婚姻生活 怎么过?男人尽管顽强,但在老婆那样的威逼利诱下也是顶不住的那时候……看一下这10个禁区,别让老公再碰伤了。
1、习惯性质问老公有多爱自身。
nvrenxiayishidihuiwenlaogongyouduoaizishen,yizhiyuhuibaxihuantinglaogongshuo“woxihuanni”dangchengchuntianrandebupinlaichi。huoxu,nvrenxihuantingnanrenshuo“woxihuanni”bingmeiyoucuo,ernanrenyeyingdangfadaoxinpidizaiduoyixie“woxihuanni”jilaopoting。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?
shubuzhi,shuozheileiqingyimianmiandehuashibixuqingjinghefenweide,tangruoyingbizhelaogongxiangchangshangeyiyangjiumeiyouhanyile,tebieshizaishizailaogongyitiangongzuozhongtuozheshenxinpibeidequtifanhuijiazhong,refanmeiyouchishangyikou,reshuizaomeiyouxishangyige,nihaiyaoranglaogongmanmiancuicandejiangchu“woxihuanni”,huoxu,laogongyibianyingduiyehuiweibeiliangxindishuo“woxihuanni”,kezaixinlingshenchuxiangxintayidinghuizaibaoyuan,yizhiyuhaiyaoshuo“wohensiniba”huozhe“niqueshikusiwole!”
2、随时窥视老公各种各样隐私保护。
suoyourendouqidaikeyibaocunzishenderenshenziyouquan,jibianshifufudoushiyiyang,youshihou,rendeneifenwensiyoujianghuijinjinzishenneixindejiyu。shubuzhi,youdenvrenhunhouyizhijuedequefaanquanganhuozhebijiaoyanzhongqianquexinxin,yizhizaicaiyilaogongshifouhuishenbeizishenzuoxienaxiejianbuderendeshiqing,yizhiyuhaihuicaiyilaogongshifouzaiwaibianbaoyangqingfuhedisanzhe。
yinci,jiuhuixiangtegongyiyangxiangjinbanfahexiangfangshefacitanlaogongdeyinsibaohu,duilaogongdeshoujishangheyouxiangkaizhanmimichayan,changchangkuishilaogongdeqqweixinliaotianjilu,fajueyidiandiannenggoucaiyideanjianxiansuojiuqiongzhuimengda,bujinrangzishengengtianlehenduokunao,yeranglaogongyulaiyujuedelaopodemanbujiangli,juedezheiyijiazhongyulaiyuqianquewennuanjuede。
3、将老公当成自身的合法财产。
laopoailaogongrutong“laoshuaidami”shilisuoyingdangdeshier,erfuqienaiyehuizhuyaobiaoxianchugengduoaidexizhi,shubuzhi,xuduonvrenhunhoujiuhuizaochengganqingcaozongdechongdong,balaogongjianyidedangchenglezishendehefacaichan,ranglaogongmeifachengdan。
shijishang,nanrengennvrenwanhunbingbudengyubiciyaosangshisuiyi。fanguolai,nanrenyizhidouqipanjiazhongnenggoubianchengzishengongzuonuliquanguochengzhong,nenggourangzishenlaiyishengcuntingchexiexidehaigang,nenggouzaizishenshenxinpibeishihuiyigemianruandezhenxin,nenggouwanguishijiazhongyouyizhanjizijiliuzhededeng。
nanrendebenxingshiyongchuangtianxia,shizaichengbashijiedelingwainengweijiazhongzaojiugengweixingfumeihaodeshenghuobiaozhun。xuduonvrenjiehunhouxihuanduinanrenzhizhidiandianyizhiyushihengjiaganshe,nongdenanrenwulukezou。
4、始终认为男人是富有就受到影响。
nvrenduiqianxiantianxingjiuyongyoufeichangdeaihao,baqiandangzuoshihexinhunyinshenghuojiatinggongzuodeguanjianrunhuaye,yebaqiandangzuonanrenxuehuaideguanjianzuoangongju,yiner,juedabufenyuemuhuimianshoujiyi,jiaohuiguinvzenyangquanliyifucaozongzhujiazhongdejingjifazhanshiquan。
nvrenhaipadeshinanxingyouqianlejiuzaiwaibiandenghongjiulv,yiner,baguanhaonanrendeqianjiunenggouguanhaonanrendelanqingdangchengshibuerbaowu。shijishang,zheijinjinnvrendejianyixiangxiang,nanrenjiaruyuanyilanqing,shijishangbingburongyiyouyulaopobuchuqianjiunenggoujianyimoshadiaode。
