“笨”女人婚姻会幸福快乐的5大缘故

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?1. 高低没有口头上，太聪明的女性不讨人喜欢

 dajiagengweiqiaobuqideyizhongnanren，shishuobaileneilei“waibiandewonangfei，zaokanglideyingxiongrenwu”。doushi，haonanerbukeyijiangongliyeyehaole，zaiqiziyanqianchengweifeng，suannamenzideyingxiongrenwu?

 zhenduinvren，doushiyiyangdedadaoli，dangdaishehuifazhan，nanrennvrentonggongtongchou，zhichangzhongyixieqiangrenfengcaineijiushiyiqiezhengchangde，keshizaijiazhong，huanshiyaoweichinvrenbense。zheixietitouzhiweideconghui，zheixiedishuibuloudeluojixing，zailaogongyanqianhaiyaoshengyishengle。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?

 nanrenhaipanvrengongyuxinji、taiguoruili。zaichengshunanren，yeqidaizishenaizhedenvrenjitamenbaoronghelejie，youqidaitayouyifentongzhen，nenggenzishenshashadedi、zhenzhengdijiaowang。yuzheilei“sha”nvrenzaiyiqi，nanrenganjuejianquanxingyouwennuan。

 yuqinrenpenyousidixiadegoutongjiaoliuyoubieyugongzuozhongchangdi，taijiaozhenerhuilingrenjuedefawei。yingjinkenengchengxiannidexiaorong，biaodanixiangyoushifangyalidekuailebingjienafengqudebiaodaxingshi。nvrendanchunxingdegexingtezheng，zainanrenyanlijueduishiyoushi，bingqiedoushicuicutamenqinfenzhuyaobiaoxiandequdongli。

 qianwanbiewujienanren!nanrenxiaidebennvrende“sha”，jueduibingbushizhizhili。neibandenvren，shijianyizhang，duinanrenjiuhuimeiyouyouhuolide。nanrenxiaide“sha”nvsheng，shineileikanqilaishahuhu、neixinquehenyoupudenvsheng。nanrenzongyouxurongxinyejiushishuoaimuxurong，yincizheixieyangzhuangconghui、shifenluchudenvzishinabuzhunanrendexinde;erdazhiruoyudenvziquenengmizhunanren。

2、把老公当做家中最关键的人

 nvrenhuodechenggong，hunyinshenghuobuchenggongdexiaogushiqueshitingdeguoduo。shehuifazhanshangdezhichangnvren、xueliditongchangbianchengxingfuhunyinshenghuodezuai。gongzuohuoxugenben，danbiewangjinvrenyeyouciwaiyigeguanjianderenwujiaose——moumourendelaopo，buyaoshuoniyizhizaiwaibiandudangyimian，shiqiyelibibukeshaodejishugugan，jibiannideyingxiangligaoyuyiqie，yebixulejiezishendaodishishei。xiabiandexiaogushihuoxudahuoerdoutingguo，neimawomenyiqizaizaiciwenxiyixia。

 qingxizishendejiazhongrenwujiaose，weihubaoyangzhangfudezizunheshouhaozhangfudexin，shimeiyinvrendeyiwu。shiyechenggong、diweimingxiantishengdenvxing，tebieshizaiyaozhenxinvxingteyoudebenxing，shanyuxiezhuzhangfujiangdihuoqingchuduoyudexintaizhuangtaikunhuo。

 congxinlingshenchuguanniandaozishenjinridequdechenggong，bukehuoquezhangfulijihuojianjiedejianronghexiezhu，juebuyunxuzaizhangfuyanqianjugongziao;jiusuanshizhangfuyinweixinlidekunaoraneryouyixiebulixingdeyantanjuzhi，yeyingdangtuijijiren、zhenxinchengyidikuanwei、guiquanhebiaoshu，yaojinkenengcaiyonggezhonggeyangfangfashizhangfujianxin，jinguanzishenshiyechenggong，danzairichangjiatingshenghuohefuqiganqingzhongderenwujiaoseheyingxianglirengranheguoquyiyang，suobuyiyangdeshizishenduizhangfugengweixiaihexiexie!

 changchangxiangzhangfutanpaixinlidekuchuhekunao，shushuozishenchuwaisuopengdaodezhuduogongzuoyali、jiankuhekunjing，qingzhangfujizijixianjixiance、jiejuekunnan。neiyangzuonenggoujianshaofufubicidechabie，lajinxintaizhuangtaijianju，jinerjinyibuzengqiangzhangfudegerenjiazhigan，huanjieqijingshenyali。

 nvrenguigenjiedijiushishuonvren，xingdanyingzhidequdechenggongburongyirangwomenchanshengzhenshidekaixin。jiatinghemu，laogongchongni，renmencaikeyixunzhaoxingmingdexinrengan。yaodedaozheiyiqiebingbuhuitainan，zhongyaoshiyaoranglaogonglejieniduitadeyilai。

