你的婚姻是不是已深陷疲倦期?

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?丈夫感觉媳妇也发生变化，以前挺溫柔、挺听话的她，现如今如何就那麼蛮横无理，小心眼比针孔还小。他累，她也累，是谁让婚姻这般疲倦?

婆婆妈妈的零碎琐事

 popomamadesuoshiquanshihunyinpijuandejinshucuihuaji。liruwohelaopozhengweizheiyi“shiyi”，shiquwobabamamajiahuanshihuitadeniangjiarenzhengchaobuxiu。hunyinshiyibeicha，douyougedeqifa，douyougedeshiyongfangfa。jiqingretiesuiranhao，danyehuichaliangrengudu，weichipingshixinqingcaihao。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?

 jiaruochaoxianglanmanmusiyiwaijingxi，haowuyiwenjiewaishengzhi。hunyinshiyaokaoweihubaoyangde，jiarutaileilehebuxiexiezaishangdao，dongdeziwodiaojiexianghudeqingxu，fuqiguanxicaikeyirijiumixin。

一成不变铸就疲惫

 “ershiduonianshuizaiyizhangchuangbian，zaisuonanmianyixieshijuedeshenmeipilao。”tashiyingpian《shoujishang》zhongdejingdianhuayu，yinweiwoshiyizheierlejiehunyinyuanxiandoushihuipibeide。hunyinba2geshenaideren，kunzaiyiqi，xianghumoheqi，zuizhongganqingdanqule，yiqieyuelaiyuepingdanwuwei。zhonglaonianfufuzaiyixiekaixinderizi，dongdeyongzishenfeichangdefangfaquliunian、qufugu，rangxianghutihuidaolingyifangshoushangdewendu。meirizhixulanmanyihuier，jiunengzaipingdandeshenghuozhongrangaiyanxu。

相互间的内存不足

 hunyinrushouzhongsha，niwodeyuejin，loushadeyuelaiyuekuai。nvrenguandeguoduo，huirangnanrenchuanbuguoqi。fuqijianyaotuijijirenweilingyifangweitarenzhexiang，yongxinguanaiganqinghaiyaojilingyifangliuyidingdeshineikongjian。jiarunvrenkuanhongdaliangbidinghuirangnanrenjiqiganxie，zuihouxingfukuailehuanshizhuazaizishenshoushang。fuqixiangchuzhidaodemimihaiqujueyukeyixiangxianghudakaixinfei，jiusuannibingbushizanchenglingyifangdejianjie，zuishaohaiyaozhangwolingyifangzaixiangganshenme。hunyinbukeyizhikaoreqinglaibaochi，guolereqingqishi，haiyaodongderongrulingyifang，rongrujiehunhoudeyishizhuxing，neiyangcaihuijiangdihunyinpilaogan。

冷漠猜疑让夫妇越来越远

 meimanhunyinquanshiyiyangde，beijudehunyingeyougedebuxing。laogongchuwaichuangdang，yishenpijuanfanhuijia，qidaihuodelaopodekuanweihewennuan，erbingbushiluoluosuosuodebaoyuanhecaiyi;yiyang，jialifanmangdelaopo，qipanhuodelaogongwenroudechengzanheqingshendexiangyong

 erbingbushibiyixiangduixing。woshenpangyouxuduofufuhuxiangbuwenbuwen，qianquekuanrong、xinlai、jiliheshangxi，bujingyihulvelejiadecunyouhelingyifangdecunyou，zuihouzaochengbicirijiushengyan。zhenduihunyineryan，fufuyouxianghudeshenghuomubiaoshenghuofangfashifenguanjian。

疲倦婚姻缺糖少盐

 wanhunzhichuyouyuai，shijianzhanglejiushishuoyizhongyiwu。sheideshimingganqiangyixie，sheijiuweijiazhongnuliduoyixie。xuduonvrenyixinyiyitongqingdali，jinxinjielijinzhididangmama、danglaopo;xuduonanrenyeyisibugoudidanfuqiyijiazhizhudeyiwu。

 danfuqixiangchushijianzhangle，yebuxiangyaozaiyongxinshengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxihelanman，meiridouxiangwenkaishui，wuyijianjiubayiqiannongyudeaidanhuale，neiyangdehunyinnengbupijuanme?hunyinbuyongmeitianyiwaijingxi、tiantianlanman，kenanrenzongyaorangnvrenjuededaozishenbeiguanzhuzhe。nvrenhaiyaoshanyuyunyinghaoqinggan，meiyouyigenanrenganyuangudu，gushouzheyitansishuidehunyin。

夫妻两地分居淡化情感

 hejiefufuqiliangdifenju，jushaoliduo，dabannianyenannengkeguijianyimian。tameitiangongzuohenjianxin，woyouyaojialimangzhezhaoliaolaoshao，renmengoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，youshitongdianhuachukaiyiliangjukeqihuahennanmeiyouhuashuo。zhangqimeiyouyiqi，meiyourentishangdechupeng，zaijudaoyikuaiershiyuelaiyueshuyuan、lengdan，bicihaosilurenbanheai，yizhiyu“zhaobudaofangxiang”。

 shenpangxuduopenyougenwoyiyang，zaifanmangdegongzuozhonghelingsuidejiawuhuozhongwuxiafenshen，yitiandaowanpengtougoumian。ruyaoqingchuhunyindepibeiqi，nvrenhebuduizijihaoyidian，yong“nvweiyueji(xinlangweibo)zherong”laizirunfuqiganqing，weihunyinlengzang。

情感被衣食住行所困

 hunyinjindaopibeiqi，yebukeyizhiguai“qinianzhiyang”gaodegui。zhangfuxiangzhemangzishendegongzuo，keshiwozaizhaoliaoxiaohaidelingwai，yeyaoqinfenrongrujianjudegongzuozhong，yizhishishenxinpibei。jinqi，woguanniandaorenmenhushilexianghuzaiqingganshangdebixu，yexiangqinfenshengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxi。

 shangyue，wokeyihua600yuantangleyigehanshijuanfa，changshizaochengzhangfudeliuyi，ketajingduiwomenzhiruowangwen。wofadiatahuijidianjianyi，tajurantichupipingwohuabaihuaqian，shuozheizhongqiangourenmenchiyigeyuele。youshi，wohenxianmujidushenpangzheixiedanshendepenyou，yirenchibaolequanjiarenbue，wuxuweichaimiyouyanjiangcuchafanchou。

衣食住行重心点围住小孩转

 zidashengleguinv，womendeshenghuozhongxindianyixiazicongzhangfushoushangqianyidaotashoushang。meirizhuanchejiesongguinvyoueryuanjiesong、peitaliandianziqin、zhidaotaxuexipeixun，wochukaigongzuo，qitashijianpaichuqumanmandengdeng，quanburenkuaileitanle。rifuyiri，nianfuyinian，hunyinmeiyouleyanse、meiyoulehuashu，zhinengfawei、xinfanhewuqu。

 shijishang，hejiefudeqingganjibenshihenfeichanghaode，gaozhongtongxue，youtanlianaile6nian，zhangfuyizhiduiwomentengxinengjia。jinguanwodexinliyizhixiwanglanmanzhangcun，danbansuizheshijianliushipobudeyijieshouxianshizhongdelingsui，liruxiaohai、jiawuhuo、touzilicaidengnanti，zaishijiyanqianhunyinjinshengpibeihewanxi。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?