如何与婆婆相处：儿媳妇如何讨好婆婆

 jiaponenggoucaiqurenhezheizhongfangfa。tajianghuishiyigexingqingwenhe，youxianzizaidenvjiazhang，tajuedezishengenghaoxiangyigepojuzerenxindepenyou，erbingbushiquanweirenwu。ruheyupopoxiangchu?erxifuruhetaohaopopo?

一、如何与婆婆相处：儿媳妇如何讨好婆婆

1.别在家婆眼前争丈夫

 ruheyupopoxiangchu?erxifuruhetaohaopopo?xuduoxifuerganjuejiagelezheiyinansheng，jialaidaozheige，neimazheiyinanshengjiuchediguizishenquanbule，qishirangjiapohennanshou，youyutazhongjiuhuanshizishendehaizia!

 gaoqingshangdexifueryaoguanniandaoyigenanti，zhangfuaizhenigenzhangfuaitamuqinmeiyouduibixing，tashierzhongbuyiyangdedingyi，bingqiezaixuduonanshengxinzhongzhong，niyemeifaqudaimamadeyingxiangli。

2.清晰自身观点

 genjuwaibujingjiguanlifangfajiapochuanchudeweijingqingqiudeyuerjiaoyutiyinenggouzaochenghenduodejiazhongqingjieju，youyuzhongjiutazaiquanbuquanqiuzhongzuodeshi。

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 jiarutadezuileni，danyejianchibuxiezishendeguandian。qingjilao，zheijinjintiyi，erbingbushichengwenfa，ninwuxuyuanyihuozunzhaota。zaitadeluowu，wurudefangfa，tajinjinxiangxiezhu，yincibubichedizhongzhiting，burannihuicuoguolebuguanghuadejingshi。jiaruhuihuaiyuelaiyueshifencaogao，genggaizhutifengge(loehmanndezhouniantemai!)huowenminglimaodikuanrongzishen。

 cong“luomihemixieerdeputonggaozhonghejiatuanyuan”nalaideyiduanhua：“nikeyiqingyuanliangwoma?wozhiqianhuashanglejiao，xuezilitianmanlexueshui。

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3.别在家婆眼前说老公坏话

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4. 不必在家婆眼前提钱

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 yunyongta。dangniqueshixiangzaifangzhidikangdelingwaituisongtadebaozhuang，nenggoukaolvdaomouxieliuxingci：“chouchong”，“fensuidequanzidongxiyiji”，“bairike”he“luoyimanzhounianjiniantemai”。

5. 在家婆眼前不必粗心

 dangjiapoqiancheshuangxiangyiwushi，henxianzhutahuixiangnishiyonglingwaiguinvhuoerxifu。dangxiaopengyoumencanjiazaiqizhongshi，naizhijianghuikanshangqutagengxiaiyizufenxiaosunzixiaosunnv。

 ruguoniyuanyimouxienankandexijubiaoyan，buranbubiqinshenjienaerqiehaowuyiwenbubiyutadikang，buguanzheizhongqingkuangshizaitairangrennaonu。

6.常常给家婆送礼物讨好家婆

 haowuyiwen，jiapojianghuishilibucongxindelipinzengyuzhe。jibiankanshangqunidemilguoqu5nianzhongcongskymallwenjianmuluzhongjinxinglejuedaduoshushujiamaidongxi，haiyaojienatajiyunideyiqiewupin，jibianshiziyaliezui。tashifeichanghaodeyeli。bubiguoduodiyueduwenzhanglipin......chufeishitarangniyigedashuzilinyushichengbingdingyueshapezazhiqikan。zaineileizhuangkuangxia，tachangshigaoshengqingxidijiangchumouxiehua。

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 huoshiyumouxiepenyoucouzaiyiqi，paochuqu“kongbudejiapolipin”tingyuanlideshichangxiaoshou，bingjiangyinglijuanzhujibendizuihuobaodecishanzuzhi。zheierweiyidejiqiaoshi，dangnidejiapofeichangnvedaikuang，bingguidingzaitajiyutamenyihou“yingyong”tadelipin。chuziyuzheiyiyuangu，nijianghuiyuanyibaocunyigebuyongdejiapolipinzuishao1nian - biewangjizainidaoshihoukandaotashipeidaimaliyakailidanxiangshui - suihouzaisheqita。