宝宝的小脑瓜里总有着各种各样奇妙的幻想,别看他们人小,问题还真不少。面对这样的“好奇宝宝”,每天追着问“为什么”,爸爸妈妈该如何满足宝宝的好奇心呢?与好奇宝宝互动呢?
一、满足好奇宝宝的方法
1、鼓励孩子非常规的玩法
haoqixinheyinenggoushangshengweichuangzaoli?youshikaodezhengshiyizhongfeichangguideyouxishouduan。biruhaizibazijiaichideguaiweidouheyupihuashengmaijintulidengdai“faya”,mamabuyaopobujidaidiganshehaizi,shitujianghaizizhuaihuisuowei“zhengquedeguidao”shanglai,zheiyangqiaqiashihaizicuoguolexuduofaxianwenti、jiejuewentidejihui。
2、做“不知道”妈妈,激发孩子的探究心
mamaduihaizidewentiyigaifuyanshuo“buzhidao”,dangranhuidayahaizi“daposhaguowendaodi”dereqing,danruohaizimeiciwen“weishenme”,mamadoumangbudiedijichubiaozhundaan,weibijiandeshihaoshi,zheidengyushitihaizishengqueletanjiudeguocheng,erpeiyanghaizihaoqixindezuijiafangshishijiaohuihaizi“yanjiufangfa”,jiaotaxuehuisikao、xuehuiquzhaoxunzhengquededaan。
3、不要以成人的思维约束孩子
baobaoderenzhiyouxian,kenenghuiyouhenqiguai、chaochuchengrenluojideshexiang,zheigeshihoumamaqiejiyichengrendesiweifangshilaishufuhaizidexiangxiangli。biruhaiziguanchadaojuedaduoshuluoyediaozaidishangdoushi“zhangxinxiangxia”,tahuirenweineishi“luoyebaobao”zaiqinwendadimama,mamakeyigulizheigexiangfa,erbubiqiangdiaoshuo“luoyebushibaobao,luoyezhishipiaoxialai,luoyemeiyouqinwendadi”。
4、创设满足孩子好奇心的环境
duihaizilaishuo,zaitamenderichangshenghuohuanjingzhong,daochuyunhanzhekegongtansuodeziyuan,suibiannageqingjing,doukenengchengweiyinfahaizihaoqixin、youdaohaizitichugezhongwentidexuexichangsuo。mamayaozuodeshouxianshixiaochuhuanjingzhongdebuanquanyinsu,ranhoujiukeyiyijuhaizidexingqutigonggezhongshijiancailiaohegongju,fangshouranghaiziqutansuo。
5、满足好奇宝宝,锻炼生活能力
好奇的孩子多半有超乎常人的“动手欲望”,表现为两岁不到的孩子一定要拿家中的电视遥控器当“玩具”,不给他就大哭大闹;或者还够不着水池的孩子,自告奋勇在帮妈妈洗菜、做饭,与其担心他们“闯祸”,破坏遥控器或弄伤自己,不如教给他各种用具的使用方法。只要妈妈因势利导,重要的收获还包括锻炼孩子的生活能力,使他在未来的探索活动中积累经验,也更有自信。
二、家长与好奇宝宝互动的方法
1、无条件满足宝宝的好奇心
jiarubaobaoduidianshiyaokongqihuoqitashiwufashenglexingqu,yuqidanxintamenhuihuaiwujian,burujiaojishiyongfangfa,manzubaobaoxiangyaozijicaozuodehaoqixin。liru,mamizaichufangmangliushi,baobaozongxihuangenjinqumomozheilimomoneili。zheishi,mamijiukeyianpaibaobaoganxielisuonengjideshiqing,rurangtaxihuanggua、xihongshi、banliangcai,bangzhemaminadiaoliaodeng。
zaizheiyiguochengzhong,baobaojiukeyilejieyixieshucaidetexing,guanchashiwushengshuqianhoudebianhuadeng,shihaoqixindedaolejinyibudemanzu。erqie,haiyoukenenggenghaodijifabaobaogengshencengcidehaoqixin,peiyangtansuoshiwudenengli。zheiyangjinengmanzubaobaodehaoqixin,yejilebaobaoduanliandejihui,youzhuyubaobaogenghaodijileishenghuojingyan。
2、不要以成人的思维约束宝宝
youyubaobaoderenzhiyouxian,yincichangchanghuiwenhenduoqiguaidewentihuozhechanshenghenduoqiguaidexiangfa。dangbaobaoduimouxiangshiwuchanshengxingqudeshihou,jiuhuijianchibuxiedidaposhaguowendaodi。mianduibaobaodehaoqixin,mamiyidingyaorenzhenduidai,qiejiyichengrendesiweifangshilaishufubaobaodexiangxiangli。biru,baobaojiuxiaocaole,mamitixingbaobaobuyaojiuxiaocao,baobaozhizhezijixiaoshoushangdelvsehenrenzhendishuo:“zheiyangxiaocaohuikude。”mamikeyishuo:“neijiurangxiaocaokuhuiba”。mamimeibiyaoyidingyaogaosubaobaoxiaocaobuhuiku。
3、创设满足宝宝好奇心的环境
