如何解决夫妻之间普遍争执

ruhejingyinghunyin ？dangzijipugongzhangshijian，jiuhuiyuelaiyuejubeigongjinengli。hunyinzhizhong，yixiezhengzhidenantishijinzaochuli，burandebuchangshi。xiabianshiganqingzhuanjiamenjuedenenggoukaizhanzhengzhidemouxiehuatitaolun，zhangwozheizhonghuatitaolunjiqiweihezhengzhi、chulizhihouduihunyinhefuqixiangchuzhidaodouduoyouyichu。zhengzhiyi：nitaiguochenniyushoujishang/wangluoyouxile

youzhangdemeitianjijiangyiwang，nihenxiangjingenlaogongdebudiaoyizhi——saishifennudexiaoniao，huozhechaxunyixieyuanyizaochengtaliuyideduanxiaoxi。huaxiaozaishoujishanghediannaodehuoliduidajiadeqingganmeishenmehaochu。dangtaditoubaibushoujishangdeneishihou，bubizuozheyibianfanyan，ninengneiyangtanbai：“renmenshuohuadeneishihou，niquenazheshoujishang，yaowoganjuezishenduinieryanyidianeryebuguanjian。

fuqizhijianhuiyounaxiewenti?chuliguocheng：

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fuqizhijianhuiyounaxiewenti?zijijinxingquanbudejiawu，chukaizishenjingpilijieyiwai，haijianghuihuizaocheng“tashifouyidianeryebuguanzhuwo”deniantou。keshi，zaitayanlijiandaodequebingbushineiyang。nanrentongnvxingdesisuofangfabuyiyang，nvxingyizhibayiwudanzaizishenjianbang，bingjiangqisiyouhua。dangniganjuezishenmeiyouhuodeshiyonghexiezhu，neimazaigangkaishiyuanqilaogongyiqianhaiyaoshuodiannaxie。

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ruguonidegongzuoyalihaibingbushifeichangdashi，jiuyingdanghelaogonghaohaoditantanle。nikeyiqingxixiangjindijiangchuzishendeyaoqiu。liru“jiarunikeyiwuxuwotishimeiyilibaizuoduocimoumoumoushi，nijiubanglewotingdademangle。”meicuo，youdeneishihoulaogongjianghuihuiwangji，yincibieguoyibuquxiaoxiaodetishitayixiaxiaya。zhengzhisi：nizhilejiegongzuozhong

tebieshizaishizaidangjindejingjihuanjingxia，nidelaogonghenjianghuiyaomeirijiabanjiadiandaotaiwan，buguantashipobudeyijiejueduijichengshandegongzuozhonghuanshizishenjiushishuogegongzuokuang，nijibenshangmeiridoujianbushangta，feichangrongyiganjuegudu。zheiyineishihounimeiyouhuodezishensuobixudeaideganjue，yexudelaogongqueganjuezishenshigenengyangjiahukoudehaolaogong。keshizhishitanbai“bieneimamaiminggongzuozhongle”bingshiling。tahuiganjuenibingbushishangxitaweiquanbujiazhongsuonulideqinfen。chuliguocheng：

niyingdangbazhongzhongzhizhongfangdaoqitacengmian，lirutanbainishifensinianta，xianghetaduoyiqidaiyiduanshijian。huoshizaochenninengzaoshangyiduanshijian，qinzigaohaowennuandezaofan，hetayikuaierchizaocan;haikeyizaijiazhongfenpei1gelanmandezhuguangwancan，hetahuandumeiduanxingfudeshiguang。xingfuhunyinzhongdefufushineiyanggoutongjiaoliude，dahuoernenggouhuxiangxuexipeixunxia。