3、夫妻间沒有絕對的是是非非

 renshuo“buzhengchaobingbushizhenfufu”，zheijuhuarenshengdadaoli，2gegexinghuadandudechengnianrennanrennvrenzaitongyigewuyanerbinsimo，youdianxiaoxiaofenqidoushiyiqiezhengchang。manglitouxianbanyiliangjuzui，daoyoujiazhonglejie、goutongjiaoliuqinggandezuoyong。jinjinyixienvren，“zhuajianer”guanle，fuqijiandoushizheiban，meiyicizhengzhi，bixuchongfenfahuinvxingdeyanyutianfu，zhengmingcailiaozishenjueduiyanzhiyoulierlaogongjueduiyouwu。zheijiuyixieyiguo。

 shijieshangjiaodadekonghaozhiyijiushishuoherenbuduanzhengzhi——yulaogongjichulilundajiajiadekonghaogengyaofanbei，zhengzhidejieguoshishibicibizhiqiangengxinzijijueduiqiadang。

 ruguoshudiao，huoxujiushudiao，jiaruhuosheng，nihuanshishudiao，youyuzhengzhiyingbushangtadexin。jiarubanilaogongpibodelianhong、yakouwuyan，nandaoshuojiushishuohuoshengma?bu，tameihua，zhibuguojuedeyigelaonanrenbuzhiheqizijiaozhener，gengbijiaoyanzhongde，tahuirenweinimanbujiangli，buxiangyaozaishechilangfeixinlile。xianggebanfa，shiyichangxiaoxiaozhengzhiguanjian，huanshidajiazhangjiudeqinggangengguanjianni?

 tongxinderenzaoyijiangguo，“fuqijianmeiyoushuying，yaobuhuligongying，yaobutongguiyujin。”pingyongdefufu，juewudewanyixie，danzongyoufanyingweidaolaideneishihou：younaxiehaochaodeni?wulunzenyangshuo，tahuoshitabuquanshizishenzuiqinmijiechuderenma?shengyudenanti，jiushishuoruheladiaoqingmian，zhongguiyuhao。

 qianwanbierenweirenrangdenvrenmeiyoubenling，tamenjinguandixiatou，danbingbushiyiweidixiatou，zheixieyiweidixiatoudenvzicaisuanshizhenshiruonvzi，renrangdezhongyaozaiyige“shi”shang。zaiqingshanggaonvxingdeaiqingbaodianli，congmingnvrenshiduliuluchunzhenhenuoruo，tajianghuodeliruguanai、tengxi、xiezhu、xinlaidengyixiliedelianghaojieguo。

4、男人的事，请不必越俎代庖

 rujinkeyizuodenvrenxuduo，zaiqiyefahaoshiling、dudangyimian，zaijiazhongdoushimangmangliuliu，shierwulunchicun，tongtongdoukangleqilai。keshizheileinuli，zuozhangfudequebuyidinglingqing。yincinvrenhenbiequ：bawoyikexindouquchulaiweizheiyijia，taruhehaineimaduodejianyini?

 ganqingshenghuozhong，guangyoubucilaokudehaopinxingshibuzude。nanrendegexinghua、xingzi、hanyangmeigebuyiyang，duinvreneryan，ruguonitiaoxuanhunyinshenghuoshi，zhishaoduizhangfuyaoyouyigezhangwo，bingyouyizhongzuohehunizhangfuguidingdelaopodexintaizhuangtaihegongzuonengli。bingbuyidingdenanrendouxiaibingrongrufanlaizhangkou、yilaishenshoudeyishizhuxing，zheihuibijiaoyanzhongsunhaitamennanshidezizunxin。hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendetange，bixuxiangqixianghupeihezhetiaohaota，ruonizhianzhuzishendegudianpianpianqiwu，mianbulebubeilingyifangcailejiao。

 buguanbiaomianqiangdahuanshiwenruodenanren，tadeneineixindouqidaizishennengjiyunvrenyuqiudeguishugan，tajuedeweihuzishenaidenvrenshilisuoyingdangde，yincinvrenyeliyingshitingcongde。

 weixinyidenvrendangfengzheyu，zheiyeshinanxingdeyidianxurongdezizunxin。ruguoyigenvrenzhuyaobiaoxianwaiduiyigenanrendeganqinghenengliangdeqipan，guangpingzheiyidian，tajiuhuiganxinqingyuandiweitanuli，erqiehuiyizhichenjinyuzaizhengqilinrandexingfujuedezhong。

 renmenyongyishengdeshijianquxunmiyigeheshizishendelianren，gouchengyigepingwenwennuandexiaojiating。zaimouzhongyiyishang，zhongshizhangfujiushishuozhongshinizishen。

 youyu，zhongshitajiudaibiaonizuochuleyigecongmingde、jinshendetiaoxuan，neishinizhaodaoyigezuigaiyouzhezheifenaihezunjingdenanren。fanguolai，dangniduitabuzunjing，jiubiaomingnizuochuleyigeyumeidetiaoxuan，zhaodaoyigebuzhinilaiaihezhongshideren。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?