婚姻经营：经营婚姻生活的4条潜规则

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1.始终都不要说过头话或伤另一方自尊心的粗陋话

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2.始终应用高倍放大镜发觉另一方善解人意的为人

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3.要有平稳工作中与经济发展收益来支撑点婚姻生活基本

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4.要在丈夫眼前恰当主要表现大女人的必须维护

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