美满婚姻仅有真正的爱情不足的

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?在大部分关联中，爱情并不是你所必须的所有。那麼，一个幸福的婚姻除开爱情，还必须留意什么难题呢?下边来源于心态学家的一些小提议，或许会对你有一定的启迪。

婚姻能够维护保养心里健康

 shubuzhiqinglvrijianquxiangyutongjushenghuoerbingbushiwanhun，weicifangzhichengdanyiwu，zheihaoxiangbianchengleyizhongjianjiandisanbudebingzheng，cushiyingguorujinde90houlihunzuodao50%shangxia。danxianeryijiandeshi，yiranyouxuduorenxiaishuangshuangduidui，wanhundeyishizaoyishenderenxin。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 xiangguandiaoyanshuoming，juedaduoshurenjianxin，yigexingfudehunyinzhenduixingfudeshenghuoshiyouweizhongyaode。renmenyulaiyuyikaoyizhongqinmiwujiandesirenguanxilaiweihubaoyangzishendexinlijiankang，keshiciwai，hunyinquebiandegengjiabujinrurenyi。

 “jijizhudongde、bangyangdehunyinyuelaiyuedi，”yingguoxintaixuejiadawei?aoerxunboshimingquetichu，“dajiatongchangjuede，hunyinzhongyouaiqingjiuchongzule，shishishangbingbushineiyangde。dangtamendefuqiguanxiyiluoqianzhangdeneishihou，jiaowangbukaixindelianrenzaoyimeibanfaxiangdao，dangchushiyigunaxienengliangrangtamenzaiyiqi。”

来源于心态学家们的提议

 tangruohunyinlijinyouzhenzhengdeaiqingbuzude，neimahaibixunaxie?xiabianshixintaixuejiazhenduichukaiaiqingzhiwaibaochixingfuhunyindeyixiemijue，gongnicanzhao。

关键字1：挑选

 ●qianqueduifuwuchengnuodezunxun，zheidianerzainannvguanxizhongshijubeihuimiexingde，huohuade?makemanboshishuo。danshendeqinglvtongchangburongyiguanniandao，tamentiaoxuanlelingyifang，jiudaibiaosheqileduibierendetiaoxuan。dangtiaoxuannantichuxiandeneishihou，tamenjuede“wohaimeizuihoujuecewojuedehesheizaiyiqi”，yinertamenyejiumeiyouyixiangqujiejuekunnan，erzheizhongnantitongchangzaitamenxiayiduanganqingguanlianxiahaihuichuxian。

 ●“aiqingburongyishizhongshunlichengzhangdibuduanxialai，youyutayebixubuduanchengcai、weihubaoyanghexiubu。”yinduxintaixuejiaayala?malaqi?pineisiboshishuo，“yiner，heyigekeyichixujiqiniqingyideairenzaiyiqishihenhaode。duiyuzenyanglaijiqiaiqing，zheishijishangshibicidouyizhibixuqinfenquzuodeshier。”

 ●nengwomenyiqiganjuezhenshiwanshandenageyishunjian，jiushishuozaihunyinzhongfazibennengfanyingdiquaiyigeren，erbingbushiqidaizishenquaiyigeren。shidiwen?sidongniboshizhuzhongshuo。

关键字2：矛盾

 ●zhenduichuliannvyouzheeryan，caiwuhuijishiyizhongbixudewenhuajiaoyu，youyuhuijinantizailianqingguanlianzhongtongchangshibicimaodundezhuyaoyuangu，cizhijiushishuoxing。

 ●jiaruyiduifuqigangkaishixianghuzhijiantiaomaobing，jiudaibiaotamenzaimaodunjiejueshangmiankanqilaihencaogao。jiejiulanmandefangshi，jiushishuoshizhezheyongyuyanlaixiububicideguanlian，birushuoyixie“wobaoqian”zheileidehua。

 ●tongchangshipeiouyifangduilingyifangdexintai，xiongshalebicideaiqing，youyutamenmeiyoujiejuehaofumianxinxideganqing。huohuade?makemanboshishuo。

 ●“luguanbingbushiyigenannvguanxidenanti，tashiyigezenyangkaizhanzishencaozongdenanti。”shidiwen?sidongniboshishuo，“luguanzhedeneixintianmanlecankui，ertashiyizhongbeibierensuocaozongdezishenchufaxitongruanjian。ruguoniluguanyihou，ninengganjuetaoyanziji，erqieburongyilianminzishendegerenxingwei。”

关键字3：小孩

 ●zaidiyigexiaohaichushihoudetousannian，67%defuqizaiguanlianmanyilvshangmianqinshenjingliyigeganqingdichaoqi，zheiyidichaoqizuixianchanshengzaimamashoushang，cizhishibaba。

●babamamahunyinzhongdejiaolvbuanguanlianhuiweihaidaotamendexiaohai，zheiyiban shixiaohaiqingchunqipannideyuanguzhiyi。

●dangbabamamaqimaodundeneishihou，xiaohaiyiban zongqidaiduodeyuanyuandide。

关键字4：外遇

●zaiyifangyouchuguizhihou，waiyuzhejiaruhaixiangrangfuqiguanxiyanxuxiaqudehua，wubiguanxinpeioudetongchutihui。

 ●fajuepeiouyouchuguihouhuijueyuanlianglingyifang，bulunshicongshenglixueshangeryanhuanshicongganqingshangeryan，zheiquanshibutaishenxinjiankangde。“qianqueyuanliang，zhenshirutongmanxingduyaoyiyangsunhaifuqiganqing。”xintaixuejiajianisi?abolamusi?sibolinboshishuo。

 ●jinguanzaipeiouchuguiyihou，yuanliangzhenduixiubuqingganeryanshishifenbiyaode。keshiyixiewaiyuzhebazheileiyuanliangdoukantaiguobianyi。shishishang，yuanliangbudanshizhenshidebaorong，bingqiewubishiyouyidingdeshouyide。

 taiguosuibiandiyuanliangpeiou，cushiyixiewaiyuzhefandaoyunyongzheileigongzuojingyan，zaicifazhanqushitamenbuzhengdangxingdexingxingwei，youyutamenburongyizhenshidijiandaozishenduihunyinyingdangzuochudefengxian。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?