打开女人婚姻中差别的 并不是容貌只是这两字

怎么经营婚姻? 远远望去，这世界上仿佛非常不合理。有的女人，容颜精美，事业成功，并且也有个幸福温馨的家;有的女人，容貌惆怅，艰辛地当众家庭妇女，叛逆期的孩子，老公不足贴心，每日都过得很闹心。

 yiyangshinvren，zenmehuiyouneimedachabieni?shijishangyuanyinhenjiandan，zheigenqinggandejiejuexiangguan。shijishang，yiqieqingganwentiquanshiguanxinanti，erquanbuguanxiwentidehexindouqujueyujiexian。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

那界限究竟是什么呢?

jiejueganqingguanxibenshijianyideshier，dangniganjuehenjiannan，youyubeitarenbangpiaolexinnian。

 jiarunikeyizaiguanxili，yangezhixingguanxirenwujiaosedejiexian，buzuotaiguoyuejiedeshi，jiunengfangzhiqingganzhongjuedaduoshudemaodunyumaodun。

婚姻关系也必须界限吗?

zheishishangzhiyousanjianshi：zishendeshi，tarendeshi，laotianyedeshi。

 zheisanjianshiqingchuquhualerenmenhebierendejiexian：zishendeshihaohaodizuo，tarendeshibuqiangjiayuquganyu，shangtiandeshiniguantaganshenme。

dadaolishineiyang，shubuzhilaidaohunyinguanxi，renmenquezongchangshitishengliangrendejiexian。

最非常容易损坏夫妻关系的，都是尝试提升界限：

“niweihebuxuwowanshouji?”

“nigankuaixinqingshuoshuonijiujingjigeqianrennvyou?”

 erneiyangdebuliangyingxiangshi，nihaideyuejin，lingyifanghuiyuejiabuyuangennigoutongjiaoliu。youshihoulingyifangbuxiangrangnizhidao，jinjinxiangfangzhiyixiefujiademaodun，zhongjiusheidouyixiebuyuanrangtarenlejiedemimi。

yaolejie，nihewowanhun，bingbudengyuwoyechediguishuyuni，neibanbingfeilianren，zhishibulaoshi。

neifuqijiandeguanjianbianjieshishenme?

cankaodaanshizaiguanxilizuo2gechengren。

zheiyichengrenbingfeizhinianjifangmianshangde，zhishizhixinggeleixingfangmianshangde。

hunyinshenghuoshibixushensishulvde，quehandeshidabufenrenyishengquanshiyongyouhaiziqidexintaizhuangtai。

 tamendexinliyizhiyemeiyouzhangdale，zaixiangxiangdequanqiuli，jiangduifumudexiwang，tongtongyingshedaoairenshoushang，guidingairendechedikaolvtamenduiaidekaolv。

 kanyixiafenfandeqinglv，gangzaiyiqideneishihou，henbudejiangquanbuhaochanpindoujilingyifang，danzheidaduoshushixiongxingheermengdejidongcijixing，dengdaolezheiyireqingqi，dangxiongxingheermenghuifuguolaishuizhun，lianggerendexintaizuofazongyoulejidaqifu。

lianqingbenjiushishuoreqingyongjinnaozihoudegerenxingwei，sheixiangyaoshizhongzuonulideneiyifangni?

jiaruyifangbuduansuoqu，buduanyucuo，chixuyinerzhengzhi，neimazongyouyitianxuduorenhuihenzhirugu，zaochengguanxiliekai。

yincibizhelingyifangxiangfumuyiyang，chixukaolvzishendeyaoqiu，shifuqijianzuibaituobianjiedeshier。

亲子沟通的界限在哪儿?

shuobaileyangxiaohai，jiushishuomusongtadebeiyingtupianyuelaiyueyuan，shuobailemuqindeai，jiushishuoyichangdedangdechechu。

lingrenxinsuandeshi，tashilixianghuazhongdeqinzigoutong。

qinzigoutongzuiguanjiandeshizhuzhongbianjie，danwoguofumutaixiaibaituobianjiele，fumumenmanshizhangkongyu，rangxiaohaiwanbankunrao。

hexiaohailiqingshihedebianjie，jiushishuoduixiaohaishidezhongshiheai。

fazhanxintaixue，jiuweixiaohaibuyiyangfazhanqushihuanjiedeyaoqiuhualebianjie。

1.0dao3suidexiaohai，bixuxuduoguanxin，caikeyichuangjiananquanxingpingwendeyilaiguanxi。

