaneiyitianbuyukuai，neibianshibuyukuai——tadequanqiubingbuweizhunizhuan。

8、还记得要开心。

 yixienvrenyimeidiqinfendazaochujizhideguanlianerwangjileshifangyali、ningjingjiqihelingyifangzaiyiqiganshouxingfu。suiranguanlianzheyanyuchuangjianpingwen、mibukefendelianluo，danyiyangyuhahadaxiao，kuailehelijingqimiaodeshikexiangguan。jiaruniyunidenanrenbukeyichangchanghahadaxiao，neimatajiangbukeyidedao ganqingshangdehuanle。