为什么婚后丈夫有变化？怎么经营婚姻？

zenme jingyinghunyin ?disanzheshangwei、zaoyupaoxia：haozhangfujiujingyouduoguanjian“jinxingshuo：“nvrenshishui，niyong0duyujianwo，wolikebianbing。niyong100dushuoaiwo，wojiuhuimashangshaokai。niyong50duduiwomen，wobianbulengbure。”

nanrenzaihunhou，bianhuigezhonggeyangmaiyuan，weihezishenmeiyouyigexianshudeqizi：pingchangzhugefan，zuogejiawuhuodoumeitianshuolei，nandaoshuowochuwaigongzuozhong，buyingdangshizuikudenagema?zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

hunqianmeiyicijuhuiwodoushisuishenxiedaita，beiyouqingmian，keshiwanhunyihoutajiuchedifashengbianhuayigeyang;zaiwanhunyiqian，laopoduiwomenqianyibaishun，wanhunyihou，wuyuanwugunaopiqi;yongyouxiaohaizhihou，laopodexingzibianhuakebianda，bingqiejingchangmaiyuan……

keshi，nanrenmenbuqingchu，tongchangxianshudeqizishenhou，changyouyigeduitaguanaititieruweidezhangfu，youyuxianyouhaozhangfu，caiyouhaolaopo。

好丈夫，只专宠妻子一人

9yue29rilingchen，“huqikuangmo”wangxiaofeizaixinlangweibochuwenliunianhedasxiangyujiunian，ertamencongxiangyudaorujindetianmeiquanguocheng，dahuoerquanshizhongsuozhouzhide。jiunianshige，zhenduixuduofufueryan，douguobianchengyizhongnanao。danduiwangxiaofeilaijiang，zheijiunianjinjinyizhayandeshijian，zaiqizhongtianmandedoushixingfukuaile。

wangxiaofeihedaszaibaohuodeyulejiemu《xingfusanzhongzou》zhong，youyiduanshiwangxiaofeiqidanchezaizhedasdeguangjiaojingtou，yinweixintaichuangshang，daslijibeihehuaile。zhihou，youxuduowangmindiaokanshuo：“zhenshitaizuole，taijiaoqingle。”daszaoshouneiyangdediaokan，wangxiaofeihaowuyiwenshihuqibuyuanqianli，diyishijianweibowenzhangbiaoshu。

dangyouwangminjinerpingjiawangxiaofei，tahuibubiguoduzaihutarendeguandianshi，wangxiaofeiyeshixingfen。yizhiyilai，daszaidajiadexinlidepinpaixingxiangquanshibiaomianruanruo，neixinqiangdaderendenvxing，dankeshizaiwangxiaofeiyanqian，taxueqilenagehuifadia，huijiaozongdexiaoguniang，zaibierenlaikancaihuikanqilaizheibande“zuo”。

youyudaslejie，zishendezhangfuhuiwuchangkuanrongta，guanaita，cairangtayouchongzudezixin，zaizishenzhangfuyanqiangezhonggeyang“zuo”。zheiyiqie，doulaiyuanyutayouyigezheibanzhongaita，rentafadiahunaodehaozhangfu。

好丈夫，从不容易“帮助”家务劳动

youxieren，“nanzhujiaowai，nvzhunei，gejinqize，tashihenhemudejiazhongqingkuang”。xuduonanrenjuede，jiawulaodongdaiwazheizhongshier，quanshinvxinggaizuodeshi。

yincidangqiziyitiandaowanmanglimangwaishi，tamenbudanburongyibangzhu，haibuxuehuiganen，yizhiyushishichuchukeke，zeguaiqiziweihemeigaohao。pingchangshaocaideneishihoukouweizhongledian，haiyaobeiluanshuoyitong，xiaohaifanlebuzhengque，huozhemeibeizhaoliaohao，zhangfudoushiganjuetashiqizidanfangdeyiwu，yifu“bushuyuwo”dexintai。

quebuzhidao，zheizhongjiawulaodong，daiwa，zijuede“bushuyuwo”deshier，gengshicuihuihunyinshenghuodedaohuoxian。youyuzhangfumenmeifalejie，jiazhongxiaoshiyudaiwazheizhongshier，shiyoushizaitaideleiren。buzhiqizimen，jiarucongzishenzhangfushoushangshiquyiqiedeguanaiheguanai，younayiweishicuowuhunyinshenghuoxinhande?yinci，zhenshidehaozhangfu，shicongbuhuibanglaopojiawulaodong，yecongburongyibangzhudaiwa。

