不好的婆媳关系危害家庭，如何处理婆媳关系?

 dahuoerguangfandeyinxiangzhong， poxizhijian jiuhaoxiangliangzhikexing，yizhizhengfengxiangdui，tamenzhongjiandefenqishibunengdiaohede。keshijiarurenmenqueshixianggaijinxianghudepoxizhijiandeguanxi，douhuiyoufangfa。ruhechulipoxiguanxi?

一、如何处理婆媳关系

考虑婆婆的爱慕虚荣

 rendouxiaitinghaotingdehua，laorengengbixuhong。zaigenpopojiaowangshi，yaozaishenghuodeguanjiandianzhongkuata，liruzanyangtakanqilaihennianqing，zhudecaihenmeiwei，zaiqinqipengyouyanqianhaiyaozhuangzuobujingyididuokuata，lirutafeichangqinkuaikeyizuo，zishenhewoxuedexuduozheileidehaotingdehua，jianxinzheizhonghuaxunsuhuichuanrupopodeerduolimianli，rangtaxinhualufangde。poxixiangchuzhidaohuoxukuarendoushiyoufangfade，bubifeichanghaoliuxupaimadikua，yaoliuyifencungan，yuyanzhipodianjiuxing。

yongxingdongbiaoshu qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan!

 huayanqiaoyudeyiqi，yeyaoxianghupeiheshentilixing。zaifuqinjie、zhongyangjie、poposhengchenneiyangkaixinderizisongpopozheifenlipin，jueduikeyilajinliangrenzhongjiandejianju。pingchanghaiyaochangchangjilaonianrenzengtianxiewupinsongxiemeiweide，buzaiyiyouduogui，guanjiandeshibiaoshuzheifenqingyi。liruyifukuzijiushishuohenshihedetiaoxuan，chuanshangqunenggouhenyinyiweihaodidafu“niyeshinaermaide?”“zheijiushiwoxifuersongde!”congzheizhongwujianshangtayekeyitihuidaonideqingyi，dazirannengtigaoxianghujiandeqinggan。

bubizaibierenyanqianshuopopodeshuoxianhua

 haoguimijuhuihuodong，taolundeshuzuiduodefangfoshijiazhongde“epopo”，woyebuhaipayouyirinidehuabeinuliyanfadihouchuanrupopoerduolimianlima?bingqieshuotarenshuoxianhuaderenyehuibeiqingkan。yinci，jibiannilejiepopozaibierenyanqianshuonideshuoxianhua，yebubi yizhibaoyuan，yiyanhaiyan，jiangzishengenshuobailede“epopo”lalaidao1gejibie。bujinbukeyidangbierenshuopoposhuoxianhua，duizishendezhangfutanqipopodenantihaiyaojiushilunshi，erbukeyikuadaqici。

shiyanhaozishenderenwujiaose

 jinguanguanpopojiaoma，keshibubirenweijiunenggoubapopodangzuoqinbaneibankandai。munvliangzhongjiannenggoumeidameixiao，nenggouwanxiao、gaozhuonong，jibianqueshiyongyouzhengchao，yeburongyiqueshiweihaixueyuanzuzhouzhenqing。zaipopoyanqian，ganwanbukeyixiangzaiqinbayanqianneibanjiaozongnaopiqi，shinengbaozhengjuanqimei，bawohaojianju。

zhangwohaokandailaogongdexintai

 zaipopoyanqian，kandailaogongdexintaidanshibixuzuoxifuerhaohaodisiliangyixiaxiade。popoxintengnideerzi，jiaruzaipopoyanqiandahuxiaojiaozishendezhangfu，popohaowuyiwenhuibukaixin，yincixifuerzaipopoyanqian，bixuyaojizhangfuliumianzi，shaodahuxiaojiaozhangfu，rangpoponeixinhuodejunheng，yeyaobimianpopoxianmubuzhierbushiheyouguoduodeqinmiwujiandongzuo。poxixiangchuzhidaoliqupopodeshiyeyihou，niairuhedahuxiaojiaozhangfudoukeyi。

求同存异

 popohexifuerzhongjianchalexinyidai，shenghuoziranhuanjingyujiaoyujinglidengyouyidingdechabie，feichangrongyixiangtongzheijianshieryoubuyiyangguandian，dangzaochengwuchajianyideneishihou，jiarubixuyaoranglingyifangyuanyizishendeguandian，huijirenyizhongniyeshi1gehenguzhideren。yincidangxianghujianyihebulaishi，yaoshibushejidaoyuanzewenti，nenggoushizheqiutongcunyi，huanjuhuashuonenggoubujienapopodejianyi，yebukeyibizhepoporenkezishenjianyi。