夫妻婚姻冷藏的方法 切记夫妻吵架的四大标准

怎么 经营婚姻 ?生活起居中，人们都会由于一些不大的事儿发生争执，接踵而来的，就是说越吵越利害，恋人也罢，夫妇也好，一样这般。

“jiangguoshiduoshaobianle，tuolemianwabubifangdaozhei，nitingbumingbaima?”zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

“neimenishixiama?woganggangtuodiao，jiuyaonalaixi，nidunangnaxie?”

“neizuorichiledefanheni?woruguobutishini，shibushinijiuwuxudiushi?”

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 zenmehuichaojia?huoxuwufakongzhiqingxu，yudiaoyuelaiyuebutaihaole，jiangguoxiezhisi、buhaotingdehua，suihoulingyifangyegensuichaoleqilai，zuizhongyuechaoyuebijiaoyanzhong。

 keshiguohou，yingshuolianggerenchaojiadeyuangushishenme，wojuedebicijianghuidouzaoyiwangle，jilaodezhinengchaojiaquanguochengzhong，lingyifangshuoguodeshangrendehua，yeyouneixionghendexiaobiaoqing。

chaojiadeyuangushishenme?zhinengdajialejie。

danchaojiademudishishenme?yibianjiejuekunnan。

 jiaruzhishishiyibianxuanxieqingxuerchaojia，neizuizhonghuodedeyejinjinduibiciganqingdesunhai，yingdangzhuizhenantiqugoutongjiaoliu，chulilenantidajiacaikeyigengqiangdezhangwolingyifang，renshiziji。

 yiduanganqingzhong，butaikenengmeiyoufenqi，meiyouzhengchao，danyaoshirenmenzhaoduifangshi，jibianshichaojia，yekeyibaozhengbushangganqing，fandaohaiyouliyuganqingtiwen，yinciqingjilaozheisidianbiaozhun。

01

表述情绪

 jiarutazuodeshierrangjiniqingxule，nikeyidongdebiaodachulai，wulunniyeshifahuo、gaoxing、nanguohuanshiqitaqingxu，nibixudongdebiaodachulai。

nibuyongshuo，tajiuburongyidong，ruguonibaxiaojiqingxuleijidehenduoshi，duiganqinghuiyulaiyubutaihao。

yincinikeyilijidebiaodachulai，ranglingyifanglejiezheizhongshi，yaoburanneishihoufashengzhengzhi，youhuibumingbubai。

02

表述见解

jiaruchaojiale，neizaichaojiadequanguochengzhong，bixuyoujianjiedegoutongjiaoliu。

 wobuhuirenkenizuodeshihejianjie，erqiewojuedetashuodehuozuodeyaowojuedebushufu，yincizaizhengchaodeneishihoubixubiaodachulai，bicikaizhangoutongjiaoliu。

03

不应用含有羞辱性的言语

 rendaoshifennaonudezhuangkuangxia，feichangrongyijiangchuxiuruxingdeyuju，huoshijiangcukou，zheijinguannengjiangnixinlidenuqixuanxiechuquyidian。

dannikeyigaoqingchu，chaojiabingbushiyibiansunhailingyifang，zhishiyibianrangbicidegoutongjiaoliuhenshen，genglejielingyifangdeniantou。

 ganqingdemoheqishiyigequanguocheng，jinguanmoheqidequanguochengbidinghuiyoufenqi、zhengchao，danniqidaizheizhongzhengchaojidajiazhihoudeganqingliuyouhenduodebahenma?

04

不提过去，就事论事

dajiachaojiale，youyudangjinzheijianshiqingyoumaodunle，dajiayaochao，jiuduizhezheijianshiqingquchao。

 buduandetiguoqushinanyijiejuenantide，erruguonitiguoqushi，lingyifangjianghuiyeyaoshuo“ninengfoubielaonayiwangdeshiershuo，taimanbujianglile”。

 zheileifangfa，budanhuiranglingyifangdichu，haihuibadajiaxianjieduandenantijimohubuqingdiao，zuizhongdajiawangbudiaoyiwangdenanti，hainanyijiejuexianjieduandenanti。

jishangleganqing，nantiyeshiquchuli，hekuni?poxiguanxizenmechuli?