婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?1.做事闷在心里
yingguodanfodaxueshehuixuejiajijiatinghunyinzhiliaofaquanweizhuanjiasushan·heiteleboshiyanjiushengbiaoda,meiduifuqidoushizaoyugezhonggeyangtiaozhan,keshijiarububanantishuochuqu,neimafuqiguanxibidinggengjiaolvbuan,jiedijiuhuiyulaiyuda。
youyudanyouzhengchaoerdanxintaolunbijiaomingannanti,zuoshimenzaixinli,budangfuqigoutongdejiqiao,douzhiyoutishengwuhui,zaochengtongkuzheng。(hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?
jianyi:fuqiduokanyixiashejiaogoutongjiaoliu、hunyinshenghuowenhuajiaoyucengmiandeshujie,xunqiubangzhuhunlianwentiquanweizhuanjiadoushifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。
2.不擅于倾听
meiguodezhoujiatinghunyinzhiliaofaquanweizhuanjiashalang·lifujinboshibiaoda,meigerendouqidailingyifangnengqingtingzishendejianjie。keshizainantihunyinshenghuozhong,fuqiyibanqianquedegengshixianghuzhijiandeheliqingting。zhitingpianyanzhiyuzuifeichangrongyizaocheng“pianti”hefuqizhengchao。
jianyi:lifujinboshijianyi,fuqibicidachengxieyi,yongxinqingtinglingyifang3—5fenzhong,bantujinzhiqieduan。
3.互相责备
zaizhengchaochixuyuanqichenjidebuxingfuhunyinzhong,fuqitongchanghuihuxiangzebei,erburongyiduizishendegerenxingweifuzeren。zebeihuochizeshizhongbukeyichuliyiqienanti,zhiyoushifuqizhengchaozhujianshengji。
jianyi:lifujinboshijianyi,jinkenengzhaodaofuqizhengchaodeguanjiannanti,liru,juedelingyifangbutingshuohua、buaizhenihuobushangxinideng。zhinenglejiezhengchaodeyuangu,caikeyigenggaixianghudegerenxingwei。
4.看不见另一方的优势
xuduojiazhongdoucunyou“xiabanlehuijialemeiyourenwenhao”,“shaolelaogongzuixihuandefanshiqueshiquzanyu”dengnanti。meigerenqidaihuodeshangxihezhongai。yidanzheizhongyaoqiubeihushi,jiufeichangrongyizaochenggudanhebeihushidejuede。
jianyi:yigexiaolipinhuoyishengjianyide“ganxie”doudeyibiaoshuduizhixiqinshudeshangxi。youshihoudeliangrenyuehuidoushiduimingbaishangxizhixiqinshuhegaoduzhongshifuqiganqingdefanying。zheizhongdouyouliyuqingchufuqizhijiandeweimanhuoyuanhen。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?
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