婚姻中女人最厉害的武器是什么?

怎么经营婚姻? 有木有发觉一个难题?本来人们在日常生活中与朋友、盆友都交往得好好地的，而在婚姻生活里，却非常容易将最怀的心态交给爱的男人，随后在没完没了的争执冷暴力中痛苦万分。

 xintaishibashenqi，nenggoushitianmeireqing，haikeyijiansuankebozhisi，yaozenyangcainengqiadangbikaihunyinshenghuolidexintaianjianni?zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

 zheierhaiyaotijinvrenzuilihaidewuqi，xuduonvrenwulehenduonian，zishizhizhonggaobudong，yizhiyuyinernulilecanzhongfuchudaijia。

nvrenzuilihaidewuqiyou2ge：

1溫柔的坚持不懈

qizigenzhangfuchulaidujialvyou，lvchengpilao，qizirentiyixienanshou，xiangzaijiudiancantinghaohaodixiexi。

 zhangfuquexianghewochulaiguangyiguang，jinguanqizitanbai，zishenyixiebushufu，dantaganjueqizitaijiaoguile，jirandouhuaneimaduoshaoqianlaidujialvyou，daizaijiudiancantinglibujiushechilangfeilemeiyou?

jieguoqizizhiyouwukenaiheqianqu，miansedaziranbupiaoliang，zaitalaikan，zhangfutaibuguanzhutale;

erzhangfuyehenbiequ，ganjuezongsuanpeiqiziwaichudujialvyou，jieguoqiziyeyaojitamenmiansekan。

pengdaozheiyangdeshiqingzabanni?

wenroudeshuobu，shijixiaoguoshi。

 jiaruqizimiandaiweixiao，jianchibuxiedaizaijiudiancantingxiexi，neizhangfuzuiduofayixiaohuixingzi，suihoutiaoxuanrangbu，yaoshiqizibunaopiqi，zheijianshiqingxunsujiuhuiyiwang。

weiherenmenmeifazuodaowenroudejianchibuxie?

 meifawenroudejianchibuxie，youyushuo“bu”deneishihou，xinlihuiyouneijiu、kuijiu。yincirenmenningyuanbiequzishen，doubuxiangyaoyingduizishenbenzhidezheifennanshoudetihui。

biequhuodedejieguo，daziranshifenshengse。

2敏感的规定

neima，mingandeguidingyoushishenme?

fuqijian，zuizongtingdezhengzhijiushishuo：nibenzhibuzaiyiwo!niyeshigechadezhangfu(qizi)!nijihumeiyouainiwo!

xianzaiwonenggoubazheizhonghuahanyufanyihuilai：

你本质不在意我!

 (hanyufanyi：wozhenxiangyaonidekanzhong!ninengkanzhongwoma?ruguonineibanzuo，worenweimeiyouzaoshouzhongshi，worenweihaopengshang。)

你真差!

(hanyufanyi：woduijinihengaodeqiwang，nimeiyoubaozhengxiwangnizuode，worenweihentoule。)

你几乎沒有爱你我!

(hanyufanyi：woxianzaidegerenxingwei，yaowojuedepengshang，youyumeiyoukaolvwoduinideguiding，yinciwojuedenibuaiwo。)

 shishishang，dangniqichongchongdizhizelingyifangshi，youyurenmenbuxiangyaoquyingduiyigekeguanshishi：wojiushimingande，woduijiniqiwang。jiushiwodeqiwang，wodeyaoqiuyaowoduijininuhuo，duinixinhan，caihuineimefahuo，yincinantizaiwo，meiyounishoushang。

 danjuedaduoshurenyebuxiangyaorenkezishenyouyaoqiu，youxiwang，yincihuiyizhizhenzhenyoucidichizelingyifang，burongyifanshengzishen，busikaoshifouzishendeqiwang、yaoqiudaozhilianggerendemaodun。

zheishihounimeiquchizelingyifang，fandaorouhe、mingandirenkezishenqueshibixutaruhezuo，shijixiaoguobingbushihaohenduoma?

“nijiaojiruheneimaduo?fanbufana?”

nenggouhuanwei：“nijiaojixuduoya，taoyanyigerenzaijia，queshihenyaonipeinizou。”

“niruheyouluangouwua?taoqiannengfouhaohaodikaolvdao!”

nenggouhuanwei：“nineiyangtaoqianshi，wohenjiaolvbuan，wodanyourenmendehuijihuibutaihao。“

“nitingyinlenengfoubiekaineimagaosheng，chaoqushile!”

nenggouhuanwei:“gequtaigaoshengle，woerduolimianhennanshou，bubiandiaodishengyixie。”

 jiangguoneimeduofangfa，fangfashinenggoudongdede，danbuyidingcushichuqu，youyurenmenzhenshiyaoyingduideshijishangshizishenbenzhidemingan。zhengyouyuxuduorenbuxiangyaorenkezishendeyaoqiuyumingan。

 jiarurenmenkeyishiranjieshouzishenbenzhiderouruo，jiunengtishengguoqugoutongjiaoliudejiongjing，jiangxingfuhunyindegailv，laolaodiwozaishouli。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?