丧偶式婚姻是女性心里的痛!

怎么经营婚姻? 如今许多人的婚姻生活全是离异式的婚姻情况，老公回家了就是说葛优瘫，游戏离不了手!零沟通交流零交流，小孩家务活全松手，不以家中掏钱!

 jiujingshishenmeyuanguzaochengneiyangdezhuangkuang?yingduineiyangdehunyinqingkuangrenmenyingdangruhezhengjiuni?zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

丧偶式婚姻的产生

•各忙各的

 rujindabufenfufudoufenbieyongyouzishendegongzuozhong，youyugongzuozhongfanmangdeyuangubudaojia，xiuxiriyuelaiyuedi，feichangshaoshijiankeyiliuyidaolingyifang。

•不肯被约束力

 xianrujinderendouguidingbenrendandu，jiusuanjielehundoushiyiyang，buyuanbeilingyifangguanzhe，yiguanjiufeichangrongyiqingxubuwending，zaochengchuxiangezhonggeyangzhengzhihetaobizeren。

•起早贪黑

yixiejiatingfuqizhijianzaiqizhongyirenchulaigongzuozhong，lingyifangliudaojiali，xianrujinnvshizaijialidejilvshishuzuiduode。

 nanshengyichulaigongzuozhong，jiatingnaxieshierdouburongyiguowenle，zaijiatingbixunanshengdeneishihoudoukanbudaoren，yincizheijiushishuoxianrujinzuidianxingxingdesangoushihunyin。

如何拯救丧偶式婚姻

•多关注另一方：

 jirantiaoxuanwanhunjiuyidingyaohaohaodideduijiatinghelingyifangchengdan，zaiyiqiedeneishihouquanshiyaoxianchongfenkaolvlingyifangjiatinggongzuo，duoguanzhulingyifangdetihui。

congjiatingqulaikan，wulunshishashier，jianxinlingyifangdounengtihuidaoaiheyiwu，neiyejiukeyiqianjiuhelejieniba。

•多陪着家人：

 gongzuozhongduomangnengyouduomang，yongcanrushuixiexideshijianhuanshiyoude，qianwanbiebamangdangzuotuoci，xuduoneishihoumangquanshizishenweizijidekuanwei。

 manglichoushijiandepeibanjiaren，peizhezishendelianren，rangzishendelingyibankeyitihuidaoairendecunyou，zaijiatingyoubixudeneishihouweijiguantou，bierangyigerendexinhanchendianduo。

•多交流：

fuqijianyidingshibixuduojiaoliude，duojiaoliuranglingyifanggengweiderenshiziji，gaoqingchuzishenzaiganshenme，ranglingyifanganxin。

 rujinzheiyishehuifazhanyinyoushizu，duojiaoliukeyiranglingyifanggengweideyouguishugan，bubiranglingyifangyouyuyixieduoyudeshiererwujiezishen，weihaibicideqinggan，duojiaoliulingwaiyekeyijiazhongbicideqinggan，rangbicikeyiyulaiyuxiangai，rangsangoushihunyinqingchu。

•多联络：

hunhouyoujigehuijijilianluolingyifang?youshijianhuidatongdianhuadeyoushiduoshao?

 duotongdianhuafashoujiweixinlianluolingyifangshihenbixude，nengjibiciyizhongkanzhongzishendejuede，gengnengconggezhonggeyangsuoshizhongzhangwolingyifang，jianjiandijiuhuichanshengyizhongxiguanxing，yejiuburongyichuxianyitongdianhuajiujuedexinfandezhuangkuang，tuidongqinggandetiwen。

zenyangweichiaiqingdelianaideganjue

haijidefuqizhijianguanjianderizi

 haijidexianghudeguoshengri，jiehunjinian，gezhonggeyangchuantongjierizheixie，zheizhongriziyaoyouyoumogan，buyongzhenguidelipin，youshiyigexiaoxiaowujianyihuozheyidunqinshenzuofandewanfanjiunenggoubiaoshunideqingyi。

duiaiqingbukeyishilengshire

 bixubicizhijiandegongtongfendou，birusuzaoxianghudexihao，yiqimanpao，yiqikanshuzheixie，zheileiwuyinqueyouquweideshouhoukeyisuizhebiciyishengdeshengming。

youshihoujialijixianghuzaojiuyiwaijingxihelanman

 yigeqidaixujiudewujian，yichangxuduorenzhuhezheixie。butongyufaweidepingshi，zongyouyixieshiqingkeyijifaneikumendeshengming，jifawanganjingtaohailang，zaochengneixindezhuangji。

维持求知欲

 shizhefajuegezhonggeyangbuyiyangdeta，gongzuozhongshideta、wanshuashideta、hepenyouzaiyiqideta、yunixiangshoudeta。suoyourenzaibuyiyangdechangsuoyugerenxingweixiadoushiyoubuyiyangdelianxiang。

 chukaifajuelingyifangdegegelingyuwai，haiyaoranglingyifanglejienidebiedecengmian，meigerenyouduomianxing，gengshiyouyuzheizhongbianhuaduoduanerzhujiulelingyifangdeqiuzhiyu。

还记得要啪啪

 shengwuxuejiaqueren，xiangyongnenggoujianshaodajiadejiaolvqingxu，nenggoutishengwomendexingfuzhishuzhi。shentichupengbuzhiqiurentichanshengwennuan，lingwaihaikeyifuweizaodongbuandexintai。

维持一点新鲜感

 yichengxiangdaixiangduixingshixinlaidejiben。keshi，weichiyidianbenshendexinxiangan，youliyutahuidejizhongzhuyiliyizhizainideshoushang。liru，huanyigezaoxingshejilingtajuedeyiwaijingxi。

 aiqinglingrenchimi，chengqianshangwanrenhaojinyishengquyaoqiuneixuanliduocaideyanse，quezongxuduorenbucengjiechudaoneidadongneixindepiaoliang。

 jihujiumeiyouyilaoyongyijiunengbaitoudaolaodeaiqing，aiqingbixugongtongfendou，bixuxianghudezixiguanai。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?