男人为什么这么恐惧婚姻

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?在惨忍的实际旁边，许多男人女人停步在婚姻以外，害怕迈入婚姻这一雷池一步，害怕走入围城就会断送了很多年甜美的感情，断送了两个人的幸福快乐。处对象时，应对的仅仅两人的纯真感情，而结婚真是就是说2个家中中间的“博奕”。

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