夫妻无安全感怎么解决呢

　　fuqiwuanquanganzenmejiejueni，youyiciyuehaolexifuchulaiyiqichifan，daocanguantingtang，yingyeyuanjiujixuanzeyuxiangxijieshaocaimu，dianlecaidajiawangzuoweizouzhe，zhengqiaocikekanjianleyiweiqiyedenvtongshi。woshizhendehengaoxingkandaota，bingliaoleyixia，kaiyixiekaiwanxiaodehua。xiangbudaozheimeqiaohuidaotongyigefandianyushang，lingyifangweixiaozheda：duia。wojiuhaoyidelejieyaobuyaoyiqi?woneigetongshikanwohexifuzaiyiqijiuwanyanjujuele。zheishihouwolaopofangxiawoshou，wangpangbiandezuoweisuizhezuoxiale。zhihouyishidaolezheibujinrangqihenbukaixin，hairangtazaidajiadeyuehuizhongjuedebubeizhongshi。

　　youxieshihouwomenbingbushiyouyizheimezuo，danhenduolaogongzhengzaizuoneiyangxiangjindeshiqingdeshihou，huishilaoponanshoubingcaiyi。erqizixiangyaodejiushinizhenshideganshouhexijieshangdezhuyaobiaoxian，erbushiyiweidebiaoshuzheijianshi。

　　zheilihaiyou5zhongrangnidenvrengandaoyouandingganfangshi：

　　1.总是会在聚会上详细介绍她

　　zainicanyudemeiyigejuhuizhong，nidenvrenquanshivip，niyehenrongxingyuqiziyiqicanjiazheiyangdehuodong。ruguonixuanyongzheiyangdexintaidehua，nijiangyongyuanwangbulejiangtajieshaojitongshihuopengyou。niyaoshibuxiangxijieshaota，neishihourangtagandao，zainixinzhongtadechuxianhentannitai，huanjuhuashuotaduiyunilaishuobuzuguanjian。peiyangxianbaitadexiguan，bingxunsurangqicongjuhuihuodongliaotianshicanyuqizhong。

　　2.千万不要对他说谎

　　fuqiwuanquanganzenmejiejueni，yigeshanliangdehuangyanyoushenmeqingkuang?yigehuangyanjiuhuiyongxuduohuanghuaqumibuzheigedaoliwojuededouqingchu，jiusuannijuedenidehuangyanbuhuishanghaita，zhangyuanlaikan，nihaishicuole。ruguonilaopoxunwenniyige“quantao”leiwentishi，henduonanrenjiuhuijuedepobudeyishuohuang，biru“zheiyifuchuandeshihenfeima?”dangxiangzheizhongnantiniqianwanbuyaolijidedaan“shi”，ziranyewuxushuohuang，shuoshihua：“wobujuedezheiyifunengtuchunibijiaohaodepinpaixingxiang”，ranhouzaijitacankaoyixia，wojuedezheiyifunenggou，jiukeqingsongjiejue。

　　3.一直征询她的意见建议

　　zairichangshenghuozhongninyoumeiyoutingguoninlaopocengjingshuoguo：zheijianshiqingniweishenmebugenwoshuo?niweishenmebuyuwoshangyi?nizenmebuwenwojiujuedingle?yikaishiwoganjueyouxiesuoshihaixuyaowenni?birushuowoxianghuangeshouji，jiaruzizuozhuzhang，huijiazhihoujiukaishiwuxiuzhile。zhihoucaifanyingguolai，jiaruwolijizuolejueding，tajuedezijibuhuibeibaokuozainei，tayehuijuedezijibeidihuile。yincizaizuochuzheizhongjuedingshi，kaolvdaotajianjie，jibianbuhuihendaqueding，youxianxuanzeshangliangzhelai。eryoushidangjuzhemi，tajianyizhiguanzhongyao，buyaohulveta。

　　4.守护她

　　zhangfuyaoqiutamenzaishenshang，ganqingfangmianhezaijingshenshangweihutadelaopo。dangyourenduitashilishi，nixuyaotingshenerchujianghua。jiarunizinvdui“muqindeguize”juedeqinaoshi，nibianhuiganyuhaishuo：zheiguidingyeshifuqindeguize。hanweita，bingbushikankantarouruo，ershiweihubaoyangtazizun，zhixingzijishizhangfudezeren。“nixuyaozuonifuwuchengnuozaihunlishangyaoxiangchengweidenansheng”。nidenvrenhuigandaoanquan，yinweitazhidaotayouyigeweitaerzhandezhangfu，jibianshixijieshang。

　　5.让其参与进来

　　chufeishiyixieteshudejuhuihuodong，chulezheige，jinkenengrangqinenggoucanyu，rangtazhidaonizaiganshenme，rangtazhidaonanrenzaiwaimiandejianxin，rangtazhidaonidexinliyizhiyouzheta。bingqiesuoyoujialijuhuihuodong，baohanxiaopengyoumenyiqichuquwan，wanyouxi，nidoudezhudongyaoqing。dangtanenggoucanyujinlaihou，keyirangtakanjiannidegaoduzhongshi，yekeyitishengtayuninhejiarenlianluo，rangtajuedegenganquan。