婚姻的三个层级，第一个层级最非常容易离异

怎么 经营婚姻 ?【婚姻经营】往日许多人惊羡的恋人在感情慢跑后总算携手并肩走入了婚姻圣殿，你看见让你戴上钻石戒指的他，真心实意得给你红了眼圈，你感觉你一定会被他宠完一辈子的。

 liangnianguoqu，dajiayongyouzishendexiaohai，niyizhijializhaoliaoxiaohai，quanxinquanyizuozhe“muqin”zheiyigangwei。riziyuanbenyingdangguodeshushianyishushi，danshinijianjiandiganjuelaogongzaoyimeineimeainile。youshi，yizhengtianyeshuobushangyijuhua。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

 tazaiwaibianbenmangzhezhengqian，nizaijialiyangxiaohaileichenggourizi，dajiazhongjianhaoxiangyibushixiangai，dajiayulaiyuhaoxiangyizhongqiyueguanxi，nigentaqianleyifen“taquebaonideshenghuo，nibangtayangjialiyangxiaohai”dehetongshu。

 xuduoneishihou，nipengdaolexuduodebiequ，chongzhetaquekaibulekou。tagongzuozhongshizaitaibuyuanman，yejichubugennitanji。riziguodesiyibandejingjiyufawei，youshihouxiankaidejingtaohailangyejinjinchaoleyijia。

 niyibianjiehunzhounianrizuodexiufa，tayihuijialejiurushuizaibuyishafashang。nixingzhiboboganletazuixihuandecai，zuizhongdoufangruledianbingxiang。nigentajiangguopenyouchanshengdeyouqudeshi，tadixiatouwanzheshoujishangyiyanbufa。

 tashuoaiqingyisi，hunyinzaoyibianchengyizuokongcheng，zhuzhedajia2gekongxinren。tashuozheihunyinbingbushiniyuanyide，danshiniquewucongxiashougaizenmeban。

 nigangkaishihuailiangangchuduixiangneishihou，tazhuandehenshao，chiwanhaojidunmomodabaicai，caiheniyiqichiwanyidunxicanting，neishizheifenniubashiqueshihenxiang，lianhedeshuifangfoyegenliansuobianlidiangoudaodebuyiyang。

 nilejiezheiyiduanhunyinhuanshiyaojixuxiaqu，keshiqueshimanleide，huoxuzaoyizaizheiyiduanmeiyouganqingdehunyinliyiyanjiandaolezuishenchu。

 nijinbuzhugangkaishiziwen，niyaoaizhelaogongma?niyeshuobuqingdaobuzhun，gangkaishiyilvquanbudehunyindoushilaidaozheiwuaideyibuma?

 zheileihunyinjiaolvqingxuchuxianlezaban，gaizenyangchuli，zenyangtingguozheiyiduanhunyinjiaolvqingxuni?shijishanghunyinfenchengxuduogecengji，chuyubuyiyangcengjideren，chulidefangfabuyiyang。

第一层：婚姻出現的难题全是另一方的义务另一方的错

 zheiyicengjiderenjibenshangyizhengtiandouhaosiyuanfuyiban，baoyuanjiacuoren，baoyuanlaogongmeinaozi，baoyuanmingku。fuqijianyitiandaowansantianyidachao，ertianyixiaochao，bingbushiyouyuzishenxingzicha，zhishiyouyulaogongburongyihong。genjiapojiaowangjiannan，poxizhijianbutaihao，bingbushiyouyuzishenbutongqingdali，zhishiyouyujiapozongzhaocha。

 nizaishenghuoli，haowuyiwenyudaoguozheiyileifumianqingxubaozeng，zhangzuijiubaoyuanwaibuyaosuderen，gongzuozhongbuhaomalaozong，qingxunanshoumalaogong，benlingbuhaomaxiaohai，tamenshizhongjiandaodeshiquanqiudouhuizuaita，tamenzaizishenshoushangzhaobuzhenanti，shizhongbayiwutuijianjibieren。zheiyileidehunyinshizuifeichangrongyiliyide，youyuzishenyebugenggaidehua，youruhekongxiangtarennenglaniyibani?

第二层：婚姻出現难题是相互的义务，要一起处理

 nishifouhaijidehejielihunshinaoderenxinhuanghuang，hezimingganjuexifutaiqianghan，zishenzhaobuzhejiazhongdeyingxianglihezizun;hejiezejuedelaogongbusijinqu，jiazhongdezhongrendabufentayirendaokang，lianggebaodoushebudemai。

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 yiduanhunyinlaidaokuatai，zheiyiduanguanlianlideliangrenchangyouyiwu，guanlianyuanbenjiushishuohudongjiaoliudejieguo。xuduorenhunyindepinzhibugao，shenghuobutaishenzhanhekaixin，guanjianyuangubingbushihuaxuewuzhishangde，zhishixianghumeifa“kandao”lingyifangdezhenzhengcunyou。

 yincijiaruhunyinchulenanti，shiyaoliangrenxianghugenggai，xianghudanfuqizheiyiyiwu。liruhelianrenzhengchao，jiushiwogoutongxiediaonenglibutaihao，neimewomaijibenshuyouguangoutongjiaoliudeshu，jiushiwopiqibaozao，neimaxuexipeixunkefunaonu，shirenmenqingganbianqianle，neimewotiqianzhunbeiyichanglanmandeyouhui，yiqichiwancan，yiqiquguangshangchang，duoshengchanzhizaoyixiejiaowangdejiyu，fangshi yidingbinantiduo。

 zheiyileidehunyin，aixuexi，keyizhuanyezhishizhuanhuanchengjiejuenantidegongzuonengli，keyiguanniandaoaiqingshiweichipengyouguanxideguanjianyaosu，jiejuekunnanbushangganqing。

第三层：我可以更改婚姻生活现况

 jiaruhunyinliyouyizhongzhongren，neimanidezhongrenshisha?nikeyijinidehunyinganshenme?xiyifuzhufandaiwama?bu，neibujiaohunyin，jiaoayi。

 buyiyangdeshenfen，buyiyangdetiaoxuan，zongyoubuyiyangdesisuofangfa，yejiuchanshenglebuyiyangderenshengdaolu。nikeyilejie，nijiaoshenme，niyuanyiyichangruhedehunyin，tebieshizairuguoniguanniandaoxuduoshiermeifashiquanshimeideneishihou，nikeyizuoduitiaoxuan。

 nizaihunyinlideshenfenjuecelenidesiweimoshi，nidesiweimoshijuecelenizaijiazhongzhongdezhudaoquan。wulunnidehunyinchengshoulenaxie，nikeyidandulizhidesisuo，nideguanlijuecekeyihuodezhongshihuorentong，liangrenzhongdeyiqieyigeren，congmeixiangguobantutuichang，yeburongyirangqingganjiangchi。poxiguanxizenmechuli?