dadaolifeichangjiandan,nanrenjiaruyuanyiyinnisifangqianshizaifeichangrongyidanshideshierde,tangruonvxingbumingbaicaozongfangfa,jinjinyimeijiandanzhijiederanglaogongdaizibilianhaizhengjie,zhiyoutishengnanrendedichuheranglaogongzaochengpannixintai。
5、将老公当成自身泄愤的方式。
youdenvrenzaichuduixiangdeneishihouzhuyaobiaoxianchuqudeshiwenwanhewenroudunhou,duinanyounenggoushixiaorongkejuqianyibaishun。shubuzhi,wanhunjiule,lianggerendaizaiyiqinile,duilaogongdexintaiyejiubuxuyaozaiyezhezangzhele,pengdaozishenbugaoxingdeshier,huozhedaqiyezaoshounaxiebiequ,jiuhuinalaogongdangchengchuqitong,dangchengzishenxiefendeguanlu。
yaolejie,nanrengongzuozhongzaoyudegongzuoyalijueduiburongyibinvrenxiao,juedabufennanrenyeburongyibagongzuoshangdebushunxindedaojiazhongsaqi,ernvrendezheileimingmuzhangdantongchanghuiranglaogongzaochengdichu,doushizaochengfuqichaojiadeguanjianyuangu,yeyouhenduonanrenwaiyujiushishuotaoyanyitiandaowanjialibeilaopoxianghaiziyiyangma,douyaozaineixinshenchunenggouxunzhaoyigeshanjierenyihecongmingdenvren,nenggouxunzhaozhenshizuonanrendeneileidazhangfudejuede。
6、认为家中基本建设仅仅男人义务。
yinweiyishizhuxingziranhuanjingxiangbei,dangdaishehuifazhanliyouhenduodenvrenzaitiaoxuanhunyinshenghuoquanguochengzhongbiandegengjiashiji,tamenqidaizishenkeyixunzhaoyige“fuerdai”huozhe“guanerdai”,nenggourangzishenjiajiyouqianrenbianchengfanlaizhangkou,yilaishenshou,jinyiyushi,zhuxingshufudeshaonainai。
shijishang,yebingbushimeiyigenvrendoushizaizishenkanzuiyoufengcaidenianjikeyipengdaozheibanhaoyunde,zhenduijuedabufenyilaiganqianghejingjifazhanbukeyidulidenvreneryan,bansuizheqingchunnianshaodijianjiandiwailiuherongmaodemanmanxiaoshi,tangruomeiyoubiedenenggouxiyinzhulaogongdefengcai,nanrenjiyoukenengduinizaochenghenduodeshijuedeshenmeipilao。
keshi,jiarulaopokeyixianghudanfuqigenlaogongyiqijibenjianshezishendexiaojiayuan3,neiyangdenvrenjueduihuishilaogongyibeizidechongni。
7、爱老公但讨厌老公的亲人。
nvrenyinweiaicaihuigennanrenwanhun,keshi,jiehunhoudenvrenfeichangshaokeyibaozhengaiwujiwu,jinguan,nvrenzaibicibabamamadezhuyuanxiatarulewanhunhuitang,zaibicijiarendeyinzhengxiajieweifufu,haiyaorangtabaozhengailaogongdelingwaihaikeyiaitadebabamamahexiongmei,zaiaitadeqinpenghaoyoudelingwainenggoubuganyutadegerenxingquaihaoqueshishifenjiannandeshier。
shubuzhi,nanrenbutaikenengyouyuwanhunchengjialiyeyongyoulaopoerwangleshengtayangtadelingyigenvren,zaijuedabufennanrendeneixin,mamashiyibeiziweiyizuigaizishenaizhedenvren。xuduonvrenzirenweigennanrenjiehunle,zheiyinanrenjiuyingdangchediguishuyuzishen。
shijishang,neijiushicuodaledeshier,xihuangendagujiezhengfengchicu,huozhegenjiapokaiyanpoxidazhan,tongchanghuibananrennongdeshouzuwucuo。
8、欠缺健康教育知识忽略健康饮食。
yaoxiangxiyinnanrenxin,haiyaoxianxiyinnanrendewei。nanrenbujinxihuanpiaoliangmeinv,yiyanghaihuixihuantesemeishi。danshi,yebingbuyidingshicaiquanshinenggousuiyichide,yibianshenxinjiankang,chidoushiyouzhuzhongde。
shubuzhi,rujinyouhenduodenianqingfufubutaixiangyaozaijiazhongzishenzhufanzuocai,bingbushidingwaimaijiushishuozaiwaibiansuiyichidian,koushuiyouguqiebieshuo,yinshidapeishibushihuanjingweishenghaikeyilinshibujiang,danshuojiazhongjiarubudongshanshiqibuxulaogongmeilexinrengan?
