有一种婚姻关系的移位，对家人交往和孩子的损害

怎么 经营婚姻 ?许多丈夫在解决亲子关系，家人交往的难题处时只要说：“她就是我妈，我可以如何，就不可以让让她”，长期的谦让使家人的交往越来越歪曲。给全部家庭和孩子产生破坏性的损害。

一：婚姻关系是基础，家庭才会安如磐石

 jiatingshichuandiaidezhilizaiti，congfumufasongjihaizi，zaiyouhaiziwangxiachuandi。danshi，jiatingzhongjudiyiweide，bukeshiqinzihudonglianluo，zhishifuqilianluo。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

 ruguonijiangfuqilianluobaizaishouweishi，haizibianburongyizisizili， jiaruairenhelaoyibeizhongjianyoudingjianshangdehebulai，jingquedechuliguochengyidingshilingtingliangcedexiangfa。ruguoniyifuqilianluoweidiyiweishi，laoyibeichuntianranjiuhuizhangwo，niyijingconghaizishengzhangfayuweidandudechengnianren，rangnihezheifenairendaliangdehuayuquanhekewanxing。jiatingzhuyaochengyuanjianxianghuzhijiandejingzhongyeyoucierlai。

二：当一个家庭出現难题，最悲剧最可怜的一定是孩子。

 conghaizidejiaodiankan，tabingburongyiganjuelaolaoyexuqitaqinrenyoumaodunshizaitaizuigaikande，xiangbigendeqinren“fuchou2shizhengzhi”，tagengyaoqiudeshiyigeyunxuaidejiating。 hemuxiangchu，caisuanshiyizhonghenhaodechuliguocheng。

 haiziduibabamamadeaiyuanbendoushiquanshenxinde。 dahuoerqiangzhidejiangaihuazuodishi，kenqiutadongdehen，kenqiutaguliwuyuan、diduitazhiaideqinren，shenzhiyitaweibingqitupian，qushousunzheiyitayixiangjiejinquanliweihudejiating。

 yincishuo，zhenzhengde“zunjinglaoren”，yishi nazijidanghuishier，nalianrendanghuishier，rangfuqiliangrenbianweijiatingdechanyejidi，rangjiatingbianweichuandiaidezhilizaiti。neiyangdeqinziguanxicaisuanshishenxinjiankangde、yiqiezhengchangde。poxiguanxizenmechuli?