女人只有该结婚的爱情 没有该结婚的年龄

dahuoershizhonghaoqixinnvshi wanhun nianjiduoshaoqian，nvshifadingjiehunnianlingshiduoshao？keshixiangduinishuodeshi，nvxing，zhinenggaiwanhundeganqing，meiyougaiwanhundenianji。huoxuhuanshiyaozunxunnvrenfadingjiehunnianlingde，keshiwofaxianlezaiwoguojuedaduoshudenvshifangfobixubeizhengtiguihuayiyang。

yincijinriwangbianbingbushixianggendajiashuonvshifadingjiehunnianlinghuoshishinvxingjiehunnianlingdouhao，zhishixianggendahuoertanyitanzuoweinvshi，yingdangruhequgenzheiyishehuifazhanhemujiaowang，shixucongzheiyishehuifazhan，bierenshuoshenmeshishenme，huanshigaiyouzishendeguannian？

一、自小人们被潜移默化着这种观念，那便是在相对的年龄要做相对的事

20suibiyehou，chuquzhaofenhaodegongzuo，25suijiubixuyaochuduixiang，nvrenfadingjiehunnianlinglaidao，30suiyiqianbixuyaoquqishengzi，30suiyihougongzuohaiyaoquyuwending，tongqingdali，zuogehaotaitai。

meiyicitingjianneiyangdejiaofashi，woneixinzhixiangwen1genanti，weihe？weihenvxinglaidao30jiubixuyaojinxingquqishengzidezongtimubiao，weihe30suiyihouhaiyaozhushiquyuwending，weisha40suideshiri，jiubukeyixiang20jisuineibansuiyidihuozhu？shehuifazhanshouyunvshidebiaoshiguoduo，laidaobixunianling，“dalingdalingshengnv”“shengdoushi”biaoshihuajiezhongerlai，weihenansheng30jiushishuoyizhihua，nvxing30jiushishuodoufuzhabaidai？kebei，fuquanzhishehuifazhanzaoyishiguoqu，rujinshi，shinvquanchengba。

二、有句话称为，宁可傲慢的单身男女，也不肯低贱的恋情

jinqigedatoutiaoxinwenpinchu“zhangjingyingfengkeliyi”guanjianzi，wojuedezaojiuzaiyiqianzhangjingyingyanchanghuidangchangkaiyancuihunfengkedeqingkuangshijiujiandaolejintiandexiachang。

nvxing，nidishengxiaqihairenweidadongquanqiudadongta？ganqingliderenguoranquanshimangde，jianshizhezaiqing，pangguanzheqing，wojuedezainixuehuifangxiashenziweiquqiuquanqumoudesuoweixingfushi，zheiyiduanqingganshoujiyouxili，nijiushishuoshibaizhele。kanleguoduobingbushineimaaiqueyiqideganqing，yudaoshixiongxingheermengzhuangjirenweineibianshizhenqing，enaiyumianbu，shushiyuxiguanxing，zuizhongbaijilerenshengguanheshiji。

shi，ruhequanshiyisheng，chaimiyouyanjiangcuchapingdanrushuishiyisheng，zhengzhirumamingcunshiwangdeguoshenghuoshiyisheng，jiannanxianzutonggangongkudoushiyisheng，zishenqingkuanglejueceniweilaishenghuo。

三、做真实的自己，迈自身的步，他人的优劣都仅仅参照

huozaishehuifazhanzheiyidatuantizhong，renmenjuedaduoshurendouhuiweitarenerhuo。

kantarendemianse，tingtarendexianyanxianyu，zaiyitarendejianyi，xianmujiduzhetarendeyishizhuxing，zhuiqibenzhi，zhangqiyilaidebuxingfukuaileyouyunizhuiqiuwanmeidebingbushixingfukuaile，zhishibitarenxingfukuaile。

laidaoshihunnianlingdenianlingmeiyoushihunnianlingdehouxuanren，kaolvfujindajiadetaolunheqinqipengyoudeducu，congconglelv，suiyizhaobenrenjiale，nvhai，zheijiushiniyishengdexingfukuailea，niguannaxietarenruhexiang，wanhunguoshenghuoshizishendeshi，juedaduoshurenjinjinguanzhunijiabujia，feichangshaoxuduorenguanzhunixingbuxingfukuaile。

huaruozhanfang，hudiezilai，yixieshiqueshiwuxuxinjigengwuxuweiquqiuquan，nikeyizuodeshibazishenbianchuse，suihouqudenghou，denghounagepeidexihuannidechuseniyepeideshangtadecongmingderen，suihouliangrenyiqi，qinfennuli，laiguoliangrenzishenderenshengdaolu。