夫妻婚姻破碎 第三者不一定是元凶

针对此类离异统计数据的汇报，中国社科院研究者、我国家庭婚姻促进会权威专家联合会办公室主任陈一筠表达，工作中焦虑不安，公出经常，夫妻相处時间减缩，加上人际交往的扩张，娱乐场地的对外开放，异性朋友结交和沟通交流的机遇增加了，婚外恋变成婚姻生活的较大“杀手1”。

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第三者是历史时间遗留的去其糟粕

shuodisanzheshiliyidegenbenyuanyinwobugangoutong，zheidekaotongjishujushuohua。

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“第三者”不一定是元凶

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女人为什么刁难女人?

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