youyuzhangfugaoqingchu，hunyinshenghuobixulianggerendegongtongfendou，jialidequanbuchicunshiwuguanlijiqiyangyuxiaohai，doubixufufulianggerenxianghudanfuheyingdui，yinciburongyicunyou“bangzhu”zheiyijiaofa。erhaozhangfuhuigenjutongyixingdong，laizhengmingcailiaoduiqizideqingyi，huigenqiziyiqizhufanshuawan，yiqijiaoyuxiaohai，yiqishouhouqinren，yijiarenjiaowanghemu，meimanxingfu。

chuzaineiyangyigehuanhuanxixidejiazhong，xianglaimeiyiweiqiziquanshixinshenyukuaide，youyuzishendequanbunuli，zhangfudoukanzaiyanzhong，bingyouyidingdehuifu。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nvxingyaodeqishibushihennan，zhibuguojiushishuozhangfudelejieyuxintong，yaoshizhangfubaozhengzheidianer，qizimendoushijuedexingfukuaileyukaixin。

好丈夫，会更懂妻子的心

zaishenghuozhong，xuduofufuzaigoutongjiaoliucengmiandoucunyouzhehuodahuoxiaodenanti。liru，dangzhangfufanhuijiashi，qizimanqiangguanzhudishuo，“jinrideyiqieshunlima?”dabufenzhangfudoushichenzhelianhuifu，“huoxushiyuanmana，nandaoshuoniyaodianjizhewozenyangbuyuanmanma”。shijishangzhangfuzhixiangbiaoshuzishenyiqieshunli，danshuochuqudehuaqueshizaichizeqizi。

yincicaihuiyinqijinyibudezhengzhi，guanlianyejiujianjiandiebian。zairichangshenghuozhong，zheileibeijiedingwei“qiannu”deshier，huichangchangchanshengzaiairendepengyouguanxizhong。neirenmengaizenyangzuochugenggaini?yiqiantingguoneiyangyigegushi：yiduifuqichaodeeyuxiangxiang，zhangfuqueshiduqibianpaochuquyijuyindudehua：“zheiyicichulai，woruguozaimairuzheiyijiayueleichi，woshinixiaosunzi!”jiezheshuaimenerqu。

qiziyirendaojialichouqi，yiguodabantian，keshimenling：，qizizhangkouwendaodishishei，zhitingzhangfuzaimenkouhan：“laolao，woshinixiaosunzi，kuaikaiguanmenba，wohuilaile。”

qizijijimangmangpaoqukaiguanmen，jiandaozhangfudeegaozishi，lianggerenxiangbaoerxiao，zaojiuwangjilejinrisuochanshengdeshier。yinci，yigeqingshanggaodenanren，tongchanggengmingbaizenyangfuweiqizidexin。honghaolaopoyebingbushiduomenandeshier，shaoyidianzaihu，duoyidiankuanrong，hunyinshenghuojiushishuohuxiangrangbudequanguocheng。

jiuhaosijinxingshuodezheijuhuayiyang，zhinengtongyangdenuli，caihuiyouxiangduideshouyi。“xianyouhaozhangfu，caiyouhaolaopo”，neimaruhezuo，caikeyibianchenghaozhangfu?

haozhangfu，huijiqizinongnongdeguishugan，rangtalejietadequanbuxingzong，rangtashuxin，qizidaziranburongyiyitiandaowanxinfanyiluan，shishichuchucaiyi;haozhangfu，huizhongshizishendeqizi，tengxizishendeqizi，lejieqizideburongyiyuxinku，qizidaziranhuiwenrouxianshu，tiexinzhangfu;haozhangfu，huijingchangxingjiqizimaipiaoliangyifu，maigezhonggeyanghufuchanpin，rangqiziweihubaoyangdehaohaodide，zaichumenjuhuishi，daziranhuibeiyouqingmian;haozhangfu，huimingbaiyiqiegenlaopogoutongjiaoliu，jienalaopodebuyiyangjianyi，burongyiyiyiguxing，renshoulaopodegezhonggeyangfumianqingxu，buxuqizishouyiqiebiequ……

meiyigenvrendexinli，douzhuzheyigexiaohaizi，dangnanrendechongnididayidingshuipingshi，caihuirangnvxingzhuyaobiaoxianchuchongzudetaorenxihuan，erjiazhongyouyuegan，caihuisuizhetisheng。qidainanrenmendounenggaoqingchu，nikeyixiangyaoyigehaolaopo，zuixiannihaiyaoshigehaozhangfu。youyujiniduohao，qizizongyouduohao，erjiazhongzongyouduoxingfukuaile。poxiguanxizenmechuli?