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　　fuqiqueshaoanquanganzenmeban，shouxianniderangqiwanquanxinrenni，erxinlaidemimishixintairongqia。

　　zheishiyigejiandandeluojishunxu：

　　nvxingzuikanzhongnanrendetezhishixinlai，

　　erxinlaishiyoujingshencengmiandelianluochuangjiande，

　　jingshencengmiandelianluoyoushiyouxintairongqiacainengshixiande;

　　yiner，xintairongqia=xinlai。

　　weihexintairongqiafangfaduitigaoganqingguanxiyeyoubangzhu?

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　　neiyangruhezuodaoxintairongqiani?

　　1. guanxin：dangnvrenxuyaonanrenshi，qingjiyutamenkendingzhuyili。dangyigenvrenxiangyunijiaotanshi，qinglikeguanbiwomendeyouxi、fangxianideshoujishang，yongshijixingdongzhanshichunibijiaoguanxinta。

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　　3. lejie：wulunnvxingshuolesha，nanshengxuyaozuodeyongyuandoushilejie。zenyangkandai?qingduoduotichuwenti。ruguonvrenjinimaiyuantadeguimi，nixianbuyaozhejijitatigongyigejiejuefangfa，buyaoqingyifensanhuatazhuanzhuli，bubikaiwanxiaode，bubijuedenikeyijiejuezheigewenti，gengbuyaoqingyijianruozheixiewentideweihai。nixuyaolejietacikedetiyanjiqizheijianshiqingduitadeyiyi。zheibudanbingbushishuoninenglijieta，gengbiaomingniduitashenghuochongmanzhenzhidexingquaihao，erqieniyezaijiejinsuonenglailijiezheixieduitaeryanguizhongdedongxi。

　　4. feibaohuxinglingting：ruguoninengbaozhengqianbianjigefangmian，duiqizifuchunidezhuyili、jiangwomendeshentizhuanweita、shenkelijieta，neimejiuzaoyichubuzhangwolefeibaohuxinglingtingjiqiao。dangyigenvrenzhizenishi，helidishiyongfeibaohuxinglingtingjiqiaozhiguanzhongyao。bubiduiyutadeyujuzuochuqifendefanying。

　　5. tonglixin：lijiejiushilixinglidezhuixun，ertonglixinshijingshencengmiandezhuixun。dangyigerenwanquankeyilijieduifangdeganshou，zhanzaitadeshijiaojianghua，tanaozhongchengdanxintaibianhuizhendingchulai。zhongdianbuzaiyutadaodiduiyucuo，fanershinixuyaozhanshichutonglixinhetongqingnengli。

　　tips:lingtingbishushuogengweixingganmiren，tichuwentibikuakuaqitangengyouhuoli。zhanshichuniduitazhenzhidexingquaihao，huibizhanxiannizijifeichangyouqulaidegengweizhongyao。

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