meilexinlingdegangwan?jiarurangnanrenmeiridianjizhezenyangyingduiyirisancan,neiyangdehunyinshenghuozhongjiuhuishiyaochunantide,zuipubiandejiushishuonanrenjiarupengdaolenenggouweizijixingfudeganjuedenvren,waiyushifeichangrongyide,nongbuhaoyeyoujianghuinanrentichulihun。
9、要重视自身却不明白重视老公。
nvrenjiehunhoufandelingyigebuzhengquejiushishuoxihuanzaijiazhongmukongyiqie,xiangzenyangjiuzenyang,ernanrentongchangxihuanxishiningrenerbutaixiangyaogenlaopoyibanjianshi。
neiyangdelaopohaiyouyigetexingshiguidingyiqielaogongdouwubiduizishenqianyibaishun,buranjiuhuibeichengzuobuzhongshizishenerxunxinzishi,zaizheileinvrenxinzhongli,nanrenshijueduibukeyijihaomiansekande,congeryebutaiaiyouxianghulijieheyingdangzhongshilaogongdejibenyaosu。
nanrenpengdaoleneiyangdenvrenzhiyouantanzishenyunqicha,pengdaoleyigeqianghanlaopo。keshi,henduonenggouzaijiazhongkaitianpididelaoposhijishangdoubuzhidao,nayoubeiyaponaerjiuhuiyoudikang,zheileidikangdaduoshuyihunwailianhuozheyouhunwaixingairenweiguanjianbiaodaxingshide。xinbuxinyouni!
10、把老公当孩子一样严加管教。
zaiganqingdequanqiuli,nvrenhenanrenquanshixiangduixinggongpinghexiangduixingsuiyide,shubuzhi,youdenvrenxiantianxingjiushishuozhangkongyukuang,huiduizishendelaogongyouxuduodeyanjiaganyu,youshihouhaihuixiangguanhaiziyiyangduilaogongguantouguanjiao,baduihaiziqidaiyongyuguidinglaogong,ranglaogongbukanrumuchengdan。
yaolejie,nanrenbixudeshiguanhuai,bixudeshizhongshi,bixudeshinenggourangzishenchulaiqinfennulidequdongli。youdenvrenjiehunhoubakanzhulaogongdangchenglezishendezhongzhongzhizhong,baqidailaogongshiyechenggongdangchengleduisuoyouqidai,keshitawangledaotoulaibeilaopokanzhuguansidenanrenfeichangshaohuibianchengguanghuigongzuodechenggongrenshi,keshitabuqingchucongguzhijinzongyou“zhongxiaobunengliangquan”dejiaofa,yaoxiangranglaogongduopeizishen,gongzuoshanghaowuyiwenhuizaoshouweihai。
nanrenxihuanguowujuwushumeiyouyueshulideqingqingsongsongshiri,xihuannenggouwujuwushuluandiuchouwaziluanduizangyifukuzideneileiwujushudeyouxian,shubuzhi,henduonanrenhuizaihunhoubianchenglaopodediyigewenhuajiaoyulingyiban,pobudeyichangchangjienalaopoqiangzhidejiaxunwenhuajiaoyu。
yinci,xuduonanrenhuibeitanzishenchuduixiangdeshijianguoduanle,henhouhuimojizishenweiheneimazaoyiwanhun,huiwukenaiheyuhaimeichongzuxiangyoudaoganqingdetianmeijiupobudeyijiena“beizhizheng”dexingfukuailedetongchu。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?
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