如何经营婚姻中的枯水期

 ruhejingyinghunyin ？zuizhongyaodeshi，henduofufujingchangqianqueyiqiezhengchangjiejuefenqidegongzuonengli，zaifenqiyanqian，tamenmeifaquanjuxingdirangtabianchengtuijinfuqiguanxidetupokou，zhishibianchengweijidedaohuoxian，qingganlengdandetaijie。ruguozheizhongfenqiyuelaiyueshen，neimahunyinbianjindaolekushuiqi。neimayaozenyangwanliupoliedehunyinni?

1　genggaixingxuqiureqingdexiwang

ruhejingyinghunyin?haijideyouyimingwenxuejiazaihuiyingyimingmaiyuanhaojiumeiyouhelaopoxingshenghuo，mozhetadeshourutongyoushoumozuoshouxiangtongdeyonghutichuwentishi，shuo：“neiyouyounaxiebutaihaoni?jiusuannianjidale，renmenzhiyoubaoyiqi，meiyouyuwangdishuomouxiexiyudenuanxinqinghua，neidoushihaode。

dangxingdereqingzaihunyinzhongjianjiandixiaochushi，yikuaiergenggaideyingdangyeyourenmendexinqing。renmenyingdangjinxingdeshixingconggaoduzhongshizongshudaogaoduzhongshipinzhidebianhua，renmenmeiyouneimaduodereqing，neijiushiyishizhuxingyiqiezhengchangdebufen，danrenmenyoudoushuobuwandenuanxinqinghua，youwenroudexiangyong，youfengfuduocaidexintaizhuangtaitihuideng，zheizhongshirenjinzhonglaoniangaoduzhongshipinzhideyoudian，shiyuqingnianrenshidegaoduzhongshizongshubuyiyangde。

zenyangjingyinghunyin?zaihunyinxuezhemenlaikan，xiangaiduoniandefufudexingmeiyouxiangnianqingrenneibandaolaireqingqianglie，keshitamenhuigengjiazhongshineixindetihuiheganqingdejiyu，zaiquanweizhuanjiamenlaikan，zhonglaonianfufudexingbingbushijiangdile，zhishixiaorongzaiyishizhuxingdehenduoguanjiandianli。

2　改进婚姻意识

danghunyinyuelaiyuedaijuaneryayiganshi，henduoren jianghuiduihunyinqueshilezixinxin。wojuedeguanjiandeshijianchibuxie，hunyinbingmeiyougenggainaxie，jinjinpengdaolediguqi，woxianzaiyaozuodejiushishuojingjingdedenghou。denghouhunyinzhiheshiguoxiantan，zaicizaipingyuanqushanghuanledegechang。zenyangjingyinghunyin?zhimingxintaidaoshiamasijuede，fufuwanhunhenduonian，weihejingchangganjuelingyifangbuxiangdangshizishenxiangxiangdemoyang?

wojuede，congkeguanxingshangshuo，lingyifangbenzhimeiyougenggai，genggaidejiushinidexinqing，niduilingyifangdexiwang。yinci，amasijuede，yaocongbenzhineixinligaijinzishenaidenengli，bubiyixindiranglingyifangbianweizishenyuanyidemoyang，zhishibuguanlingyifangruhe，zishendoujianghuiyouyikefengshuodexinquailingyifang。

3　yaoyouyikeganenzhixin

congliangrenbujiutaruhunyindediyiriqi，jiuzhongjiuleqingganburongyishizhongxinxian，yaoxiangranghunyinlengzang，bixubuduandeyunying、shangfei，renmendexintaizhuangtaiyebixubuduandiaojie，bianyurongruganqingdebianhua。danghunyin“kushuiqi”daolai，renmenchukaixuehaoyunying，haibixudongdeganen。

liangrenkeyiyiqishizheizhongyuanfen，meirizaoshangxinglaishi，kanjianshenbianshuishudelianren，yaoxiexieta(ta)youshouhouzishentaguolemeitianlvtu。dongdeganen，caimingbaiaixi，aixishifufubicihuijishenhouganqingdejiben。wulunzenyangbixutuijijirendekaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，yaoshanyufajuelingyifangdeyoushi，xiexietadailainiderenhe。renzhenquaizhenideduifang，zhinengxinlitianmanai，caihuimingbaiaixizheifenairen。