4种婚姻作战方式：冷战破坏力较大!

夫妻之间 怎么相处?一个冷漠，一个狂躁;一个软硬不吃，一个油盐不进，婚姻生活进到皮软期如同传动齿轮没有了汽车机油，每一次磨合期全是对相互的活力耗费，因此拥有用絮叨和抱怨做武器装备的游击战，有互相理会的家庭冷暴力，有协同家庭主要成员的对垒战，及其手无寸铁的肉搏战……实际上，在夫妇全部种类的矛盾中，冷战通常最致死。

冷战

 xushu：wulunniruhechao、ruhenao、ruhefabiao，wohaiwudongyuzhong，nimanide，nixutaonide，jiudangerbianfeng，chedifangyuliqilai，fuqizhijianchedimeiyougoutongjiaoliuheneixingoutongjiaoliu。(fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?zenmejingyinghunyin?

不良影响：★★★★

 jiatinglengbaoliduihunyinshenghuodecanhaiyidiandoubuxunyuroubozhan。yixieroubozhanshizaiyifangyouyixierengeleixingxiaoquediandejibenshang，tacaozongbulexintai，huoshihezuijiushide。xuduorenroubozhanyihouyehuiyue，yeshitianbu，yinci，roubozhanduihunyinshenghuodesunhaibingbushilijihuodiyide。

 zuikongbudejiushishuolengzhan，shijishang，lengzhanjiushishuobuyuangoutong，sheqigoutongle，yizhiyuyoushibiroubozhanyeyaocanhai，youshiroubozhanshiyifangyuanyigoutong，zhishiqianquefangshidegoutong，shiyizhonghenruozhi、yumei、chushide，xiaodongwuyiyanggoutong，yaoshibingbushiqueshibuliangxiguan，liruyibeizijiudaleyicihuoshi2ci，neileidaobingbushifeichangbijiaoyanzhong，zuikongbudeshijiatinglengbaoli，duihunyinshenghuodeyizhongsheqi，sheqieryihuoli，shizuiyouzhangerrangrenwunaide，sheqizuishaoshixunzhaobaituo。

肉搏战

 xushu：beilingyifangyijuhuarejileyan，youhuoshihezuijiushenzhibuqing，yuwangqilai，lvqixiuzichiboshangzhen，zuochengyituan，zhizhixiufushenzhihuoxinyouhuiyi，zuizhongcaiyanqixigu。

不良影响：★★★

 congrujinbanbude《fanjiabaofa》，renmenjiandaorebaoli(shuobailede“roubozhan”)jianghuiduiroushendecanhaishiyinxingde，henrongyizaoshoufalvfaguiweihu，gengfeichangrongyixunqiubangzhu。shijishang，roubozhanyeshiyigepinlvnanti，jiarufufuwanhunersanshinian，shudeqingdeyiliangciroubozhan，zheileisunhai，jiusuanshineishihoushaoyoufudu，danxiubuqilaibingbushijiannan，padeshikuangrichijiuderoubozhan，huoshishiyiqiangyiruoderoubozhan，zongyouyifangzaoshoulingnve，zheileijiushiyijingqishendaorentiquanshijiaoqiangdecanhai。

对垒战

 xushu：genjuxietongxiaohai、gonggongpopo、fumu、xiongmeiheqinqipengyou，chanshengtongyizhanxianyiqichize，yizhiyujingonglingyifang，bianxiaolingyifangdeshengcunhuanjingheyanyushineikongjian，zhizhimeiyourenlianmin，bierenkanbushang。

不良影响：★★

 renmenbingbushichangdaoshuangfangduilei，ji2gejiazhongchanzaiyikuaierda。zhongjiu，quanbudebaoliyebuyingdangtichang，jiaruzheizhizhongyoukeguande、congmingderendaozaiqizhongdiaohedehua，yebuyidingshicuoshi，liangjiarenzhongjianfandaohuixiujianyixiegongluqiaoliang，liru，xiaofuqigoutongbutaihao，liangcedefumuhenkeguan，tamenjinguanshiduileile，dandoushiyouxiaodegoutong，nijiubuhaipa。

 danjiarubicifumushiyibianyiweidijianrongzishendexiaohai，chizelingyifang，kuadaqicilingyifangquexian，erduizishendexiaohaicaiyongkuanrongshenzhitanhudexintai，neibianshizhuanyexingdenanti。renmenhuoxubuqidaijiandaozheiyangdeshiqing，jiarushishuangfangdefumu，fumuzhanchuquyueshulizishendezinv，zheilei“duileizhan”shijishangshiyizhonggoutong，daobingbushiyizhong“zhan”。

游击战

 xushu：xutao、maiyuan、chize、jianmo……chixuhaofeinidehuolihezhandounengli，youbuyunidazhongxingfanmianmaodun，haifanjie“zheigeren，shuonijijudoushuobuhaoma?”dibaolijijininanshou，youbukeansheng，xiangjumutouyiyang，yidiandianjiangreqingxiaoshidaijin。

 buliangyingxiang：★youjizhan，shijishangshifuqijiandegoutongfangfaxiangduixingdanyi。xutaoshizhiliuzaizuibian，meiyougenggaidexingweinengli，zheileiyoujizhan，nenggouyouji20nian、30nian，yizhiyu50nian，zhizhizaiqizhongyifanglaidaoxingmingzuishenchu，tajianghuihaiganjue“meirentingwoxutaole”erjuedehenwanxi。

 shijishang，buguannanrenhenvrenxutao，quanshiqipanlingyifangkeyiguanxindaozishendeyizhongbiaodaxingshi;ciwai，zuowei“beixutaofang”jiarujiyanle，nenggougaijinxutaodepinlvhefangfa，zaidu，youshihouxutaohaitingwennuan，tingbujianxutaofandaozaoxin。

 yinci，worenweiyoujizhandesunhaibingbushifeichangshen。xutaodaoyidingshuipingdeneishihou，jianghuihuizaochengduileizhan。xutao，jianghuizaoyibianweishenghuozhongdeyigejuqingle。haodexutaoshiwuguantongyangde，huaidexutaojianghuihuishenggaoweilengzhanhuozheroubozhan。zenmejingyinghunyin?