将婚姻生活变为剧本 平时琐事密不可分夫妻感情

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?日常生活的油盐酱醋一直会令人觉得疲倦，恋情时的温存好像也会被这种生活小事所困，人们好像早已沒有時间去KISS，沒有時间去给另一方生产制造意外惊喜。见到这些能够手牵手一起看落日的老夫妻一直会感叹，生活会否也一样垂青我，给我一个能够一起看落日的人?

 pam spurrboshiyanjiushengjuede，yuanyibaochiyouliangdefuqiganqingbingfeifanxinshi，yixiepingshidexiaoshierbiannenggoubengjinxianghudejianju。yuanyizuoyiduixingfukuailedefufu，kanyixiaxiabiansanzhongzhuangkuanghuifouweihaidajiadeguanlian。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?

1.明确你的“剧本”

renmenquanbuderendouhuiyongyishengyanyizheyige“juben”。zaizheiyijubenli，nijianghuimeiyouguanniandao，womenshizhurengong。

 nide“renwujiaose”gangkaishishi，nihuanshiyigexiaohai，nidejiarenduinidegexinghuayunideweilaidouchongmanxiwang。jiarunishidiyigexiaohai，nidebabamamajianghuiduiniyeshijiyuyinqieqiwang。

 huoxuniyeshijiazhongzuishaodexiaohai，dangtidaonishi，jiarendouxiguanjiaoni“yaomei”huo“xiaobaobei”。quanbudeqiwanghejizhongzhuyilidouqianyidaonishoushang，danduoshitengxiyuguanai。

 jianjiandirenmenderenwujiaosejindaoqingnianren，renmengangkaishizhuiqiuzishendeluomandike。tashirenmenzhaoxundaodiyigefeiqinyuanquezuiqinmiwujianderen。

 xiangzhezheizhongjianghuishiyongniderenwujiaose，xiaohaiyeba，qingnianrenyeba，bansuizhenianjidetigao，zhuanyezhishidetigao，ninengbaituoyiqiejiaosebanyanyouxizhongdehuimiexingdewupin。

2.保存“螺旋的空间”

 xunzhaonijiejuerenjijiaowangdehuixuanyudi，rutongxuduorenfahuodeneishihou，yizhihuinuqichongchongdizoudiao。keshijiarulingyifangshizishendelianren，nibutaikenengqingqingsongsongdidaizaizhanzhebudonghuoshibatuizoudiao。zheileineishihoujingxialaixiangyixiangjiarushilingyifangpengdaoneiyangdenanti，tahuiruhezuo，bubiyizhiyixiaohaidefangfaqujiejuekunnan。

3.怀里玫瑰红色的期望

 chanshengzaifuqizhijianzuipubiandeyigenanti，jiushitamenduilianrendeqidaizhiguogao。shide，nihuoxuqidaitalanman，danniqueshiqidaitanengmeirisongniyishumeiguihuahuozheyiduibuhaoyongdebulaoshime?jiranzaoyiyouzhexianghu，jiububiyizhiqiwangtamennengshikelangmanjingxi，yaoshizaidutedeshirili，tabiewanglerangniyiwaijingxi，biedeshijianjiuzunzhongxianghu。

 zifaxingdelanman，mangliudegongzuozhongyexuzaoyibianchengshenghuodeyibufen，dankongxianshiyidungongsibangongshishanxincanyexuhuirangtagaoxingyizhengtian。huoshi，ninengbofawenhedegequ，yinranxizhu，tanbainixinlizhenzhengdeniantou，zailianrenyanqianmeishenmeshibukeyishuode。

 zuoyixiexiaoxiaogenggaibianhuijuyouchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo，renmenfeichangrongyiweilanmanshezhifangshi，neiyangzailanmandeniantouyehuiyuelaiyuekuzaofawei。quzuoyigexinfaxing，jinidelingyibanjiandaomohuandeni，yudingyigexinkaiyedecanyindianhuoshiquyigexindelvyoujingdianliuda。

 zuoyixiejianyideshier，rangtatihuidaozheifenai。liru，bangtaxigexiufa，yiqixigeyuanyangyu，suihoujingjingdexiangyouguishuyuliangrendeshijian。

 xiangyoufuqishenghuo，xiangyong，jiewenzheizhongzailianaishikanshangqupingshidexingwei，laidaofuqijianyehuiyuelaiyuefamahexiguan。zenyangxiyinzhutadejizhongzhuyili，rangtanengtihuidaonidexinxineirongni?shizheyongnideshouzhitouyueguotadexiufahuofumotadedatuigenbu，zheizhongtiaodoudexiaoxingweihuirangtayuhuonannaini。

 yongjianyidebiaoji，jiluxiaaidediaoping。biru，dongshouzuozhizuoyigejiantiebu，baxiaidexiangpianfangdaoyiqi，fangdaonichangchangkeyikandaodediqu，xiangfanzhuo、xiaoshufang、wofangdeng。

 bubibanzui，xuduorenxiguanzaizuichunshangzhengsheng，fanhuijiazheiyixiguanyewufagaibian。shizhequfajuelingyifangdeliangdian，zainibiaoshunideshangxizhiqingshi，tayehuijiandaonideshanguangdian。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?