婚姻经营：年轻人离婚率高的原因分析

xianrujindenianqingren90houlihunyulaiyugao，zailiyijingbingzhongzhanjufeichanggaodebili。jutongji，wanhunyinianhouliyidenianqingren90houlihundadao1/5zhiduo，zheibangaode90houlihunshenhou，daodishishenmeyuanguni?zheijiulaidaininfenxishiqing。

一、大环境变了，意识也发生变化

yiwang，dajiahuxiangronghe、mairuhunyinshenghuojichuyi“shengchanzhizao”weimudi，liyiyeshibeichengzuoyigerenshehuidaodeshangdewuziyuquedian。lihunanlishifenshaojian。

erxianrujinnianqingdeyidaizixiaoyishizhuxingzaiwuzhishenghuogengjiachongzudeziranhuanjingzhong，tamenhunyinshenghuodejibenyichanshenggenggai。“dangdaihunyinshenghuodaliangdeshikaoganqing、wenhuayishuhexingdengbenzhiqiaolianglaihuijifufu，neiyangdefuqiguanxibeichengzuo‘xintaizhuangtai—wenhuayishuoumeng’。”zhongguoshekeyuanyanjiuzhe、woguojiatinghunyincujinhuiquanweizhuanjialianhehuibangongshizhurenchenyiyunbiaoda，yumoshiduibi，tawenmingxingweideduo，fazhandeduo，yemingandeduo。

chukaihunyinshenghuoxucunjibendezhuanbian，shijishang，nianqingrendegao90houlihunjinjinqiehelelishishijianfazhanqushishishangchaoliu。waibugongzuojingyanzaoyishuoming，chengzhenhuajianshe、xiandaihuatishengchanshengdeshehuifazhanxiaoyongzhiyijiushi90houlihundetisheng。

zhongguofaxuehuihunyinjiatingfaxuecujinhuihuisheng、zhongguozhengfadaxueguojijiaoyuxueyuanxiaozhangxiayinlanjuede，shehuifazhanjiaoduiwaikaifangdediyu，dajiadejiazhiguannianshenghuofangfaxiangduixingduiwaikaifangheduoyuanhua，gangweihediquliudongxingjiaoweijingchang，yinrenkouqianyi、fuqiliangdifenjusuozaochengdejiazhongganranlibianruo，hunyinguanxizaoshouyanzhongweihai。“chengzhenhuajianshe、xiandaihuashuipingyuegaodediyu，90houlihunxiangduixingjiuhuitisheng。”

二、婚姻生活是门大学问 “巨婴们”却无师可从

shengzhangfayuzaizhongguodenianqingrenzaihunyinshenghuoshangtongchangchuzainankandechujing，yifangmianyinwei“bukeyixueshengtanlianai”dengyuanguganqingquefajingyan，lingyifangmianzaihunyinjingyingshangqianquejutizhidao。gengkongbudeshi，babamamazaiqizhongdegongxiaobuxi“aihongbianye”。

yuxifangguojiatongnianlingrenduibi，zhongguonianqingrenzaiganqingcengmiandegongzuojingyankuifa。keshijinxinggaodengzhiyejiaoyu、gaoxiaoyidaxuebiyebiangangkaishizaoshoujiashucuiyaowanhundegongzuoyali。yinweiquefajingyan，jiashangyibufenbabamamadeqianghanganshe，henduonianqingrendayuewufalianchuxuanzelingyibandehuiyan，hunhouxianghudenantibianhuibaoluwuyi。

“womenzheiyidai，meiyouzailianqingzhongchengcai，jieguolijizaihunyinshenghuozhongchangshicuowu。”yiweilaiyuanyubeijingshide80hounanhaizibiaoda。

zhideyitideshi，zairuhejingyinghunyinshang，chuxiannantizenyangchuli、tuierqiuqici，nianqingyidaimingbaidehuanshiguoshao。zhongguoshekeyuanyanjiuzhe、woguojiatinghunyincujinhuiquanweizhuanjialianhehuibangongshizhurenchenyiyuncengzhiyanbuhui，“shixia，zaiwoguomeigexingdangdouzhuzhongzhiweizhunruzheng，zuojiazheng、xiaoshigongbixupeizhen。quehandeshi，weiyousimenzuiguanjiandegangweiliewai：zuofufuhezuobabamama，bulunshichengrenjixujiaoyuhuanshixuelitisheng。” qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

zhengyouyuzaihunyinshenghuozheimenkeshangnianqingrenwushikecong，tamenbianjierxunqiubangzhubabamama，danyihandeshi，zhuduobabamamajiejuexiaohaidehunlianwentishitongchanghuoshangjiayou，jiakuailefuqiguanxideliekai。

woguohunyinjiatingzixunfuwuxiangmuyanjiusuobangongshizhurenwangjunjiangbabamamachengzhiweinianqingrenhunyinshenghuode“disanzhe”，“xuduorenmeiyoushuobailexiongmei，yushangnantishi，diaozhengqingxudeweiyifangshijiushishuogenbabamamajiang。shubuzhi，babamamayoujueduilizaizishenxiaohaizheiyifang，yibanbabamamaqianshejinqujiumeiyoukongjianle，nantifandaohuishengji。”