为婚而婚 7大中国式婚姻怪现象

夫妻之间 怎么相处?“由谁来掌管财政局实权”已变成结婚夫妇结婚后遭遇的重特大矛盾之一，53.2%的女士觉得男人结婚后应当上缴存折，仅有17.9%的男士持此观点。特别注意的是，对比有房有车，“男士收益平稳”容易得到女士亲睐。

 diaochatongjifajue，81.8%derenjuedenanrenyoupingwenshouyijiunenggouwanhun，89%denvshiba“youpingwenshouyi”。paidaozuiqianzuoyouneirongbiaoming：zhongguohunyinzhongqianshiyigeraobudongdehuatitaolun。congeryanhuachuzhongguoshihunyindeqidazhuangkuang。

一、对官二代、富二代，拾人牙慧，以至于跨代下手

 zaiganqingqushezhong，nianqing、kushuai，jinduodexiaohuo，nvrenhuizhenxuankaolvdao，jiarujiangqizhuibushangshou，jiuhuituierqiuqizhi，seyouqibaba，kuadaixiashouyidanbeichuanchuhuibeirenchaoxiao，danyibianjinqian，yixienvrenbenzhiwuxiagujiyanmian。yidanchenggong，huodedeshiyongbujuedefuguironghua，dangshidelianchiyehuibansuizheshijiandebianhuabeidahuoerdanwang，daliangneishihou，beidajialaojidejinshengronghuafuguishenhoudexianmujidu。

二、要是男人富有、有影响力，男人己婚也上台

 zaishixia，fuyounanrenzhaoqingrenzhuangkuangxiyiweichang，youyibufenyuangushinanxingzaihuodechenggonghou，zhanxianchibaochuannuansiyinyuzhiqushi，ganjuejiazhongwuxinghongqibufanshilizi，jiawaicaiqipiaopiaocaisuanshiqingmian，yinci，huiyibianbaoweizishenchenggongnanshidebiaoshi，zhaoyigenianqingpiaoliangdenvrensuicongzaizishenshenpang;ciwaiyibufenyuangushiqudechenggongnanrenbenlaihenanfenzaiweichengzhongchuzhe，keshihuiyoubaifumeidenianqingnvrenbawangyingshanggong，ciqingkuangxia，nanrenyiban huizhaodanquanshou。shubuzhi，yihunnanrenxiangdeshihuanleyitianshiyitian，erbenqianqudedisanzhezejuedenengdisanzhezhuanzhengdingjishi，jibianbukeyizhuanzhengdingji，haiyaolaoyitaofangzihuodabazhibi。

三、要是男人有发展潜力，不喜欢也婚

 hunyinzuijichudewupinyingdangshifuqiguanxi，shubuzhi，xuduorenbingfeiweileaierwanhun，zhishiweigengqiangdewuzhitiaojianerwanhun，yinci，wenshilexianjiehunhoulianaizhuangkuang，jiehunhou，benhuaxuewuzhiqunvrenhuixunsuzhanshichuduijinqiandezhangkongyu，dangnanrenaicongdeneishihou，fenqidaziranbaitianhua，keyishuohunyinchengyejinqianbaiyejinqian。yeyouyizhongqingkuangguishuyunvrenkancuo，lianqingshi，ganjuezishenxinyidexiaohuoshiyizhichengzhanggu，keshijiehunhoucaifajuelingyifangjiuyilajigu，yinci，huiqingchangdaohoudeyinuzhixiashanli。

四、想象“高帅富+没妈妈”式婚姻

 gaoshuaifushixuduoweihunnvzihongqiangdelingyiban，gao，guanjianshiweixiayidaiweitarenzhexiang;shuai，guanjianshirangzishenkanjianhuyan;fu，guanjiankeyongjinqianhuodezishenyuanyideguishugan;zaizheigejichushang，jiarulingyifangdemamahenzaoqushi，zheijiangshitaihaolele，yifangtufaxingpoxiguanxi。tuxianlexuduonvrenhunyinguanguodushiji，lingwaiyebiaoluchurendebenxingdecanku。

五、为房子完婚、离异

 bansuizheloujiadechixushangsheng，fangziyibianchengkunfuzhongguorenxingfukuailedekuaizishou，xuduorenzongqianbodejuede，youfangzidehunyinbuyidingxingfukuaile，meifangzidehunyinyidingbuxingfukuaile，yinci，fangzibianbianchengyigenanrenyoumuyouzizhiwanhundechibiao;youlaiyuanyudachengshixunmengfazhan，penghuqujiangzaijianglaihenduonianwanquanxiaotui，yinci，jinjinweirao‘dongqian’jialihunhuoganyaziwanhunzhuangkuangyejingchangkeyikandao，bingbushimeigerennengcongjialihunhuozhenwanhunzhongyingli，buduanjianbaoshuatuodejiazhongdayourenzai。

