为何婚姻中爱的男人通常被人们伤的令人难忘?

怎么 经营婚姻 ?现如今，很多暂未踏入婚姻生活圣殿的人 通常担心完婚，而结婚了的人却又惦记着离异。究竟是哪儿出了难题?人们为什么要结婚?当相随很多年的夫妇遭受绿灯，人们也要不要走下来?

wochangchangtingjianyixiezixunzheduilingyibanneiyangdezhize：zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

“——womeirizaoyigouleidele，fanhuijiazhixiangmabidayiyixia，tahaiyitiandaowanluoluosuosuo。

——wofeichangrongyima?zaiwaibiantanyewuliuchengshouweiqunilaishunshou，huijialeshuoerjuzenmela?

——duiwaikaifangrenhuoxubukeyifapiqi，renmenyoubutaishu!huijiajiazhongfapiqiyouyutajiushiwozuiqinmijiechuderena。”

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 dasixuanyang，bujiqishu。meiyicitingjianzheizhonghua，wodoushijinbuzhushenxiqitunayifan，tashinaodongdakaiyouduoshao，caikeyisuanchuzheiyifan“jujuchuoxin”dejichuliluna。

 “youyutajiushiwozuiqinmijiechuaidenanrena.....”zheiyiyuanyinwohaikuaitinglanle，jianxinkanzheipianwendeniyeyiyangtingdeerduolimiankuaiqijianle，jiarubianchengnizuiqinmijiechubixuyidanfuniduiquanbuwuguanjinyaorendengdenuhuoheyuanhenweifuchudaijiadehua，fangguowoba，queshi。bixinshoushi。

 zuixinchiguofanzhenglicanpandeneishihou，yibuxiaoxinfensuileergecaipan，laogongyifanchangtaidemeiyouzhoumeitou，doumeiyouzebei，zhishishaxiaojiangguoju：“suisuipingan。”suihoubangzhuzhenglitulidechenzha。

 zishen daguocaipanwoyixieyumen，tingtaneimeyishuoyejiufangkuanle，xiaoxixidedaoleshengxie，laogongzhengliwantuliyoulaijiwoqingchuchufang，zuizhonghenguoyibuqudeshuo：“zhiqiandeshierjiushiwocuowu，bujiunifensuicaipandeneishihouwodiyitixianyuanbenxiangshuoyiju ruhemaoshoumaojiaode，zhuannianyixiangdaonizhiqianshuodehua，jiarushipenyouzheiyineishihoufensuilecaipan，woyexuhaihuidaquerju，suihoubangzhuzhengli。jiulejieruhezuole。”

wodandanxiaodaomeishuohua。neixinquehenxiangyong。

 qianjiriyouyuyixieyuangu，pobudeyiyongxialaogongdediannaoshang，qineiyibuxiaoxintidaodianyuanchatou，diannaoshangyixiajiusijidaijile，laogongyixiazijiucongbuyishafashangdanqilaile，genhuokaotunbuyang，bashoujishangwangcanzhuoshangyireng，qidebuhao，zhirangrangwo：“wobujiuzuoleergezhongtoudetuhaimeiyouchucunni，niruhejiubukeyixiaoxinyidianni?yitiandaowanmaoshoumaojiaode。”

 wominzhezuimeishuohua，youyuwomingbaibianboqilaiyeshiyidunzhengzhi，dengxintailveweipingwen，wozuixiangentazhiqian：“baoqian，danwobushiguyide。”woyifangmianyouyuhuiletadelaodongchengguoerkuijiu，lingyifangmianyouyutaguodadefanyinghezhizeyixiebiequhefahuo。

zheijianshiqingzuizhongyiwobingbutaigaoxingdezuoleyifentazuixihuandeniunanfan，tazaicibatuzuoleyibianweileduan。

 yuanbenzheijianshiqingjiuguoqu。danshimeiguoduojiu，laogongyouyuhuanlegexindexianshiqi，rangneixingrendepengyouhuilaibangzhuzhuangruanjianshundaidiaojieyixia，youyuruanjianmianfeixiazaideman，lingwaichixuertiandouhuilaibangzhumianfeixiazai，dengpengyoudouzuowan，dakaijisuanji，yuanlaicunyoucpanlidegongzuowenjiansuoyoubeiwuqingleyiganerjing，tamenlianghuxiangkanyixia，douyixielengzhu，pengyoubuledizhiqian，danlaogongyidianyemeizhuyaobiaoxianchubugaoxingdemoyang，zhishuozheiertianbubiantale，haigentadaolexie，pengyouyizoutademiansejiukuale，kanjiandiannaoshangxintongdebuhao，zhishuo：“haofan，neilibianhaiyouwohualehaoduogeyuecaizuochuqudeshitimoxingni。”

woyewenqi：“neimeniweihebufapiqini?”

 laogonghenshijingyadewangzhewo：“wozhaobierenlaibangzhu，bierenyeshechilangfeileertianshijian，renmenguanlianhaimeiyouqinmijiechudaoneibandechengdu，fapiqidehuabutaihao。”

womuguangchenlechen，ranhouwenqi：“neimenidewendangdoumeiyoule，nitiqianzhunbeigaizenmeban?”