duibaobaolaishuo,zaitamendeshenghuohuanjingzhong,daochuyunhanzhefengfudekegongtansuodeziyuan。jialideketing、chufang、yangtai,huwaidegongyuan、malu、suibiannagexiaojijiaogala,dounengchengweiyinfabaobaohaoqixin、youdaobaobaotichuwentidexuexichangsuo。
mamiyaozuodeshouxianshixiaochuhuanjingzhongdebuanquanyinsu,binggenjubaobaodexingqushishishiduditigongcailiaoheshijianjihui,gulitamendongshoutiyan。congmingdemamihuicaiquyixiefangfalaibangzhubaobaoxunzhaotamenxuyaodedaan,bingjinyibuyindaobaobaoshenrutanjiushiwudeaomi。
4、做个和宝宝一样好奇的妈咪
ruguomamiduizhouweishiwuxiandeshifenlengdan,shenzhiduibaobaodehaoqixinbuyiweiran,neimebaobaodehaoqitianxingjiuhuizaiwuxingzhongshoudaoyazhi。yinci,mamiyeyaozaibaobaomianqianzuogetongxinweimindedahaizi,yindaobaobaoqufaxianwenti,bingxunzhaojiejuewentidedaan。
biru,daibaobaowaichudeshihou,mamikeyizaiyewaixunzhaoyixiebijiaoqitedehuacaoshumu,bijiaoxiaoniao、xiaokunchongdejiaosheng;faxianbutongzhongleihuozhetongyizhongleizhiwu、dongwushenzhishitou、nituzhijiandexiweiqubiedeng。
5、在游戏中正确诱导宝宝的好奇心
宝宝到了2-3岁时特别喜欢敲敲打打,妈咪可以提供几根不同形状、不同质地的棍棒(圆头的、小而短的,木制的、橡胶制的等),让他们尝试敲打不同质地的物品,满足他们的好奇心;也可蒙上宝宝的眼睛妈咪来敲打敲打,让宝宝辨别妈咪敲打了什么。这样就可以引导宝宝探究不同质地的棍棒敲打在同一物品上,产生的声音会有什么不同;同一质地的棒子敲打在不同物品上,产生的声音又有什么不同等。这样,会引导宝宝在好奇的基础上探索更多事物的奥秘。
6、鼓励宝宝有更多非常规的玩法
haoqishichuangzaolideyuanquan,danshibaobaojinjintingliuzaihaoqishiyuanyuanbugoude。biru,baobaobuanchangguidefangshiyouxi,mamibuyaopobujidaidiganshebaobao,shitujiangbaobaozhuaihuisuoweizhengquedeguidao。zhengshitongguozheizhongfeichangguidewanfa,baobaocainengrangtadehaoqixindedaodefahui。biru,baobaozaidajimu,shuotaxiangdagefangzi,danzaihaoburongyibafangzidaqilaihoukenenghuisuijibaganggangdajianchenggongdefangzituidao。
baobaozheimezuokenengshixiangyaolejietuidaofangzihuichuxianyixieshenmehouguo:fangzidaotashihuifachushenmeyangdexiangsheng?fangzidaotashijimukuaikenenghuichaozheshenmeyangdefangxiangsanluo?fangzidaotahouhainengbunenghuifutayuanlaidemoyang……zheishihou,mamiqianwanbunengaonaodihechibaobao:“kankanni,haoburongyibafangzidahao,wokezaibupeinidale。”
7、和宝宝一同探究事物的奥秘
baobaohuiyouhenduoguguaidexiangfa,biruchilewuxianghuashengtakenenghuiqiguai:zheizhongyouhenduoweidaodehuashengshizenmezuochulaide?zhongchulaide?zhuchulaide?mianduibaobaodehaoqixin,mamikeyiyindaotamenshexianghenduodekeneng,ranhoubangzhubaobaoyiyizhengshi,huoshiyiyifoujue。congmingdemamikeyijibaobaozhunbeiyigehuapen,hebaobaoyitongzhongxiahuasheng,zaiyidaoqinzixiachuzhuhuasheng。ranhou,daitamendaochaoshimaigezhonghuasheng,youkenengdehuahaikeyidaibaobaoqugongchangkankan,rangbaobaolejiezheixiehaochidehuashengshizenmezuochulaide。
baobaozaizuozheixiehuodongdeguochengzhongkenenghuiyudaohenduowenti,biru,tamenkenenghuiyihuoyaozenmecainengrangzhongchudehuashengyougezhonggeyangdeweidaoni?mamibubizhijiejibaobaodaan,rangtamenzijidadandiqushexiang。yexu,baobaodexiangfazaichengrenkanlaikenenghenkexiao,ruweileranghuashengyouweidao,kenengxiangdaoyaobatang、lajiao、huajiao、daliaodengdiaoliaoliantonghuashengyiqizhongxiaqu。buyaochaoxiaobaobao,zhiguanrangtamendadanchangshihaole。
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