 2.cong2suigangkaishi，xiaohaigangkaishijindaorenshengdaoludediyigeziworentongqi，nikeyijitamenyidingdesuiyi，rangzishenxinniandezhongzilaichuya。

3.dengnixiaohai4suiyihou，haiyaoduotahuiqufazhanqushihezuoguanxi，quchupengwaijiedequanqiu。

4.zai12suiqian，yaotahuiduowanyouxi、duoqulvyou，laiduanlianquanshenjirou，tuidongluojisiweifazhanqushi。

 huanjuhuashuo，nibixuyijuxiaohaidenianlingceng，chushibuyiyangdehuaxuewuzhishineikongjianyuaidejianrong，bukeyiyijuzishendexiai，bietahuixuexipeixunbuyizheiyinianlingcengdewupin，feichangrongyisunhaitadexuexipeixunchongdong。

poxizhijian，ruhebakongjiexian

yiqianzaiwangshangyouguodiaochatongji，dajiadoujuedehunyinguanxichaoguomuziguanxi，yincilaopodiyi，mamapaidier。

shubuzhirenmenyaorenke，hunyinguanximeibanfayixiazikuayuemuziguanxi。

 xuduonvhaiganjue，jiranjiehunle，tadezhongxindianjiudefangdaozishenshoushang，zheiniantourenshengdadaoli，danguodujuedui，feichangrongyiweihunyinshenghuozhongxiafengxianwuqu。

mamachanxiaxiaohaideneiyishunjian，jiuzaoyishiguomingdejiaoqing。

 jiusuannanshengduifumuyixiejianyi，tayebukeyichengshoutarenduifumulaizhizhidiandian。niyidanfourentafumu，tahaowuyiwenyongyoutingdafanying。

yaojiejuepoxizhijian，haiyaodongdezhongshijiapohelaogongdeguanxi。

 shijiruhezuoni?nikeyixiankaolvdaozishendeyaoqiu，suihoushensishulvzhangfuhefumudeyaoqiu，quzhaoyigejunhengdian，qinfendadaohuligongyingjieguo。

dequecunyouxuduowangdaomanbujianglidegongpo，neiyaoruhetuoshanchulini?

 zuixianyaofangzhijindaoyigecuowuguannian，jiushishuochangshishuodonggongpokaizhangenggai。youyutamendeguannianshifennanchu，butaikenenghuoxujiangyiliangjudaolijiurangbule。

nigenyourenshuodeyueda，gengjianghuibaofamaodun。

nibixudeshishencengcidizuolaogongdeguanniangongzuozhong，yizhaoxialiesigeliuchenglaitongyixingdong：

yikua，erpi，sanlejie，siqidai。

 xiankuata：wozhidaonigenfumudeqingganhenshen，zhongjiutamenyouxiaodaodayizhizhaoliaoni，jininulineimaduo，niyilaitamen，tashiyijianhenshiqing。

 zaitichupipingyifan：danshishierchangyougedu，chaochuzheiyidu，jiuhuichuxiannanti。renmenhunhou，benlaishirenmenliangrendeshier，nifumuyizhiyaocanjia。bingbushishuocanjiabutaihao，zhongjiutamenyougengfengfuduocaiderenshengdaolugongzuojingyan，danganyuguoduodehua，renmenjiumeiyouzishendeyishizhuxingle。

 ranhoushibiaodalejie：nigenfumuqingganhao，shoutamendeweihaida，wojiushinenglejiezheiyidiande，yinweiwonengrangbu，danniyedeqianjiuwoyixiaba，rangwomenlianggerenyixieshineikongjianhekaolv，yaoburanrenmenfeichangrongyiyoumaodun。

 zuizhongshibiaoshuxiaqidai：yincirenmennenggoushangyiya，kanruhehongrendefumugaoxing，lingwaiyekeyibaocunrenmendedaodedixianyubianjie，niganjuehaome?

zuoyousigeliucheng，xiangbininaonudemaiyuan，yaohaohenduo。

 chuangjianjiexian，chukainenghelijiejuezheisanzhongguanxi，haikeyijiejuexuduofeichangrongyichumaodundeguanxi，lirudingtoushangsiguanxi、pengyouguanxi、haoguimiguanxideng。

 eryiqieguanxiyaoshizunzhaohaoziwodingwei，zhangwohaorenwujiaosebianjie，jiunenganquanxingwenbendiguoxialai。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?