追求真实的包容是既能责己也容纳已

 sixiangjiafeierbahashuo“nidediyiyiwushishinizhuiqiuzijixingfukuaile。nizijizhuiqiuwanmei xingfukuaile，niyejiunengshitarenxingfukuaile。”neimajiujingshenmejiaoxingfu?ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen？

 xingfukuailemeiyouguifan，youxierenshuo，shenxinjiankangcaisuanshijiaodadexingfukuaile，xiaohaiqiantuleyeshixingfu;youxierenshuo，quanjiaankanghejiatuanyuan、hexieshenghuojiushixingfukuaile，yishiwuyoushenghuofuyu、guanyunhengtongxishilianlianbianshixingfukuaile;youxierenshuo，xingfushishangbaiwanhaoyunjujiangzazhongnaoqiao、zhijishangxiaxiangsui……

 zaifengyutongzhouderenshenglushang，meiyigerendouhuiqiaojixingfukuailededamen，douhuizhaoxunneifenguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile。laotianyeshigongpinggongzhengde，tajimeiyigerenyigexingfumimaqudakaixingfukuailededamen。keshiyouderenyibeizishixianrenshengjiazhi，zhongjiuyemeizhaodaoxingfukuaile;youderenziyiweishizhenxingfu，shijishangtayagenbumingbainaxiecaisuanshizhenshidexingfukuaile;daliangderenshimeifalejiezijiyouzhexingfukuaile，tongchangzaixingfukuailedeqingkuangxiazhangwobutaihao，rangxingfukuailetaizaolikaizishen。

 meiyouzhenshipojiexingfumima，yejiubutaikenengkaiqixingfukuailededamen。xingfujiushiyizhongxintaizhuangtai，fuyoubuyidingshixingfu，wuqianbuyidingbuxingfukuaile。xingfujiushiyizhonghuodadadudexintaizhuangtai，xingfukuailelaizirichangshenghuodeqingqingsongsongyukaolv，jiqizhenduijianglaitianmanwujindeqidaiheqidai。zhenduiyigerenhuoshiyigejiazhonglaijiang，buguanpinkunhuanshipoju，qiongyouqiongdexingfukuaile，pojufudexingfukuaile。zhengsuowei“suifusuipinqiekuaile，bukaiweixiaoshichizhe”。qiongdexingfushizhizuzhechangle，fudexingfushihaoshanleshi。pojubingbuyidingdouxingfukuaile。richangshenghuohenduowupinyuanbiqiancaiguanjian，henduowupinshihuaqianmaibudaode，zaiqizhongjiubaohanxingfukuaile。xingfukuaileqishibushihennan，rendexingfukuailejuedeshihexingmingdebixu、jingshenshizhidebixu、shehuifazhandebixumiqiexiangguande。neixinshangyongyoukaolvdejuede，jiushijiaodadexingfukuaile。ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen？

 xingfujiushiyizhongtihui，zhimingrenshibuyidingjiuxingfukuaile，sanxianbuyidingbuxingfukuaile。xianmujidutongnianlingrenyoufangyoucheyouhaogangwei，ganjuechengjialiyeshixingfudeyaodian;fengzhucannian，xianmutarendebufagangjingyouli，ganjueyiqiedouyibuguanjian，zhiyoushenxinjiankangcaisuanshizuikaopudexingfukuaile。youxiaodaoda，yizhiyibianchakanxingfudedingyi，yibianzhaoshoujiangyanqiandexingfukuailegankai，zhidaoquanbudeduocaidoubianweihuailian，caifajueyicuoguoleshengmingzhongmeilideshijie，zhijianguiluyili，suichukaiguoxingfukuailedehuaban。

 xingfujiushiyizhongyiwu，hunyinshenghuobuyidingshixingfu，danshenbuyidingbuxingfukuaile。meimanhunyinqujueyuzhongshi，shiyifenyiwu。chihaochuanhaozhuhao，bianshimeimanhunyin。zaishichangjingjitizhidejinri，shehuicaifusuiranshijiatinghemurichangshenghuodequebao，danjuebushiweiyi。jiaruduihunyinshenghuotaobizeren，neimazaiyongronghuaguidehunyinshenghuo，yebibushangdanshenxingfukuaile。

 xingfujiushiyizhongxinxin，wanshanbuyidingshixingfu，canfeibuyidingyebuxingfukuaile。xingfujiushirenshengdaoludeyizhongjingshenshizhi，yizhongzhuiqiuwanmei，yizhongpingchangrenmeifalejiehequshijianhuodongdejuewu。baozhengzizunziai、zizunxin、zili、xinxin，bianhuichangchangganshoudaoxingfukuaile。rangtarenhuodeheyouzhexingfukuaile，tongchangbianshizishendejiaoda、zuizhangqidexingfukuaile。

 xingfujiushiyizhongyanchishijianjiaozhangdeduirichangshenghuodekaolvhejuederichangshenghuoyoujidakuailebingshunlichengzhangdiqidaibuduanyoujiudekaixinqingxu。bingbingbushiguidingrichangshenghuodemeiyigeshikequanshikaixinde，yaogaoqingchutongchuyeshixingfudeyibufen。youyueganlaizimubiaogan，xingfukuaileyoumangqu，sangshiguodeyouxiurencaizhiqibaogui。yaoxunzhaoxinmoshi，zhegaixinlingshenchudebuzixin，zhouyinyoushang，rangqibianchenglishishijiandeyibufen，yaofangxiabaofu，chihuaerxing。

