经营婚姻：夫妻感情不和离婚了，孩子怎么办

fuqibuhe，liyi。keshixiaohaibingmeiyougenbabamamaqingganbuhe。xiaohaishibeidongjinengliyi。xiaohaimeiyoutiaoxuan，zhiyouxincunjiaoxing。neimalihunhouhou，xiaohaizabanni?

1、能够用婉转的方法教育小孩

ruguodaxiedexiaohai，nenggoulijijiaoyuxiaohaifumulihunle。jiaruxiaohaihaixiaodehua，nenggoushuo：”xiaohaifuqin\muqingongzuozhongbijiaomang，fumuyaolinshifenliyixia，keshifumuyiyangaizheni。dengxiaxingqideneishihoufuqin\muqinjiuhuihuilaikanzheni。nikeyibaobeiguaiguaideyo。“

ps：biaoshudeneishihouyaoqingqingsongsongdaziranbubizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendewunaihetongchu。neibanduixiaohaiweihaihenbutaihao。huibatongchudailaixiaohai。chengrenshijiedefanzaqingganzongshiqizhaxiaohai。zhongjiuxiaohaihaiyaofazhanqi。wulunnidexiaohaiduoshao，dangnizhenxinainidexiaohaidehua。bixubazishendetongchushouqilai。

2、别把心态撒在小孩手上

wojuedeliyiduidabufenfufueryan，quanshimeibanfachengdande，dangniqueshineixinhenbushufu，jiubaxiaohailinshifangjinbabamamajiazhong。keshishijianbukeyizhangshijian，zhongjiuxiaohaizaoyibukeyihefumuyiqiyishizhuxingle。yincibukeyibaxiaohaipaozaiyibianzhangshijian。

wulunnineixinyoushizaitaidebushufu，yidingbubirangxiaohaikanchuqu。gengweibubigenhuanshifalaosao。wulunfenfanyiqiezenmebian，niyizhizaixiaohaiyanqianquanshiyigekaixindemuqin。nikeyilixingdekandaixiaohai，bubiyouyuzishendexintaijiuduixiaohaikekeqilai，huoshimabidayiwulun。

3、不必跟小孩说另一方说闲话

babamamashixiaohaidekaimo，zaixiaohaineixinbabamamashineixinqinpeidechaojiouxiang。xuduoxiaopengyoudoushishuo：”wozhangdaleyaoxiangfuqinyiyang“。”wozhangdalehaiyaoxiangmamayiyangzuoyigebaiyitianshi“。liyishichengnianrendeshi，bubisunhuaibabamamaxiaohaixinlidepinpaixingxiang。

jibianciwaiyifangqueshihentaiguo，yebiezheiyangzuo。dangnineibanzuoshihenzisizilide。jiuhuijixiaohaineixinluoxiayinhen，ganjueshifuqin\muqinpaoxialezishen，shitaduimuqintaibutaihaole。shitaduifuqintaibutaihaole。xiaohaidexinlijiuhuihenxinhan，yizhiyubuzixin，panni。neiyangshiqiejide。

zaizheileiziranhuanjingxiazhangdaledexiaohai。xinlishitongchude。shijishangnijianghuibuqingchuxuduopannidexiaohaiquanshibuzaishenxinjiankangdeziranhuanjingzhongzhangdalede。qingaixi，weihunidexiaohai!