让我们的婚姻生活排身体排毒

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?1.做事闷在心里

 yingguodanfodaxueshehuixuejiajijiatinghunyinzhiliaofaquanweizhuanjiasushan·heiteleboshiyanjiushengbiaoda，meiduifuqidoushizaoyugezhonggeyangtiaozhan，keshijiarububanantishuochuqu，neimafuqiguanxibidinggengjiaolvbuan，jiedijiuhuiyulaiyuda。

 youyudanyouzhengchaoerdanxintaolunbijiaomingannanti，zuoshimenzaixinli，budangfuqigoutongdejiqiao，douzhiyoutishengwuhui，zaochengtongkuzheng。(hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?

 jianyi：fuqiduokanyixiashejiaogoutongjiaoliu、hunyinshenghuowenhuajiaoyucengmiandeshujie，xunqiubangzhuhunlianwentiquanweizhuanjiadoushifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

2.不擅于倾听

 meiguodezhoujiatinghunyinzhiliaofaquanweizhuanjiashalang·lifujinboshibiaoda，meigerendouqidailingyifangnengqingtingzishendejianjie。keshizainantihunyinshenghuozhong，fuqiyibanqianquedegengshixianghuzhijiandeheliqingting。zhitingpianyanzhiyuzuifeichangrongyizaocheng“pianti”hefuqizhengchao。

jianyi：lifujinboshijianyi，fuqibicidachengxieyi，yongxinqingtinglingyifang3—5fenzhong，bantujinzhiqieduan。

3.互相责备

 zaizhengchaochixuyuanqichenjidebuxingfuhunyinzhong，fuqitongchanghuihuxiangzebei，erburongyiduizishendegerenxingweifuzeren。zebeihuochizeshizhongbukeyichuliyiqienanti，zhiyoushifuqizhengchaozhujianshengji。

 jianyi：lifujinboshijianyi，jinkenengzhaodaofuqizhengchaodeguanjiannanti，liru，juedelingyifangbutingshuohua、buaizhenihuobushangxinideng。zhinenglejiezhengchaodeyuangu，caikeyigenggaixianghudegerenxingwei。

4.看不见另一方的优势

 xuduojiazhongdoucunyou“xiabanlehuijialemeiyourenwenhao”，“shaolelaogongzuixihuandefanshiqueshiquzanyu”dengnanti。meigerenqidaihuodeshangxihezhongai。yidanzheizhongyaoqiubeihushi，jiufeichangrongyizaochenggudanhebeihushidejuede。

 jianyi：yigexiaolipinhuoyishengjianyide“ganxie”doudeyibiaoshuduizhixiqinshudeshangxi。youshihoudeliangrenyuehuidoushiduimingbaishangxizhixiqinshuhegaoduzhongshifuqiganqingdefanying。zheizhongdouyouliyuqingchufuqizhijiandeweimanhuoyuanhen。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?