经营婚姻：夫妻沟通千万不要这样做！姿态害死人

 fufugoutongjiaoliuhaiyaojiangfangshi zhei4zhongzishihaicanren。chizedeyifangbaquanbuguoshidouguijiuyudaolingyifangtouding，fenhaobujienalingyifangdechudeyuanyin。

姿势一：斥责

 pouxi：chizedeyifangbaquanbuguoshidouguijiuyudaolingyifangtouding，fenhaobujienalingyifangdechudeyuanyin。juedeyaoshilingyifangdebuzhengque，zishendeshenghuohuigengqiang。chizexingderendaorentishangfeichangrongyiquanshenjiroujiaolvbuan、houbeidebing、huxixitongzuai、xueyagao、yanzhongbianmi、chuanqi;zaixintaizhuangtaishangfeichangrongyizaochengkongxiang、caiyiheweifanguiding。

姿势二：取悦

 haoderenlaoxiangquyueyuren，dangjiandaotarenshaoxiankuxiangdeneishihou，jiuwusifengxianshijian、qiancailaiquyuetaren，jijididanfuquanbudeshulou，qidairangsuoyourengaoxinghexiaizishen。quyuexingderendaorentishangfeichangrongyichuxianshangfangxiaohuaxitongbushigan、changweibing、exinxiangtu、exinoutu、niaoduzheng、piantouteng、yanzhongbianmi;zaixintaizhuangtaishangfeichangrongyichuxianshenjingzhi、tongkuhezijin。

姿势三：超理性

 pouxi：chaolixingderenzuituchudetedianshimeishenmeqinggandekeguanxing，burongxuzishenhuoshitarenliuyitihui。duitarendefanyingtongchangshifeihualianpiandepiping，kanshangqutianmanlezhihuixingyuquanweixing，quejirendaiban、dichendeyinxiang。

 chaolixingderendaorentishangfeichangrongyichuxiandebingzhengshidaixiebingzheng，ruxianguandebingzheng、xinjigengsai、beitengdeng;xintaizhuangtaishangfeichangrongyizaochengqiangpoxintaizhuangtai、shejiaomeitidanqiedeng。

姿势四：打岔

 pouxi：dachaderenyizhibuduanzaidong，zaitantaonantideneishihoushitufensanhuabierendejizhongzhuyili，bukeyibajizhongzhuyilifangdaoyigezhutifenggeshang，zhishilaozhaoxiebuxianggandehuatitaolunlaiduobitantao。dachaderendaorentishangfeichangrongyichuxianzhongshuxitongnanti，changweibing、niaoduzheng、piantoutengheyanzhongbianmi;zaixintaizhuangtaishang，huichuxianjingshenmianmaocuoluandeqingkuang。

 fuqizhijianzheisizhonggoutongjiaoliuzishibujinjilingyifangchanshengxinshendebushigan，genghuijifufushencengcidegoutongjiaoliuchanshengxuduodezuai。yinweixuduoneishihoubiaoshudebingbushizishenxinlizhenzhengdexiangfa，feichangrongyizaochenglingyifangdewuhuihechengjian。