婆婆和媳妇怎样相处融洽：如何处理婆媳关系不好的问题

 nvshihunhouzheiyizhongjiurangrennanjiedenantijiuchuxianle，neibianshizenyangjiejuepoxizhijiandeguanximaodun?popohexifuzenyangxiangchurongqia?ruhechulipoxiguanxibuhaodewenti?

一、婆婆和媳妇怎样相处融洽：如何处理婆媳关系不好的问题

1.了解一下下家婆性子

 ninengcaiyongdeshouxian，doushizuiguanjiandeyibu，yitishengnidezhangmuniangshidajiadeguanlianhuachongzudeshijianyuta zhiqiandehunyin，zaicunyouyunidelaogongdequezhen。

 popohexifuzenyangxiangchurongqia?ruhechulipoxiguanxibuhaodewenti?tiyiniyizhizaihunqianzuishao1niangangkaishihetaanshihudongjiaoliu。hetayiqimaidongxi，hetayiqikandianying，huoshipeizheninanyoudeqinrenquxiuxiandujia/1riyou。zheijiangbaozhengdajialiangrenzaiqingqingsongsong，wugongzuoyalideziranhuanjingzhongxianghuxinrenbingxiangduidishezhiqidai。

2.尽量和家婆拉开距离

 buguanzuixihuanhuotaoyannidejiapo，nijianghuibingbushiyizhikeyitiaoxuanyutahudongjiaoliudeshuiping。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nibixuyizheizhongduidajialiangrendoushenxinjiankangdefangfalaikandainidezhangmuniang。ershouxianshizaiganqingshangfenlichulaizishen。

 popohexifuzenyangxiangchurongqia?ruhechulipoxiguanxibuhaodewenti?bubichangshijiangtashizuonide“lingyimingmama”。zheileijianjiehaowuyiwenhuizaochengchijinghexinhan。weibiyouyutadeyiqieguoshi，zhishiyouyurenmendebabamamashirenmendebabamama。qidaiyinqin“xiaitamen”zhenduiyinqinshibuhelide。

 xuehuifangxiatatuolishijideqidai。taburongyixiaitadeyixiecengmian。bubijixiwangyutagenggai。batashizuoyigeqinqipengyou，henxiangyigejishuzhuanyedeshoujilianxiren - yigenibuyongxiangbenrenxiangtongxiaidanrengbixuzhongshideren。

3.不必和她探讨她不认可的事儿

 weitayunizishen(jiarubixu，yeweilenidelaogong)jiedingkejienahebunengjienadejiexian。ruguonifuwuchengnuoleyixiejiexian，zhongshinideyibianjiushinidejiaodayiwu。

bubilijiyutatantaozheizhongjiexian - laiyuanyutajianghuiwuhuideqianyipiren。yunindezhixiqinshudachenggongshi。

 jiexianyingdangshikeguanxingheshijide。biru，“woquebaobuguantazishendegerenxingweizenyang，wodoushishizhongzhongshita。zuoweishouyi，wowubiquebaotaburongyilinian/yiyuezhiliuchaochuxyztian/zhou。“wenxintixingbiaozhundekeguanxingshuiping。bubijienatashenpangnenggoubiaoshudebianjietiaojian，biru“tayingdangzhongshiwo”。

4.对家婆表达重视

 nibuyongxiangtaxiangtongxiaita，zhishiyaoduizishenzuochufenbian。yinweinideguanlian，tayinghuodenidezhongshi，rutongniyinghuodetadezhongshi。lakaijuli，danshizhongshita，jibiantameiyoushouyi。tingqilaihaoxiangcong19yigedianxingxingdeyinninanshishawenzhuyigexinshijishuohua?：dzaiciyueduwenzhangyizhaodaoyuangu。

5.以和为贵

 wotiyinibubizhuyaobiaoxianchuduitadezhongshi，bubiyouyuwojuedebuguanzhuangkuangzenyangquanshi“qiadang”dezuofa，zhishiyouyuxiwangnifangzhizuochubiedeshierdebuliangyingxiang。

 biru，jiarutadeshumianguandiansunhailenierqienibianbo，tajianghuihuiyunidelaogongtanyitanzheijianshiqing。dangtaneiyangzuoshi，nijiangwuzhengjunibei“renao”le。tajiangbianchengniduitadeguandiandezhuguanxingzuozhan，meirenhuihuodezheixie。yiner，zhongyaoshibubijitayiqiejiangniyunidelaogonghendudejiyu。

6.不必不辞劳苦

 zheishibushidaibiaoniyingdangyuelaiyuewenxunbingjienanizhangmuniangsuozuoderenhe?meiyou。youguanrenmenganqingdeyigeyouyisideshishi，dangdajiajingongbierenshi，tamenhuixiwangfanying，ruguobushi，tamenhuijuedelibucongxin。dangniganjuenidejiapoxuyichangshidajiaoni，neimanizuiqiangjingdebianjiejiushishuochedihuijuedafu。

 zheibingbuyiweizhenixixindirenshoutachangshuodehuomeiyoushiweiderenhe。zheihuirangtaganjuenijienatadeyouyiyingxiangli。jiarutashuo/zuoyiqiezheibanjinudeshierjiniganjuekongzhibulezishen，qingyuanliangzishen(gaozhitanihuranjuedeshentibushufuhuonaxie)bingliquwuzi。