婚姻生活忌讳：不必总拿“离婚”说事儿

婚姻生活 怎么过?日常生活，人们常会见到那样一种状况：家庭纠纷一产生，夫妇彼此一争吵，总拿“离婚”说事儿，长久以往，本沒有做到离婚水平的两人，却通常以婚姻的完毕来收尾。

 liangrenyiqishenghuo，jiatingjiufenshimianbulede，jibianzaixiangaidefuqijian，yehuiyixiedadanaonaodeshierchansheng。zhuanjiazhichu，yong“lihun”zuokoutoushanbingfeihuajiemaodundehaofangfa，fufubiciyaoshenzhongkandai。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

实例：别种下损害的種子

 tiantiandeyuzhengtaolijingle5niandetianmeilianqingzongsuantaruhunyinshengdian，quezaijiehunhou2nianfendaoyangbiao，yuangushi“chaodehuodehaoleile”。lianggerendaduoshuyouyuyixiewuguanjinyaodesuoshizhengzhi，keshimeiyiciyixuanzhan，tiantiandeyizhina“lihun”zuokoutoushan，meiyicihuayichukouchu，zhengtaodoushihaojinyiqiefangshihongtagaoxing。

 keshihaiyouxixinderenyejinbuzhuzheibanxiazheteng。zongsuan，zaitiantiandeyouyicijiangchu “huodehaoleijiulihun”yihou，zhengtaoshuo“hao”。

 richangshenghuo，xiangtiantiandehezhengtaoneiyangdeshilibingxuduojian。xuduofuqijiandoushiyong“tichufenshou”、“lihun”laiweixielingyifang，quebuzhidao，zheibudanhuisunhaixianghudeqinggan，haihuizaibujingyizhongjianjiandizhongxiayigezhongzi，rangbicidouhuixintaizhuangtaishangjindaoyige“zhunlihun”qingkuang。

提示：口头禅成自我暗示。

 zaixianrujindaziranhuanjingxia，cunhuoyalitaida、shenghuokuaijiezou，yixie“80hou”fufudaduoshushidushengzi，shenghuoxiaiyizishenweijidi，gaobudonghunyinshiliangrendeshier，guishuyuliangrenxianghudeyiwu。

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出新招：四招助你健全婚姻

 diyi、pingjingxialai，sikaonantidebenzhi。“lihun”zheileidehuadaduoshushiqiduanshidachedawude，“zheishihouzuixianyingdanglizhi，duoyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，goutongjiaoliugaoyuyiqie”。shehuixintaixueshangjiang，jiarunantishiquchuli，youtajiqidexintaijiangmeibanfapingfu。yinci，yao“duiyunantizishen，fajuenanti，jiejuekunnan”。

 dier、gaoshijiao、huanfangxiangsisuo。xuduonantishijishangmeiyoukanyiyangneimabijiaoyanzhong，biciyingdang“jiangzishenzhifangdaochengrendebuweishang，qulejiehunyin。”yaomingbai“hunyinbingbushisuoqu，zhishinuli”。

 disan、gaihuiyueshijiuhuiyue。yidanjiangguo“lihun”，shanglelingyifangdexin，neimaqianwanbierenweishijiannenggoufupingyiqie，zhishiyaojijifancuowu，tanbai“shijishangwobuxianglihun，wohenaixirenmendehunyin”，jiangxiaojiqingxujiangzhizuishao。

 disi、zaishangyifanshengdequanguochengzhong，fajuenantihou，mashangxiangfangfachuli。bixushi，nenggoutingquyijianxintaizhuanjiadepouxitiyi。tuoshanchulixintaibing，kaizhanxintailiaofa，erqiuduizhengzhiliao。

 jiarubicishuozhendecunyoubunengchulidedanxin，neimajinkuaibaituo。jibianhunyintuoliyihou，yeburonghushiyiqiancunyouzaiqizhongdenanti，zheishihouyao“yijufenbiezhuangkuangzaizuotiaoxuan”。

 huanjuhuashuo，2geshenghuozaiyiqideren，mocawukebimian，zhongyaoshizenyangjinzaodongdejiaowangjiqiao，zaiganqingshenghuozhonggengweijiji、gengweikeguan。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?