中国式婚姻：缺了这7样东西，婚姻索然寡味

夫妻之间 怎么相处?    古时候，爱、敬、和睦，才算是极致情况。我们中国人对婚姻关系最多的颂扬并不是郎情妾意，只是举案齐眉。中国式的夫妇，从不缺默默地兼容互相相助，不缺忍耐恪守患难与共，却非常容易由于缺了这7样东西，让婚姻索然寡味。

缺风趣

风趣还要选好最佳时机

 richangshenghuodexiaomoca，xuduoshiyiguoxingde，meibixuyiyijiaozhener。youshihouyongxieqingqingsongsongfengqudefangfayekeyirangzhengfengxiangduihuazuoqingsongyixiao。

 yingyongfengqujiejuemaodunshi，haiyaotiaoxuanzuijiashijibingqieliuyibukeyiquefalingting。youshihoupeiouhenyongxinyansurenzhendigennigoutongmoujianshi，nikeyigaoduzhongshibingranglingyifanglejienijianjiandizaoyilejienantidesuoshu，fangzhijipeioudaozhiyizhixipixiaolianmeifagaoduzhongshinantideyinxiang。(fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?zenmejingyinghunyin?

缺烂漫

烂漫的实质是认真

 lanmanshigebolaici，zaiwoguorendechuantongshihunyinguanli，feichangshaotichangzheiyidongxi。zhidaoxianzai，rengyouxuduorenxinyang“faweicaisuanshizhen”deyishi，jieyoubugaoduzhongshitaohaolingyiban。bansuizhexianghuyulaiyuzhangwo，shenghuobudiaoyizhiyulaiyuyizhi，shirisuiranquxiangfawei，danqingyibukesuishijiandanhua。

 duiairendeqingyibukeyizhifangzaixinshang，gengyingzaigerenxingweijiyanyushangzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，lirujingchangxingzengjilingyifangyixiechuhuyiliaodexiaolipin，tizaomomodigexingdingzhimenpiaofeihurandailingyifangqutingxinyiyijiudexunhuiyanchang。hunyinshiquxiangfaweide，danrenmenhuanshiyingdangdiansixurangxianghujuededaoaihaizai。

缺沟通

连通精神世界堡垒

 goutongbingfeizaijiazhongdashijianshangcaixuyaodeshi。changchangxianghuzhijiangongxiangshenghuodediaoping，cairanghunyinguanxigengyou，renmenzuyiweichiduipeiouneixinshijiedelejie。shubuzhi，goutongyaoliuyiraokaiaie、debing、pibei、mangliudengshike，fangzhirenmenhuolingyifangjiangbiededexiaojiqingxubuzhudongdixuanxiezaigoutongdangzhong。

缺赏析

越亲密无间越必须称赞

jiaowangjiule，2gerendequedianzaimocazhongbuduandizhanxian，eryoushiquehuibansuizheshijianyuelaiyuejianguaibuguai。

 womenzhongguorenbachengzanhehaowuyiwendangzuogongwei，xuduorenjuedezhinengyouqiuyurenshicaibixugongweibieren，yizhaozheiyiluojixing，qinrenjiuchedimeibixubiaoshuchengzanle。

 shijishang，zaihunyinzhongnuli，dajiadouqidailingyibannengjiandao，nidehaowuyiwenhuiranglingyifangjuedenulishiyoushiyongjiazhide。lingyifangmian，renmenyeqidaihuodeqinmiairenwuchangdehaowuyiwen，zheihuiwomenyiqiganjuezishenzailingyifangneixinshibeitatengxide。

缺童真

调料夫妻性生活吊瓶

 quwei，shifuqixingshenghuoyouliangderunhuaye。richangshenghuoshibushideyongtongzhenlaibiaoshuaiyi，liruwanpidigaoelingyifangyixia，yiqiwanwanershideshoujiyouxi，nengdiaojikuzaofawei、jiandandeshenghuoqiju，ranghunyinzhongdenanrennvrenyuelaiyuequweiqilai，shenghuoyuelaiyuefengfuduocai。youzhetongzhendefufu，shenghuogengqingqingsongsong，yegengshanyuyitongfajueshenghuodeyouqudeshi。

缺亲密

撒狗粮并不是十分可耻

 yizhongbeiyouyanjiangcuchongyi、faweiruzhuoshuiyitandesheyouyiyangdeguanlian，xuduorenbazheileizhongguoshifufudequexianchengzhiwei“zhongguoshifufubing”。

 xuduorenchangrenweilaonianfuqilemeibixuzhuyaobiaoxiandetaiguopapa，yizhiyuduiyujuedemiantian。shijishang，shentichupengzhenduibaochiwendingdehunyinguanxiyouguanjiangongxiao。bixuliuyideshi，chupengdeweizhiyaorangpeioujuedeshufu、fangzhipeioujuededichuweiyi，buranhuijuyoufanshijixiaoguo，liruyoudenvshijiuhendichulaogongshoudoubuxijiumozishendelian。

缺暖心情话

表述才可以让爱流动性

 zhongguoshidefufuchangshuo：“neimahenduonianle，dahuoerneixindougaoqingchu。”shijishangshi，jiarurenmenbubiaoxianchulai，lingyifangdoubuzhidaonizhenzhengdeniantou，zaifaweideshirili，aibixubeiyicicidezhuzhong，ranglingyifanglejienicishiduitadejuede。

 yanyurangyongyuandouzaixianghudexintouliudongxingqilai。ruguonibeilingyibandegerenxingweidadongshi，nenggoubiaoshu：“niweiwozuodeyaowojuedehaoxingfukuaile。”danglingyifangpengdaocuobaishi，xiangtabiaoshu：“wulunchanshengnaxie，wodoushihenizaiyiqiyingduide!”zenmejingyinghunyin?