为什么有些人不敢结婚？如何克服恐婚心态

rujinyouyiqunrenbeichengzuo“xiandaidoushihunqiankongjuzhengzu”，tamendanxinwanhun，danyouhunyinshenghuohuibianchengganqingdemuzang，danxinhunhoushenghuo。“konghunzheng”jiujingshiruhedaozhide?yaoruhebaituoni?

一、　应对婚前恐惧症族最的办法

1、发展战略是“诱”婚

yingguoqiaozhiyaligongxuexiaoshehuixintaixueboshiyanjiushengzhangyiyunjuede，cushiwanhunzhifazhanzhanlve，bingbushifumucuihun，zhishi“you”hun。chucizhiwai，nikeyichengxianjilingyifangkan，jiaruyuwowanhun，jianglaihuiyouduoxingfu，tahuiduihunyinshenghuoyouyidingdexiwang，erbataxiyinzhuhuilai。

zhangboshishuo，“woyekanleneiyangdenvsheng，biaocengshangbulushengse，congbutiwanhundeshi。dantameiridouweinanpengyouaotang，bingduitafeichangshanjierenyi。zhangciyiwang，yuanbenbuzhunbeiwanhundenanhaierguanniandao，taruoyuzheiyinvshengwanhun，zhinengyichu，meiyoubiduan。zhihou，jiuxiangnvshengbiaobaile。”

2、破译他的“婚前恐惧症情怀”

genggaomingdexintai，shibalingyifangdehunqiankongjuzhengqingxukanzuoshencengcigoutongjiaoliudetupokou，nenggouyunyonglaijiazhongxianghudeqinggan。neimezuo，nibujinnenggouqudechenggongwanhun，bingqiekeyiranglianggerendeaiqinggengshangcenglou。zuixian，yaoxiangfapoyitade“hunqiankongjuzhengqinghuai”。

zhangyiyunjuede，nanrenaixiangyaowanhun，dabufenjigeyuangu。taganjuesuiyiwuxianxingfu，bukensangshitiaoxuandesuiyi。ciwai，yiwangdechengcaigongzuojingyantahuiduihunyinshenghuoyoufumianxinxiyinxiang。xiangjiandaojiazhonglaorenhuofenfanpenyoubukaixindeqinshenjingli，tahuixiangqihunyinshenghuo，bianjuexiaoji，erbukensuibianshizhe。

yiner，congmingdenvrenshideduiceshi，xianzhangwotazenmehuizaocheng“hunqiankongjuzhengqinghuai”，suihouzaitashenpanggangkaishichongfenfahuixinlizixunshidegoutongjiaoliugongdi。gaozhilingyifang：“wolejieniduihunyinshenghuoyizhibutaikanzhong，wodaoganjuerenmenlianggerenbibierendequdechenggongjiyudaxuduo，yuangushi……，hebujulishuomingjuchuqu：renmenxiangshienaidezhuangkuanggentarenbuyiyang，renmendejingjifazhanjixinxinyeyubierendabuyiyang……”。

3、沟通交流是第一首要任务

lianqingshierrenshijie，wanhunqueshiliangjiarenzhengheziyuan。yuanbenmeishenmeshejiaode2gejiazhong，turandeyongzuiqinmiwujiandefangfajiaowang，zheihuoxuhuichanshenggezhongnanti。diqu、zhongmeiwenhuachayiyueda，fenqijianghuiyueda，zheijiuguidingliangjiarendouyongjiaodadezhenchenglaikandailingyifang，duogoutongjiaoliu，duogoutongjiaoliu，banantidoulakaizaizhuomian。zhenduixiaobeieryan，yingdangjijibalaonianrendemaiyuanxiaomizaizishendecengji，maiyuanmeisanboyiceng，huimiexingjiutigaoshibei。

4、创建有效的心态状态预估

yuanyigengxingfudeshenghuo，bingfeibukexuedeguiding，guanjiansuozaibukeyibuqieshijibiaozhun。youdenvshengbayoufangyouchedangzuowanhunbiaozhun，neiyangnannvshuangfangbidingtihuidaoqiangjingdejingshenyali。shijishang，renmenzubeiwanhundeneishihou，dabufenrenquanshizaiyiqiongerbaidejibenshanggangkaishinuli，buyaoshuomeiyouzishendefangwu，henduoren lianxiangyangdejiajuyemeiyou。wanhundechangmian、biaozhunyaoyijubicizijinchengdanfanchoulaimingque，bukeyijigongjinli。

5、懂得让步

hunyinshenghuojiushishuorangbudequanguocheng，wanhunzeshirangbudegangkaishi。menyaheshejianneimaqinmiwujian，yehuiyibuxiaoxinyaodaomengdiyitong。zhenduiliangreneryan，quanbushierdouyingdangshenkailaishangyi，guiqiudadaolitingsheide，jiarushibuzaihudeshier，jijituoxieshizuiheshi，tuoxiebingbushiyiweizheqienuo，zhishizhenshidedazhihui。guigenjiedi，hunyinshenghuoshijiaowangdezaoxingyishu，eryaoshimeiyourangbu，mianbulebianweiyichangtaichoudexingweiyishu。