作为丈夫，如何正确对待妻子的婚外遇

 waiyushiganqingpinweizhisidezuihouyidaofangxian，neimayingduiqiziwaiyu，zuoweizhangfuyingdangruhelixingdeyingduizheiyinanti，jiexiaquwangbianjiangzuoweizhangfu，zenyangzhengquekandaiqizidehunwaiyuheqiziwaiyudeyuanguhexintaishiruheni。

一、做为丈夫，怎样正确看待妻子的婚外遇

1、控爆力：

 qizichuguiduiyiqieyigenanreneryanquanshichiru2，quanshimeifarenshoudeshier，huijuederangzishenmeifayangtou，bijiaoyanzhongsunhailezishendezizunxin，keshishierzaoyichanshengle，fahuohenyiqiezhengchang，hexintaikongzhibule，yidingyaocaozonggerenxingwei，qianwanbieyoupianjigerenxingwei，hezuochujiatingbaoli，sunhaiqilingyifangdegerenxingwei，zuihouyehuisunhaidaozishen，doushimeiyounagebixu，sunhailecengjingdeairen，neishihouchuleyikoueqi，zhihouxiangzheyouzenyang。

2、冷暴力：

 danglejiewaiyuyishikeguanshishi，zishenyidingyaowaichuyiduanshijian，rangzishenhaohaodilizhiyixia，bubizaiqitoushangjiejueneiyangdenanti，yiqiebuzailizhizhuangkuangxiazuochudejuecehegerenxingweiquanshibuzhengquede，zuihouhuirangzishenhouhuimojide，kanbujianxinburongyitaifan，daizishenmeiyouneimadadenuhuoshi，zaizhaogeshijianjiejue。

3、低调：

 suyushuo“jiachoubukewaiyang”，zhenduiqiziwaiyuzheizhongshiqing，huanshiliangrenlejiekeyile，bubiyibianchuzishenneixindeeqizishendougangkaishishuogebuduan，naxieweibowenzhang，heweixinfapengyouquan，nongdejiefanglinjudajiajiezhi，haipatarenbuqingchuzishendeqizichuguile，zhangyangshiduifudegerenxingwei，hebushilixingde。

4、不损害：

 waiyuzaoyichengweishishi，waiyudeshiershizhongbubiqumaiyuanlingyifang，xiangzhezishendoushiyouyidingdebuzhengquede，yiqianfufushienaide，yuanlaizejuheyuanmiezesan，yebubiyitiandaowandezhengzhizhengzhi，jingonglingyifanghejiemilingyifangdequedianquanshicuowude。shuo“hunyinshenghuojiushishuoganqingdemuzang”，dadishimeiyouganwudaohunyinjingyingdefangfa，zaiganqingshenghuozhongzaoshoulenantimeiyoufeichanghaodeshutongchuli。

二、妻子外遇的缘故和心态是如何呢

1、孤独心态

 yinweigongzuozhongyuanguhuozhefuqiliangdifenju，yixiezhangfuchangchangmeiyoulaoposhenpang。jiaruneiyangdezhangfuqianquejiazhongshiminggan，buguanzhulaopo，buchangchangjixinbiaoshuzishendexiangnianzhiqing，zhangciyiwang，bidingshifuqijiandeqingganquyulengmo，shilaopozaochengguduxintai，juedemeijingshenjiezhu。zheishi，jiaruyudaoshihedeyixingpengyou，laopojiujianghuiqueshididangyinyoudegongzuonengli。

2、怨气心态

 lirufuqishenghuoshifuqixingshenghuozhongyixiangshifenguanjiandeneirong。jiaruzhangfuyouyuboqigongnengzhangai，huoyouyuyaoqiugongzuozhengrifanmang，hulvelejiyulaopowennuan，huozhangfuzaiwaibiantanqiujiuse，bukeyimanzuqiziyiqiezhengchangdeshenglixuqiu，zhangciyiwang，jiuhuishilaopozaochengyuanqixintai，jinerhenyoukeneng“hongxingchuqiang”。

3、报复心态

 youdezhangfuduilaopochuguixingwei，zaiwaibianchuguilieyan，yidanshierdongchuangshifa，tongchanghuizaochengbukaixindexiachang。jiaruzuolaopodekaolvdaobutuo，yinuzhixiajianghuizaochengduifudexintai，xunzhaojiyu。