tatanleyikouqi，“hainenggaizenmebanni，zaicizuoba。”

 womianseyixiajiudingbuzhule。lijijiuwenqi：“weihetarenshancuoleniquanbudewendang，nikeyiyangzhuangmeishidebiezhudaoxie，keshiwojiujinjinyibuxiaoxintidaokaiguandianyuanrangdiannaoguanjile，jiuchongwofapiqi?”

laogongbaibaishou，shuo“buyiyanga，youyunishiwolaopo，jiushiwozuiqinmijiechuderena!”

 wozhenshiqijie：“jiushishuoyouyuwoshinizuiqinmijiechuderen，nandaoshuobuyingdanggengbaorongma?duibuqinmijiechuderenkekeqiqi，duiqinmijiechuderenhuomaosanzhang，tashishebenzhumo。”

laogongtinglewodehua，neishihoumeizenmeshuohua，suihoujiuchuxianlekaishideneiyimu。

 shijishangjiandaozheier，xianglainizaoyikanchulai，zheicizhengzhibingfeishenzhongkaolvdefanying，zhishiqiehexintaijishiershengdezhize。erzheizhongduibierenbaorong，duibanlvzhizedezhize，zaicaozongbulexintaiderenyanqianeryan，jiuhuibianweiyichangzaochenghunyinshenghuojiaolvbuandedaohuoxian。tangruozaishangbianzhengzhideneishihouwoyelaogongdezhize，yi“woyoubushiguyide”laibiandazhengzhi，kenengchaodaozuizhongyebingbushiyidunfankeyijiejuedenantile。

 xuduoneishihou，duiyubanlvkaizhanzhizeshitongchangmeiyoulejiedaozebeidesangeguanjiandian，kenenghuidaozhiyouliangdehunyinshenghuoyuelaiyuebutaihao：

diyi：renmenmeiyoulejiedao，renmenmeiriduibanlvfanyingguoduo，buzongshiyinqizhengzhi，yeyouzhize。

 dier：renmenjianxin，duiyubanlvdezhizeshiqiadangde，keshirenmenbingmeiyouguanniandao，renmenyiban douhuigenjuxiangbanlvshoushangqianyijialv，lairangtamenbianchengtizuigaoyang。

disan：dangyifangrensilibingzebeilingyifangshi，jiuhuizaochenglingyifangdekunhuo，lingwaiyuelaiyuetingconghezishenzebei。

 zheizhongjianjieshiyouweizhongyaode，suiranniyaoshuorenmenyouyuanyinjianxinrenmennenggoushifenfenghoudeduidairenmenxianghuguanxi，danshijishang，renmenduidairenmendejiaren，yuanyuandibirenmenguanniandaodegengweizhuguanxing。“zhize”shishishangshixiezaidiaorenmenjiaolvqingxudeyizhongbennengfanyingzhuyaobiaoxian。

 hebuzhuiyiyixia， nishibushiliuyidao，ruguonixinqingyumendeneishihou，shifouquanbushierkanshangqudoubuduitou，yexudebanlvhaoxiangkanshangqunanadouzuodehebulaiqingyi?zheierde“xinqingyumen”zhishishijiaolvqingxuxinfandelingyizhongjiaofa，zheihuishinishixianjuedenidebanlvshashidouzuobutaihao，bingqiezheijinigengweixinfan。zainikanlai，tayingdangbeinijingong，huoxujuedetashiyigehaiji。

 dangyiduifuqigangkaishifanboneijianshidebuzhengqueguisheideneishihou，shishishangshinidebanlvjuedeniyeshiyouxintiaodongzhengyi，taganjuezishendebianboshizaikaizhanyiqiezhengchangde“haiji”。zheiyejiushishuoweiherenmenbeiqingxuhuadeneishihou，jushihuiyibubushengjideyuangusuoshu，nidehuaixintaitongchangchuxianzaidajiazenyangkandainiyiqian，jinguannijuedetashizaitamengerenxingweiyihoudejieguo。

 zheijiushishuoweiherenmengongzuozhongduguoyigelejianxindedeyitian，dangnifanhuijiali，jiandaoxiaohaidachaodanao，banlvshouzuwucuodeneishihou，tongchangnengbiandegengweixinfan，baofaxingzideyuangu。

 renmenyizhihanzheaideweituoren，mingmuzhangdandesunhaizhezhizezherenmenaidenanren。qinaidede，daoshihoufapiqiyiqianhebumanxialaisisuoyixia，yiyangdeshier，jiaruhuanweiyibanpengyou，wokeyiruhekandaitani?

 weihedaobanlvshoushangrenmendouhuixiaotidazuoni?jiarububeiyishidexintaishangxia，suoshiyiranshisuoshi，youweishenmehuishengchengfenqini?woyouyoumuyougongzuonenglidanfujiexiaqudebuliangyingxiangni?poxiguanxizenmechuli?