六、为婚而婚

 nvrenbeishengdeyuanguxuduo，yibufenyinkeyenanti，yibufenyintiaosanjiansi，shubuzhi，nvdadangjiatongchanghuizaoshoufumufumucuihun，yingduifumucuihun，xuduodalingnvqingnianyalihaoda，henbunengyaoshiyounanrenganqu，zishenjiuganjia。yinci，weihunerhunrangxuduonvrenzaipobudeyideqingkuangxiatiaoxuanshanhun，gaileinvren，jinguanhuiduijinqianyouyisiguiding，danjuebushiyankedexintai，tamenyeqidaijiehunhoukeyixiangyaoyougejia，keshi，tongchangshanhundefuchudaijiajiushishuojiagele‘feishui’。

七、为老年人小孩苦守悲剧婚姻

 bingbushisuoyourendehunyinquanshixingfukuailede，yebingbushisuoyourenyingduibeijudehunyindouganduihunyinshuobu，youyuhunyinyiban qingkuangxiabingbushiliangrendeshi，zhishiliangjiarendeshi，zuoweilaoren，tamenbuzhangwoernvmenhunyinshibushixingfukuaile，ernvmenyebuyuanjiangzishenbuhaodehunyinrangfumulejie，yifangjizijidanyou，yinci，xuduorenyibianwanmeichengxianfumudeyoulv，keshouzhebeijudehunyin;xiaohaishifumudexinganbaobei，xuduorenyibianjixiaohaiyigewanshandejia，yezaiduicouzhehunyindexiangxi。

 xianrujinshehuifazhandeguaixianzhuang，nanrenshiyechenggong，zaiwaibianmeiyoulianrenhaoxiangjiushishuoyichangde，xifudaziranyeshi，hunyinquanshicouhuoguo，sheidoubuliyi。meiyouzhaoguolianrende，yizhiyuhuibeichaoxiaonenglibuhao。shijishangbuyiweiran，zaigongzuocengmianyouyuwangyougongxiandenanren，yibanquanshichongdongjiaoweimingxiande，tamenzhongyebuwuxingyuwangshengkeshiduizishenqishizhongshizhe，yingduiwaibunvrendeyouhuo，weishenmezheixienanrenjiukeyidikangdezhu、dujuepanbianni?

 zheixiebuzhongchengairende，zhishiyouyukuzaodexingshenghuoma?buke，daliangyouyuyixiebiedeyaosu。airensichuliudang，waiyuwukebimian。fufubeipanledangshideshiyue，yibuzhongshi，yuanguzaiyu?weichihunyindeshenxinjiankang，jiuwenxintixingbaochixialiewudayinsu。

聆听

 huoxunibingmeiyouguanniandao，keshinidelaogong(laopo)quejingchangyouneiyangdejuede，neishinimeibanfatingta(ta)shuohua。xixinzhuiyiyixia，shibushinichangchangshuo：“wohenmang”、“nengfouyihuierzailiao”zheileidehua?jiusuanjianzhimangdemeiyoushijian，niyeyingdangyibianairenkongchubuhuishoudaodajiaodeyiduanshijian，jiusuanshilaodiaozhongdan，haiyaoxixintinghou。lingtingshizengjipengyouguanxideshilipin，qingqianwanbiehulvetadenengliang。

接触

 jibenshangsuoyourenxinlingshenchudouqipanerqiebixutarendexiangyonghefumo。dangnizhinengzaixingshenghuodeneishihoucaiyoujifuzhiqin，neimanidengyushizaifasongdaoneiyangdeshujuxinhao，niyibuguanzhunideairenle。dajiazhongjianxianghuzaoyijuedequefajiechu，qingganjianjiandishengshuyexushizhongjiuhuideshi。

先人后己

 dangniqueshixiangrangdeairentihuidaonidelianqing，neimajiuqingbalingyifangfangdaodiyiwei，shishichuchuweilingyifangweitarenzhexiang，erbingbushizhushicongzishendeshijiaolaikan，quguidinglingyifang。

一直灰心丧气

 youderenyizhihuixinsangqi、yifubijiaoyanzhongtongkuzhengdemoyang，haoxiangquanbudekaixindoulitamenshifenmanzhang。neiyangderenfeichangrongyiherenzaochengjiedi，bingqietongchangquanshitamenzishenzaochengde。jibianqueshibukaixin，haiyaodongdeziwodiaozheng，zaiairenyanqianyizhibaiyizhangkugualian，liantongzheta(ta)deqingxuyebeinisunhuaile。neiyangxialai，liangrenjiaoliujiangdi，jibianjiali，guduganyehuiyulaiyuqiang。

过度严苛

 yankeshiyizhongxintai，yufennubuyiyang，fennushiruguonideairendequeganlehebulainichengdandaodedixiandeshicaihuiyinqidexintai。erjiaruguoduyanke，duiairendemeiyijianshidoukeke，congchuanyifupinweidaoqizhongaidedianshilanmu、yinledianying，yizhiyulianta(ta)wanglaidepenyoubixuzhuyizenan。

 buzhi，neiyangdelaogong(laopo)，najiachidexiao?yinci，gankuaizhongzhinidemaiyuanba，congjintiankaishi，tianbuyinkeqiudaozhidefumianyingxianghaiweishibuwan。zenmejingyinghunyin?