 zhuiqiuwanmeirenhuozheyaoyouyigepantou，bingqiezheiyipantouyaoyouyidianshiyongjiazhi。renyaoyouyidianzerengan，yaoyouyidiangaoshanggan。yigerenkeyibuxinfojiao，danwubiyaoxindianshenme。yaoxinyijisiliyishangdekuanguangdewupin。ruomaizaifansuheyongchangchentudangzhong，meiriquanshiqinqinwowoyouyanjiangcu，neimejiuhuiganjueyibeiziheguoyitianmeiyoushiduoshaochabie，neijiuyaorenweisuohelewushengqi。renshiyizhongqiguaideshengwu，yidingyaoweirichangshenghuozhaodianshijiyiyi。richangshenghuobenmeiyouyiyi，yinciwomenyaorangtayuelaiyueyoudianershijiyiyi。richangshenghuozishenbingbuxingfukuaile，yincidajiacaiyaoxingfukuailedirichangshenghuo。

 tiandimeiyoukendingdehaoshierhuocuoshi，jiukanzhenizenyangyingdui。rendeyisheng，rutongyitanglvyou，yanluzhongyoushubuqingdejianxinniningbukan，danyeshiyoukanbuwandexiangliu。yikexinyizhibeiandandechenshisuozhegai，gankulexinquan、andanleyanguang、shiquhuoli、queshileshiqi，weishenmehuiganshoudaoxingfukuaile?wubiweichiyizhongleguanxiangshangdexintaizhuangtai，zhenxizishendegongzuonengliheshiyongjiazhi，jibianzhishencuozhe、simianchuge，yequexinhui“bashanyeyushiyiwulu，liuanhuamingyouyicun”，neiyeyoushenmeshanpadanshi，youmeiyoushenmekankuadanshi?dengzouyiwangzaihuiwangzheiyiduanqinshenjingli，yuanxianzheixiekekebanbanshidajiabaoguiderenshengdaolujingyan。

 zhenshidebaorongshijinengzejiyerongnayi。xionghuaitandang、renshouyiji，bingbushixinxiongxiaxiao、xinxiongxiaai，zhishixindisihai、rongnabaichuan。duizijihaiyaobaorong。xuehaoyubuzixinhemuxiangchu，baochiqingxingdilejiezijideyoudianhequedian，wuxu“jizhi”zhuiqiuwanmeizishen。yingduizishendequedian，renshouzishendequedian，bingbushibuqiushangjin，wubilejiedao：meirenkeyi100%dechuse。guidingtarenjizhishibuhelide，guidingzishenjizhiyiyangmeiyoudadaoli。“zeji”nenggouweihubaoyanghemuderenjijiaowang，“rongyi”nenggoufangxiabaofu，jingranyouxudigongzuozhong、xuexipeixun、richangshenghuo。

 jiranmeiyougongzuonenglirangshijirongruzishen，neiweihebujijiqurongrushiji。jienaqueshideshiji，gangkaishichuangjiangenghaodeshenghuojilv;jieshoubukebimiandegenggai，congrichangshenghuozhaoxunxinshengliliang;bubibayoushangshizhongchufangzaijiyilideyijuli，yikaiqijuzimenjiusaluoyidi。yaobatazhuangbao，fangdaojiyilidezuishenchu，shijianbukeyichuliquanbunanti，yaoyoumudedishoushufengheposuidexin。

 meiyouyizhongshenghuoshijizhide，doumeiyouyizhongrichangshenghuohuirangyigerenchedilingrenmanyi。maiyuanderenzhikandaolezishendenuli，ermeiyoujiandaozishendegerensuode，jiarumaiyuanbianchengweirenchushideyigexiguanxing，richangshenghuojiubianchengqiulaoyiban，suichuburuyi，suichubumanyi;xiangfan，zuodezijiderenjibianqueshitinglei，yebuhuibaoyuanrichangshenghuo，youyushiyudeyizhigongxingde。

 xifangguojiamouzhumingbaokanzhengqiu“daodishisheiquanshijiezuixingyunderen?tongjifenxijieguoshi，yousizhongrenshizuizhuiqiuxingfukuailede：diyishixianhuiquxiaohaixiwanzaodemuqin;diershibujiuzhihaolahuanzhequyiyuandamenkoumusonghuanzhejianxingjianyuandeyishi;disanshizaishatanshangbujiuzhuwanhoushabaokanjianzishenzuopindexiaohai;zuihouyigehuidashixiewanlezhuzuozuizhongyigezidewenxuejia。zhengyinruci，xingfukuailebingbingbushijingtiandongdi，jinbihuihuang。shengmingzhongwennuandeshunjian、meihaodeshike，neileizaidajiaxinlinenggoujiujiuquganshoudezhenxin，bianshixingfukuailezuizhipodeshizhi。