出现婚姻危机不要太冲动，夫妻两要冷静

 youdefufuzaizhengchaohuolengbaolideneishihou，jiuhuiganjuezheixiehunyinzaicibuxialaile，changchanghuichuxian“liyi”dexiangfa。 hunyin queshilaidaobukejiuyaodechujinglemeiyou?yiqieshier，meiyouhuadaojuhao，doubingbushijieshu，douyeyouqidai。hunyinpoliezenmezhengjiuhunyinshenghuo?ruhechulihunyinweiji?

一、婚姻破裂怎么拯救婚姻生活?

1. liefenzhengchaomingxi。

 chanshengmaodunyihou，bubizhituzhezhengzhi，liangrenshizhepingjingxialai。dangliangrendouxinpingqihedeneishihou，bazaochengzhengchaodeyuanguxiedaomingxi，suihouzhuyizhaodaozheizhongzhengchaonantidejiejuefangshi 。zaizheiyiquanguochengzhong，dajiahuifajuenantibingmeiyouxiangxiangzhongneimabijiaoyanzhong。yiqi，zaidajiazhaoxunjiejuefangfadequanguochengzhong，hainengxuehaozhihoujiejuehunlianwenti、qingganwentidefangshi 。

2.改变现状。

 bubiyizhixiangzheiruhequgenggaita/ta，tangruonizongshiwangtuqugenggailingyifang，feichangrongyilinglingyifangzaochengbumanqingxu，jieguotongchangchuhuyiliao，jinimeifajiena。fanguolai，niyingdangzuodeshiduokaolvdaozishendebugouhenanti，danglingyifangzuochumouxielingnijuedefangandeshiershi，ruhezuonenggouzaijianchibuxieaiyufengqudeqifenxianiuzhuanjushi，genggailiangrenjiaozhedejushi。

3.丢弃消极情绪。

 naonu、zhuiqiuwanmei、falaosao、zeguai、quxiaojiqibuyiweiranquanshihunyinzhongdexiaojiqingxu，tamenzongshijinshidiaodajiazhongjianbenlaijijizhudongxingfudeguanlian，rangdajiafashengzhengzhi、zhengzhi。ruhechulihunyinweiji?bubirangnaonushengji，xuehaoguanliziji，，xuehaozhenjing。dangdajiazhengzhongjianyiqie1gegangkaishiyuelaiyuexingfenshi，lingwaibixujinkenengrenshou，denglingyifangpingjingxialaizaiyikuaierzhaodaojiejuefangan。zhinengdiuqixiaojiqingxu，ninenggoujiandaohunyinlingsuizhongxingfudeyibian。

4.关注不可以少。

 yaobaozhengzheiyidianerfeichangjiandan，jiushishuozaipingchangderichangshenghuoduojilingyifangyidianerguanai，ranglingyifangtihuidaonidexin。renshiganqingdongwu，doushiqipanduifangdeguanai、aixi。

5. 相互决策。

 hunhoushenghuozhongdeshiershiliangrendeshi，bingbushimoulingyifangdeyiwu。yinci，pengdaonantibixujuece，bubizhushihuiying“nizishenkanzheban”，huozhedanfangjiujuece。niyingdangjijizhudongmingquetichuzishendeguandianhejianyi，yiqihaiyaoyongxintingquyijianlingyifangdetiyiherenwei，suihoucongzheidangzhongxunzhao1gekaolvliangceyaoqiudejiejuefangshi 。