婚姻，几乎就不是一个人的单方努力

怎么 经营婚姻 ?俗语说：百年老修为同船渡，千年修得共枕眠。两个人在冥冥中，可以结交夫妇夫妇，是实在太有缘分的事儿。但常常也会听见身旁的人埋怨：我一直缺乏安全感，趁他入睡的那时候，一直禁不住偷窥他的手机上;人们常常冷战，如今是吵架都不想吵，我很痛楚;我跟我丈夫话越来越低，感觉沒有相互的话题讨论……

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