婆婆媳妇不和怎么办？

 jiehunlezheizhihou，doushicongyigemoshengrenturandeshenghuozaiyiqi，jiushihenrongyidechuxianlemaodun，neimepopoxifubuhezenmeban？womenjiuyaoquxunzhaolepoxizhijianweishabuhedeyuanyin，jiexialaidajiajiuyiqilailejieyixiapoxiweishabuhedeyuanyinba。

一、婆媳为什么会不和

 popoxifubuhedeyuanyinshimeigerengexingbutong，sikaodejiaodudouhaishibutongde，nanmianshihuiyouzhekekepengpengde，jibianshifuqidoushiyiyang，hekuangshinimenpoxizhijianla，zheigeshikeguanshishi。poxizhijiandewentijiuhaishiruhezhaodaoqiadangxiangchuzhidaodewenti。

 ruguonimenmeigerendoushizhanzailezijidejiaodu，ruguoyoushishoulaolezijidejiaodushibukenzuochuxiugaiherangbu，neimezheigemaodundechanshengajiushizaowandeshi，erqiehuiyuejiyueshen、yuejiyueda。zongguishiyoujiqiao、youbaoronghouheyoutuirangheyougaibiande。erbushiquyaomeanzhaolezijidewodeyiyuan，yaomejiushianzhaonideyiyuan，neimezheigeshijiejiubushiqutiantiandazhangjiuguaile。

 ruguoxiangmingbailezheidian，neimepoxizhijianguanxikenengshihuixiangduihaodeduo。zainimendejutidecaozuoshang，haiyaomingbaiyijianshi：renherendoushiyougexing、youganqing、youjiazhiquxiangde，poxizhijianshiqubawozhulezheigegenbendian，zhihouzaiyongxindequfenxilequzhaodaolefangfa。popoxifubuhezenmeban？

 neimezheizhongmangmudequyinghe，huozhejiushiyiweidequrenweilezijixiangyaoshenmeerbujiangukaolvdajia，huozhejiushianbujiubandequanzhaolezijiyiqianyangchengdeneiyitaolaidengdeng，wangwangshihushilezijidepopodegexingquxiang。dangzheigeshiqingdejinzhanjiubushizijixiangxiangneiyangdeshihou，dangdaoleyigejixian，maodunjiushihuibiranbaofa。

二、婆媳文化差异

 poxizhijianweishabuheni？poxizhijiandemaodunniyechangchangshijiatingdeweijidedaohuosuo。xifuyupopodemaodunjiushizaiyulewenhuabeijingdechayi。poponijiushishidengjiguannianjiqiangdechuantongnvren，erxifunijiuwomenshijieshouguogaodengjiaoyuzhuiqiurengezunyandexiandainvxing。

 zheiliangzhongdewenhuadechongtuyebiranshihuitixianzaishenghuodexuduoxijiezhong。jimaosuanpixiaoshiderijiyuelei，xifunijiushihuijuedezheigeyangzishiquzunyan。poximennenggouqujudaoyigewuyanxia，shiyinweilezheigetongyigeren。lianggenvrendouaizhezheiyigenanren，mianduizhezheiliangfendetongyangdechendiandiandeai，erzibixushenzhongduidai，xiediaohaoleliangzhezhijiandeguanxi。

erzibuyinggaizuo“faguan”，yinweiqingguannanduanjiawuan;yeshibuyinggaiquzuoyuzu，yinweinideqiziabushiqiutu。