婚姻生活一起玩乐相互成才 夫妻关系最坚固

婚姻生活 怎么过?丹佛大学婚姻与家庭研究所的霍华德·马尔克曼专家教授就夫妻关系开展了一项将近15年的科学研究。她们自1996年刚开始对306对夫妻开展追踪纪录，主要包括她们每日在一起的時间、相互的个人爱好、争吵頻率、婚姻情况等。

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