不争吵不意味着婚姻幸福快乐 夫妻间最恐怖的就是说沉

zenme jingyinghunyin ?xuduorenhuiganjueganqingchuxiannanti，yidingshihuiyoutianbengdiliedezhengzhi。danshideneishihou，jiusuanshihunyinshenxianningjing，doushilingrenjuedenanshoubuxingfukuailede。

tamenzhongjianmeiyouwaiyu，meiyoudisanzhe，yizhiyumeiyouzhengchao，hainengxianghupeihedefeichanghao，danjiushishuotihuibushangxingfukuaile，zheigeshishenmeyihuishini?(zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

zheileibuxingfukuaile，budanburongyilingrenshenjingzhi，fandaohaihuijiniyilianlengmo，buqingchuzishennaerzuobudui。

zaiqingganli，zuinuoruodejiushishuoduibeijufamale，zhizhirenmenzaimouyitianjiandaotarendesagouliang，caifajueguoqudedajiadoushineimedexiangai，danrujindehunyinqueyuelaiyuelengdantiandan，yebuqingchuganqingshishenmeneishihoubianweineiyangdele。

nichedibuqingchu，huoxuzaoyiduizheileihunyinfangshixiguan，benzhibuqingchulingyifangcuozainaer，youmuyoucuo，juedeyiqieshangmianshifendeyiqiezhengchang，jinguanneiyangdehunyinkanqilaimeiyounanti，danjiaodadenantijiuqujueyu，hushi。

neimazaihunyinli，nijiujinghushilenaxie?

jielehun，huaihaizi，shenghuojiuchuzaigongzuozhonghexiaohai，liangdianyixian，jieguojiushishuochixudesuoxiaogenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuhudongjiaoliudeshijian，zuizhongjiabianweileyigexiexidezhuanyunzhan，fanhuijiazhongxianghumeiyoudegoutongjiaoliu，xishoutaiwan，likejiutangxialairushui。

suiranpingchangmeishenmefenqi，danjiaruxianghujianmeiyoushenjiaodehua，neizheiyiduanqingganzaoyimeiyoushenghuodeyiyile，dangwomenpengdaoliyishi，yizhihuixiangzishenshifoufanlenaxiedacuo，zaochengleqingganfensuile。

shijishangxuduoneishihou，hunyindebenkuiquanshiyoujishaochengduodesuoshiduichengde，zheicaisuanshidaohuoxian，bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan，dajiazaizhenduijiejueguanlianshi，yizhiyongyoubuzhengque，jiuliru：

renyizhihuizailejierendeyanqianbazishencaogaodeyimian，zhanxianchuqu，erzailurenyanqian，yizhibazishenhaodeyimian，zhanxianjilingyifang。

feichangrongyizaishenghuoxiaoshizhong，wangdiaodangshidezixin，zaihunyinli，zuikongbudebingbushiliangrenyiqiquzhaoxinxiangan，zhishibuduandezaiyitantanshuili，mailideqinfen，daozuizhongrutongzaoyixiguanxingzishenyiyangxiguanxinglingyifang。

zhenduizheileidetichufenshou，nantiguanjianchunizaijidian：

1)duixianghuqianquelexinxiangan，shiquliangxingyouhuoli

2)yalitaida，zhenduilingyifangdezhangwobuzu

3)meiyouhuodelingyifangchongzudeguanxin，chediduihunyinjuedexinhan

jianghuijiuhuixuduorenganjue，zheibingbushidabufenrendehunyinma?

youxuduohunyinshineiyang，danrenbuyiyang，youxierenduishenghuodeguidingbuyiyang，youxierenguidinggao，youxierenguidingdi，raneryouderen，xiaizaihunyinzhongxunzhaobuyiyangshenghuoxiguanderen。

neima，dangwomendehunyinchuxianneiyangdenanti，danyouxiangwanjiuzabanni?

懂得生产制造危機

dangwomenduidangjindeshenghuo，juedebugaoxingyizhiyuxinhandeneishihou，bingfeiyouyuxiankuangbuzuhao，zhishiwoxianzaiguodetaishushianyile，meiyoujinpogan，bukeyijuededaodangjindeburongyi。

zheiyineishihou，tiyidongdeduanlian，ranglingyifangguanniandao，jiusuanzaihunyinli，yigerendeqingkuangquanshizaiyuzishendeshenghuoguan，yexubingfeilianleitadecunyou。

dangtafajuenibuzaitashenpangshi，fandaoguodegengzaole，neimazheiyineishihou，tacaihuiguanniandaonidebiyaoxing。

danggennvxingzaiyiqishenghuoshi，caishicongxinlijienaxianxiadeshenghuo ，meiyouqinshenjingliguosangshidetongchuweishenmehuilejiehuodeshishizaitaidebuyi。

更改交往的方法

youyigehenguaiyidezhuangkuang，xianghuzaiyiqijiule，fandaohuibiandegengjiazibi，yulaiyubuyuanfenxiang，errenmendefenxiangzeshidefangsongle，meishenmebideshangrangxianghudezhongjiannengyouhua，zuinengrangguanlianyouliangtiwenle。

neimazheiyineishihou，yaodongdezaixiabanle，xiangshoukuaile，jiandaozhangfuzaipangbianfangsongdeneishihouyaohelingyifangtaolunshenpangdeshi，jianjiandideshijianzhangle，zhangfuyehuishouweihai，huijijifenxiangyixiequwen。

xuduoneishihou，hunneichuguiderendoushishuo，“wogentameiyouhuatitaolunle”，danshijishangbingfeimeile。

zhishirenmendeguannianlizaoyihushilefenxiang，ruguoniyuelaiyuebudongdefenxiang，neimalingyifangdazirandoubuxiangyaofenxiang。

nimeihua，yinweiwomeihua，neimaqingganjiuhuijianjiandideyuelaiyueqianquele。

zaihunyinliyuanyibeijiandao，haiyaodongdeqingtuhefadia，fuqijiandexinxianganshijishangbingbuhuitainan。

youshiniganjuehaojiumeizuodeshi，zaizuoyicijiushishuoxinxianganle。poxiguanxizenmechuli?