经营婚姻：如何处理夫妻之间的矛盾和冲突

 maodunshihunyinshenghuodeyibufen，shibicishencengcixianghuzhijianzhangwodeguanjiantupokou。youyu，maodunchangchanshengzaifufuyifanghuobicizhenshizaiyideshishang。

矛盾能够是个“彩妆的祝愿”

 shehuixintaixuejiedeshizhengfenxifajue，daozhidangdailihunhoudezhuyaoyaosushi“zhangqixingxiayishidifangzhimaodun”。shijishang，maodunduihunyinshenghuolaijiang，nenggoushige“caizhuangdezhuyuan”，yaoshijiejueqiadang，tanenggouweihunyinshenghuoyinruhuoli，bianchengtongxiangqinmiwujiandeguangmingdadao。

 maodunshihunyinshenghuodeyibufen，shibicishencengcixianghuzhijianzhangwodeguanjiantupokou。youyu，maodunchangchanshengzaifufuyifanghuobicizhenshizaiyideshishang。maodunzhishi，gengshibicizhenqingliuluzhiji，ruobumingbailinghuoyunyongzheizhonggoutongjiaoliudehaoshiji，henduofufudeguanlianjiuyoujiehunmiyuelvxingshide“juanqimei”zhuanbianchengjiehunhoude“xiangyusibing”。guanlianjiarudaozheiyichengdu，haiyaohuatingdadeshijiancaikeyizhiliao。

 shubuzhi，jiarufufubicinenggounulixuexigoutongjiaoliuyujiejuemaodundefangfa，dongdefuweizishendexintai，qinfenquzhangwolingyifangdexinqingyutihui，lingwaixiangfangfaqurangbu，toutaobaoli，ranglingyifangyekeyidadaoyuanwang，neima，fufujiukeyimeiyicimaodunbianweigengweizhangwohecujinganqingdejiyu，eryulaiyu“xiangshi”“enai”。

有关差别与矛盾的三个小测试

 maodun，xuduoneishihoushigenjuwuhui，erwuhuidaduoshulaiyuanyuchabie。chabiedelaiyuanyuyouhenduozhongduoyang，baohannianjidechabie、chengzhendechabie、chushishidaidechabie，yeyouxinyangshangdechabie、gexinghuadechabieheyuanshengjiatingdechabiezheixie。

neima，shifouchabieyidinghuizaochengmaodunni?wojuedezheilijidahuoersangexiaoceshi：

diyigenanti：chabiehuizaochengmaodunma?fuqizhijianchabiedeshuiping，gentamende90houlihunshifouyouguanlian?

 shijishang，linchuangyixueshizhengcailiaoqiangdiao，fuqizhijianleisiyuxiangyideshuiping，bukeyiyucefenxiliyi。yixiefufuchabietingda，keshirengranzhenxingfu。yixiefufujibianxianghugexinghuashifenleisi，queyiranyiliyishouwei。bingqiexuduogexinghuabuyiyangdefufujiehunqianhuixianghuxiyinzhu，keshijiehunhou，bicihuiyouyuyixiechabieerzaochengmaodun。

 diergenanti：shizheixiezhengchao、zhengchaopinciduodefufufeichangrongyiliyini，huanshizheixiezhengchao、zhengchaopincishaodefeichangrongyiliyi?

 yiwang30niandelinchuangyixueshizhengcailiaoshuoming，fuqizhijianzhengchaopincideduoshao，doubukeyiyucefenxiliyi。xueshuyanjiufajue，kaixindefufugenliyidefufu，zhengchaodepincijunzhiqilaileisi，yizhiyulianzhengchaodeneirongquanshiyiyangde：weiqiancai、ernvjiatingjiaoyufangfa、jiawuhuofenpai、bicideyinqinzhengchao，weibicideyouxiyule、penyou、xingxingweizhengchao。erzhenshikeyiyucefenxifufushifouhuiliyide，shifuqizhijiandongbudongdejiejuetamenxianghudechabieyumaodun。

disangenanti：neiyixiekaixin、xingfukuailedefufu，shifoutamenzhongjiandenantitongtongchulile?