如何婆媳相处？

 suyushuo：“henduoniandexifuaochengpo”，poxizhijian，shi1gelingrentoutongdenanti，jiejuehaolahuijinidehunhoushenghuogengweixingfupingwen;jiejuebutaihao，xiangdangyujihunyinshenghuozhongxiayikedingshizhadan。nvshihunhou，yingduideyizhengnandianjiushishuozenyangpoxijiaowang，jiarupoxizhijianbutaihao，zheiyijiadingshijifeigoutiao，benzhiwuxingfukuailekexun。poxizenyangwenhuajiaoyuni？zenyangquanpoxijiatingni？poxiruhekandaibiciguanlianni？nenggourangjiatingxingfu。

一、怎样婆媳交往呢？

1、jijigenjiapolaguanxi

 shenghuoqijushi，yaoduoyujiapogoutongjiaoliumouxiegongzuojingyan，liruchanhouhou，pifuhenchalexuduo，taolunshenmehufupinjiaoweigongnengqiangda，sheiqianglietuijiandejiaoweihao，zongzhiyebingbushitaiguizheixiehuatitaolun。xianxiashi，haikeyihejiapoquguangyiguangjie，zaitashichuanshiyaojijidezanyangtachuanshanghenpiaoliang，neiyangxintaizhuangtaitifangshaodian，daziranjiaowangqilaihuigengweifangdekai，gengweigaoxinghemu。

2、meiyoujiapoyanqianyulaogongfapiqi

 laogongshijiapodebaobeierzi，xianghulijie，beinishangpinle30niandehaizijixifuhulaihequ，ninengruhexiang？yinerjishineixinyiduziqi，yebubidangzhongjiapodemianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，duozaiwuzilihaohaodichizejiuneng，tashizenyangpoxijiaowangdezheijigechangyongzhaoshiqiaomenqiyi，henhaoyong。

3、tingjiapojiangyiwangdeshi

 laodajiaquanshizhiqiandeshihaijideyulaiyuqingxi，jinqideshifandaobiandemohubuqing，yinerhenxiaitaolaozheyiwangruhe，tashizheizhongzhaoxunyouyuegandebiaodaxingshi，zuoweixifudeni，poxizenyangwenhuajiaoyu？nenggoushidudezhangwo，tishengxianghuganqingdejiyu，haikeyicongjiaponeixuedeyizhaobanshi，zhongjiujiapodenianlingbaifangzaina，qinshenjingliguodehaowuyiwenyaobiniduoyixie。nenggoucongzheidangzhongxiaofangxiegongzuojingyan，yekeyirangtacongqingtuzhongxunzhaochengjiugan，daziranpoxizhijianyuelaiyuehaojiubushiwentile。

4、记牢家婆的生辰

 biehulveshengchendebiyaoxing，jiaposhengchendeqianjitianhaiyaozhaoyijiandehaodejiudiancantinghuoshishicanguan，yijiazichulaihaohaodideweijiapoqingshengri，huoxuqinjianjieyuedejiapohuoxuhuiyixiexutaonitaishechilangfeiqian、taibubiannaxiede，danwojuedexintaizhuangtaiyiyoubudedechaozheni，qinmijiechuni，chuwaiherenxianliaoshiyehuizanyangnideyichu，tashizenyangpoxijiaowangdezheijigechangyongzhaoshiqiaomenqiyi。

5、zaijiapoyanqianbubitaiguopapa

 henzaoyikanlezheiyipoxizhijianxintaifudaoduixifudegaojiele。jinguanniganjuedajiaxiguanzheileigoutongjiaoliufangfa，keshilaorenzhongjiushilaoren，tamenyongyouchuantongshideguannian，zheirutongzaibierenyanqianxiangtong，gennanpengyoutaiguodepapadoushiduitarendezheizhongbuzhongshi，tashuo，zheijiushinidejia，nixiangyaoruhejiuruhe，tashiduile，keshijiazhongzhulelaoren，zheixinghuanshiyingdangyaoliuyide。

6、duoxiaoshunjiaposhiyingdangde

 zenyangpoxijiaowangni？jinguanjiapomeiyouyangni，keshitayanglenidelaogong，yincinijiranailaogong，haiyaolejiehaiziduimamadeqingxu，haiyaohetayikuaierzunzhongtademama，niyeshibabamama，dangnidelaogongyunibabamamajiangzui，qingshi，ninengkaixinma？yinciduojijiapodianxiaorong，duopeitashuoshuohua。niduitademamahao，tadaziranyehuiduinidemamahao。

7、bubinajiapohemazuojiaowei

 jiapoduizishendeguinv、haiziheduixifuhao，neijiushibenxing，meiyoubixuduji。jiapoduiqitazhoulihao，xifuhaikeyilejie，youyurenchangyouwuyuanwuguquankankanbuguanderen，zheihenyiqiezhengchang。jiapoduilaogongdedixionghao，neigengnenggoulejie，neijiushinilaogongdenantibuguannideshi。zenyangquanpoxijiatingni？bubinajiapohemazuojiaowei，guinvshizishendemamashoushangdiaoxiaderou，nengmeiyouqingganma？jiaposhilaogongdemama，youyulaogongdeguanliandahuoerganglejiebujiu，jishishixifudemama，neidoushi“jimu”，yudaohaode“jimu”dezhanbizhenshitaidi，bubisheqiu。