幸福婚姻，都明白那样和伴侣沟通

怎么经营婚姻? 婚姻生活是一个长期的关联，在这一段关联中，要更强的交往，一定要明白有效沟通。

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一、恰当表达你的要求。

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二、恰当表达你的喜好。

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三、多提议，少指令。

 youxierenjuede，fufudouzaoyishineimeshenbiandepengyou，shuohuahaibixuraowanzima?woxiangranglingyifangquganshenme，lijishuojiuhaola。“bangwodaobeicha。”“bafeiqiwurengyixia”。

 danmeirenhuixiaineiyangbeitarenzhiling，fufugengyingdangkaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，yaoyong“……xingma”，neiyangdejuxing，lingyifangtingqilaijiushushiduole，huigengxiangyaoyizhaotashuodezuo。goutongshiyimendaxuewen，bawoqiadangdegoutongfangfa，caihuirangdajiadepengyouguanxigengweihemu!poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?